Why can t people endure hardship nowadays?

Why do people have to suffer? As the saying goes, only when you endure hardships can you become a superior person, and enduring hardships is a process that everyone must go through, whether you are a rich second generation or an official second generation or the son of an emperor, you will inevitably have to endure hardships. Suffering is divided into physical suffering and spiritual suffering, physical suffering is not called suffering, and spiritual suffering is the real suffering; The suffering that can be said is not called suffering, and the suffering that cannot be said is the real suffering.

Physical suffering, such as eating bitter food, eating bitter medicine, and suffering caused by disease, are all suffering. Patients with diabetes should eat more bitter foods, such as bitter gourd, tartary buckwheat, etc., and must not eat sweet and sugary foods. When the human body is on fire, drink more bitter lotus seed hearts, and yellow lotus is all on fire.

What are the consequences of eating too much sugar, a mouth full of worm teeth, and teeth are ruined by sugar. When people are sick in the body, they need traditional Chinese medicine to recuperate, and the deepest memory of traditional Chinese medicine is that traditional Chinese medicine is so bitter that it is difficult to swallow. There are all kinds of indications that even people's bodies have to endure more hardships in order to be healthy.

The spiritual suffering is even more indescribable. In ancient times, there was a story about lying down and tasting courage, that is, when people are at the lowest point, they should never forget to endure hardships, work hard, and turn their lives around. When others misunderstand you, it is also the most bitter time in your own heart.

When your career fails, your love falls out of love, and you lose your relatives and friends, you are the most bitter time in your heart. No matter how hard it is, you have to get through it, otherwise you will be crushed by the suffering. The inner suffering can only be adjusted by your own strong willpower, and others will not be able to appreciate the suffering you have experienced, and the inner suffering is even more uncomfortable than the physical suffering.

Those who can endure hardships will suffer for a while, and those who can endure hardships will suffer for a lifetime. Many of the pains in life must be overcome, otherwise you will never be able to overcome the difficulties. The heavens will descend on the people, and they must first suffer their minds and muscles.

Being able to endure hardship is definitely a good thing in the long run, and people who can't endure hardship can talk about how to succeed? Success is definitely a test of one's ability to endure hardship.

There's no way for people to make this choice, and I don't believe anyone would like that.

There are many people who sit in the office every day, work in a regular large unit, and even have a staffed, seemingly decent and leisurely and stable job, but in fact they are hard and tired, the work is heavy, the overtime is serious, the salary is very high, and they have to deal with all kinds of complicated interpersonal relationships all day long, and suffer a lot of grievances.

Typical examples include grassroots lecturers in good universities, young doctors who have just worked in large hospitals, non-staff personnel in good units and institutions, grassroots civil servants in communities, teachers in schools, and so on.

However, even if it is so unsatisfactory, the work treatment, working environment, and labor security of these jobs have actually surpassed a large number of people, such as those who are unemployed, those who are flexibly employed, those who work in small and micro private enterprises, farmers who work in rural areas in mountainous areas, and migrant workers who go out to work for a day and eat a day.

In fact, for most people, any job will not be very easy, and it is difficult to find a job that is decent, relaxed, stable, and well-paid, no matter which good area it is, it is not easy for people to live, and it is even more difficult for people to live and live with quality.

This is the truth, the ideal is very plump, and the reality is very skinny.

As long as ordinary people are alive, as long as they still want to live with a little dignity and quality, they want to pursue what they want, they must have the right and ability to choose, they want to do and do some things well, and if they want to realize some value and meaning of life, they cannot be completely relaxed.

Life is destined to suffer and suffer, there is no life without suffering and tiredness, each Tongzhi person's tiredness and suffering are different, and each person's suffering and tiredness at different stages are not the same, but as long as the hardships and tiredness that have been suffered, can have a higher value return on you spiritually and materially, and can allow you to grow and progress, then these hardships and tiredness are worth it, and you should take the initiative to suffer these hardships and tiredness.

