I m going to get married in May, but now I m always arguing, what should I do?

Generally, men take the initiative to coax, you may be like this now, but let him develop a habit, no matter which person has developed a habit, it is not good, to be considerate of each other, it is normal when quarreling, but it depends on how you solve it, I just saw you say that he is silent first, this is actually better, at least the degree of less talk will not deepen, but you don't want him not to talk about you are still over there chirping and wah. Let's calm down and think about it, and then admit each other's mistakes, is it still a small matter? That's how life is lived.

Anxious before marriage, both of them should be calm.

Harmony is precious!

It must be that you are too wordy.

It's true. I felt the aura of pia pia.

Maybe he is machismo, while he is not married yet, talk to him well, don't regret it until you get married, get to know both parties better, don't let yourself regret it, find a time to talk about it.

There is still a run-in period for a new car, men don't like you to be angry, you have to be coaxed for a few days when you are angry, and it is very tiring to be a man.

What is there to quarrel with the two of them, what is there to say, face together, discuss together, and communicate more.

I had the same idea as you at the time, I was confused at the time, and now I understand that I may have had some premarital phobia at that time. However, you still have to think clearly about the marriage event, if it is really not suitable to get married and then leave, it is very bad! But women can't always take the initiative to reconcile, because one day you will be very annoyed, and if you have the opportunity, you should control yourself and see what will happen to him?

What will happen to your relationship if he doesn't contact you all the time? You should think about this question, and I wish you happiness!

Now noisy every day

They are already living together again, and there is actually no difference between getting married, and now they start to quarrel, and they must still quarrel after marriage

Now if you quarrel, you can talk about breaking up, but after you get married, you can talk about divorce, and your reputation will be bad, and it will hurt both parties

In case you get married and have a baby, it will be even more difficult to do at that time

Don't be naïve to think that love can change a man

After getting married, he thinks that you are his, and he will be more unscrupulous and don't care about you, and you will only have to endure it when the time comes

It's okay if you've been like this, and you don't take each other to heart, but if it's always like this, and if you take it to heart, I advise you to think about whether you can really get married, and don't get divorced at that time, then it's not interesting, delay each other! As soon as you quarrel, you will have the idea of breaking up, and when you get married and quarrel in the future, you will definitely have the idea of divorce, and it will be terrible over time.

This period is the emotional run-in period, and it is good to pass it. Because they have been together for a long time, they understand each other better, and the truest side of people is revealed in front of the closest people. It's normal to quarrel, it means that your relationship has reached a point, and there is only a problem if you don't quarrel.

But don't hurt people when arguing, so as not to hurt feelings. Wait until you're together and have a good talk to find out why the other person is angry.

Hello, the identities of both people have changed before and after marriage, and they have to run in with each other and slowly adapt to married life, so it is normal to have quarrels, don't worry.

Quarrels between husband and wife are also a way of communication, if there is a problem, quarrel and quarrel, the problem will be solved, because you said that I am speechless, and you win this game.

The most important thing is not to speak ill of people and say hurtful things when they are arguing.

In fact, quarrels are really bad, you can slowly try to exchange ideas more, communicate in multiple languages, don't cause unnecessary misunderstandings, and conflicts will naturally be reduced.

Even if you really want to quarrel, bear with it, come, sit down and chat, try to say the fire in your heart in a calm tone, and when the other party hears it, oh, it turns out that this is the case, as soon as the two sides chat, some problems will be solved naturally, and the procedure of quarreling will be saved.

So two people can make an appointment, in order to avoid quarrels, what effective methods can be used.

As time goes by, the life of the two people becomes more and more tacit, and if there is something, they will talk about things, and naturally they will not quarrel.

Newlyweds are in the run-in period, some habits are different, and it is inevitable to look at each other unpleasantly. You should find out the reason, why did you quarrel, every time you provoked it, or did he provoke it. Is it for material reasons or because of emotional reasons?

There is no husband and wife who do not quarrel, some people quarrel for a lifetime, but there must always be a person who is more tolerant of each other. Two people who don't give in to each other can't manage a relationship, they will only have more and more opinions about each other, and the words they say when they are angry become more and more hurtful.

If you want to continue to manage this relationship, you should both calm down and think about whether you have done anything wrong, is it the other person's fault every time? Did you think about admitting and apologizing when you realized you were wrong? You must put your own before your beloved"Thorns"Stand up one by one, then you haven't thought about each other with your heart, and you haven't thought about tolerating each other, marriage is not just about taking, but also about paying.

Of course, there are some special reasons for quarrels, such as one party has some bad hobbies, likes to stay home at night, gamble, and engage in underground affairs. These serious circumstances will indeed make people intolerable, and it is difficult not to quarrel. People with these bad habits should get rid of it for the sake of their family, otherwise the other party wants to divorce for the sake of excusation.

Except for those worst causes, the rest should not be the cause of an unhappy marriage. As long as you want to maintain this family and want your lover to live in harmony with yourself, you should learn to be tolerant and considerate. Husband and wife should be people who are in love with each other and have been through ups and downs together, not the object of finding fault all day long, and they can see each other's difficulties by putting their minds right, learn to understand each other more, and care less about how much they pay.