To summarize every sentence that Master Nan Huaijin said, in fact, everything is the same. Endure hardships in the bitterness, and bitterness comes willingly; Enjoy the blessings in the blessings, and the blessings will come in sorrow. If we don't cultivate good fortune, we only know pleasure, and if we enjoy all the good fortune, all the bad things will appear.

Writer Yang Daxia believes that enduring hardship is a manifestation of wisdom.

Hard-working people are more confident of success. First, hardship is the cornerstone of success, anything wants to achieve success, must go through struggle and hard work, without the spirit of hardship can not reach the other side of success, can not taste the joy of success, can not taste the joy of success, ancient and modern Chinese and foreign, all successful people are tempered in practice and hard environment. Second, since we want to endure hardships, we must first understand hardships, because the depth of understanding determines the intensity of action.

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Holding on to "suffering" is actually punishing oneself to blame others, thinking that others have caused one's situation.

Holding on to "enduring hardship" is actually to find the person who sympathizes with him and can sincerely help him.

Holding on to "enduring hardship" is actually influenced by some dogmas, such as "only by eating hardship can you become a master", "learning from the sea is endless, and working hard is a boat", "making fun of suffering". There is nothing wrong with these words, but they should not be an excuse for you to "suffer", and the excuse will block the truth.

We are in a very rich era, different from before, there are many choices; Learning can be fun, work can be fun, making friends can be fun, don't torture yourself and others with hardship.

A person who likes to "endure hardship" at the psychological level will ask the people around him to "endure hardship" as well. This situation is common in the family and in some workplaces. When you meet such a friend, you should be careful, you must be cautious when you meet such a unit, and it depends on your wisdom when you meet such a family.

Enduring hardship is not the same as success, and success does not have to be difficult. For different people, the concept of hardship is different, for example, some people especially hate socializing, so even if there are delicacies from the mountains and seas, he eats like pins and needles, which is very painful. Some people especially hate doing documents, writing materials, sitting at their desks, and holding back for a long time and not being able to find a word.

But if you really want to do this job, if you are really interested in something that is hail, then even if it is hard, you will be satisfied. Some people like to socialize every day, talk highly, and some people like to dance and write ink, express their hearts directly, the key to success is to be able to find a career that interests you, without someone forcing you, you will also take the initiative to learn, take the initiative to work hard, then success is not far from you.

Extended Materials. Nowadays, many children have too many things from an early age, such as too many toys, so that they buy a toy and go home to play with it for a few minutes and throw it aside; There are so many clothes that you need to choose which one you want to wear today for a long time when you go out, and you lose the joy of looking forward to new clothes for the New Year; When you have so much food that you develop picky eating habits or even waste food, you can't remember the hardships of your parents to earn money to support your family.

Having too much leads to children not being able to develop the ability to endure hardship. It is really important to cultivate the quality of hardship in children at an early age.

1. Enduring hardships is an ability that needs to be cultivated.

The ability to sell sails is inherited, but the ability to endure hardships is acquired. Enduring hardship is a very important quality in raising children.

Many of us parents often feel that I suffered so much when I was a child, and I will never let my children suffer. I want my child to have the golden key when he opens his eyes. He has the golden key, and when he is 30 years old, he will be a loser.

Cultivate hardship into a habit, for example, people who like to drink tea, they will feel uncomfortable if they don't drink tea, and they must drink tea. But for people who don't drink tea, Hu Bi feels no different from taking medicine. Therefore, we must endure more hardships in life, and hardship is a very important compulsory course in life.

2. Enduring hardship is an ability that benefits children for life.

Having endured hardships and being able to endure hardships is an ability that has benefited me for life.

There's also a lot of fun in enduring hardship. When I grow up, for example, when I recall that in the past, in the countryside, it was very hard to help adults do farm work, how hard was it? I have paid super physical labor, and I have developed a good habit of sleeping well, and I will fall asleep as soon as I get home, so that I will not have a nervous breakdown now.

I endured hardships when I was a child, and when I grew up, I had the courage to overcome any hardships I encountered.

Able to endure hardships and climb outside the rock. Climb Langma Peak, only then do you know that it is difficult to climb. Over the Raya Mountains, know that the road is difficult and dangerous.

Crossing the Pacific Ocean, I realized that I needed courage. It is not in human nature to endure hardship. However, human nature is the ability to survive that has been slowly cultivated over thousands of years of evolution.

In the primitive society where survival is extremely difficult, people do not have the extra strength to endure hardship, because if they endure a little more hardship, the energy and energy may not be enough to support the next hunt or escape the disaster, and those primitive people who often suffer will die. The rest are lucky primitive people who did not suffer too much, and they survived and engraved the nature of not enduring more hardships in people's bones.

But hardship is forced. No one is born willing to suffer. Those who are willing to endure hardships must have sufficient ambition and sufficient willpower.

Or they are gifted and regard hardship as pleasure. People, if you can't endure hardship, you will never succeed! The following paragraphs are suitable for everyone to see!

Pluck up the courage and persevere, the future will be bright after the ups and downs.

A kind person is like a bright lamp, which not only illuminates the people around him, but also warms himself.

If you are deterred before success, you will only embrace failure; If you persevere in difficult times, you will often get new successes.

To be a man must have a beginning and an end, always be a kind person, and never forget the original intention.

Be a down-to-earth and honest person and be respected, and be hated by people if you are calculating.

People should be worthy of themselves in life, face life with a smile, and transcribe life with true feelings.

Enduring hardships is not necessarily successful, and not enduring hardships must not be successful! Every bright future you look forward to must rely on the hard work of a stagnation orange to achieve.

The more you grow up, the more you will feel that you will always encounter various problems in life, which is very depressing, but in the process of solving problems, your growing experience will also be very exciting, maybe this is maturity.

When you can distinguish between the hardships that you should eat and the hardships that you should not eat, eat less of the hardships that are useless and should not be eaten, and eat more of the hardships that can help you reach maturity, you can achieve the hardships of the hardships and become a superior person.

In fact, for our ordinary families or ordinary people, hardship can be regarded as a relatively important character. Because if you don't suffer hardship, maybe your chances of success will be smaller. Let's take a closer look.

1.First of all, for our ordinary families, the economic conditions in the family are limited. So we don't have this better life, we don't have better conditions.

At this time, if you want to change yourself, you need to continue to endure hardships. Therefore, we must have this hard-working character in order to make our lives better.

2.And for the vast majority of people, enduring hardship is relatively a more useful point to change their lifestyle, because if everyone does not know how to endure hardship, then no one in the society will work hard, and it will become a society that lies down to win, so everyone does not have a better chance to turn over in this society. Only when everyone is willing to endure hardships and work hard can we achieve a better class leap.

3.And the most important point is to endure hardships in order to be able to get back more things, if you can't endure hardships at all as a person, then it is not easy to succeed. Therefore, only by constantly going and working hard can you make yourself more likely to succeed and have a greater chance of success, so people who can't endure hardships don't mean that they are completely useless, but they must be able to endure hardships in order to have a better life of raw oranges.

1. As a child, you don't know all of your parents' income. For example, sales commissions, year-end bonuses and other annual stools, these incomes are generally very large, and they can have tens of thousands or even hundreds of thousands, rather than the monthly fixed income you see. Parents will save extra money. Hidden losses.

Second, the consumption of the parents' generation is different from that of today's young people. They don't travel, don't eat in restaurants, don't order takeout, don't buy cosmetics, don't buy designer clothes and bags, and maybe even buy 50 yuan a pair of shoes. Moreover, I don't buy electronics, at most a 1000 mobile phone.

Third, if parents can buy a house, they have saved money for a long, long time. At least ten years, twenty years.

Therefore, it is really not easy for my parents' generation, and they save money all their lives to travel and live.