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This kind of person, the first way to do it is to directly overwhelm her with your momentum, and directly say that you go to take a bath, everyone can't stand it. But in that case you probably won't be talking again for years to come. Or just endure your disgust and contact with her and become good friends with her.
Then tell her as a friend. I'm a boy, and we also have one like this in our dormitory, and we had a good relationship at the beginning, so I just said what I wanted. Later, I said a few times that people were still angry, and I couldn't bear the smell, so I quarreled directly and pushed two handfuls, which can be regarded as a formal establishment of hostile relations.
Then I haven't spoken much for two years now, and after a while, I'll yell at him twice, and then I can get better for a month or two, and then I will fight back to my original form. Once the habit is formed, I really can't change it, so I can only continue to smell it. This kind of person deserves it, no one wants to come into contact with it, and the interpersonal relationships in the university are completely scrapped.
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In fact, this is a personal problem, if a dormitory person is more clean, then this more sloppy person will also change, he will definitely want to integrate into your collective, then he will first integrate into life, at this time you will find that your change is actually a subtle change to him. There is also the most effective way to say it directly, but pay attention to the tone and expression of the speech, so as not to hurt the self-center of gravity of others.
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Since I have communicated with this roommate, people still don't like to take a bath, so there is no way. You can't forcibly strip her naked just to help her take a shower, can you? If you can't change her personal hygiene habits, you can only apply to change the dormitory, if the financial conditions and the school allow you to rent a room around the school and live alone.
Remember not to cause deeper conflicts, safety first outside, and everything else can be solved.
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You're not too fierce, I have a roommate who doesn't wash clothes or take a shower, sometimes the dormitory has a sour smell, which is actually nothing, what's more fierce is that once he came back and took off his shoes, we couldn't stand to open all the doors and windows, and the opposite dormitory was extremely angry and closed the door.
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My freshman roommate wasn't a big fan of showers, but he did at least once a week and it didn't smell bad. But if you don't take a shower all the time, and the smell of the hungry state has affected others, I think it's time to do somethingHere are a few methods I've come up with for reference:
1. Indirect invitation
For example, every time you take a shower or your roommate takes a shower, ask him, do you go to take a shower? Take a bath? Eh, who is that, do you want to go to the shower together? This method of taking him directly to the bath is much more useful than thinking about how to tell him that you should take a shower and that you stink.
2. Implication
If it were me, I would say to the other roommates from time to time, "Do you feel a smell in the dormitory?" and then go and open the window, or spray some perfume or toilet water in the dormitory. Be careful not to be too straightforward, not to say that you will spray perfume directly on him, but you still need to be tactful to give others face.
If he's still indifferent, try asking him, "Do you want to squirt a little?" I think your side has a big smell, I don't know why", so the other party is not easy to refuse, so he realizes his own problem.
3. Find a dormitory manager or counselor
I think this method is the last way we have to use it. If you are embarrassed to speak, it is a good choice to find an aunt in the dormitory, after all, outsiders will not care about your face or anything, and you will definitely point out the smell of your body, of course, you can't directly say to the dormitory manager "There is a person in our dormitory who doesn't take a bath", or to be tactful, such as "Auntie, we don't know the smell of our bedroom, can you help clean it, thank you".
If it's useless to find a dormitory manager, you can only seek help from a counselor, which I think is the next step. All the counselor can do for you is to remind the student that if there is a vacant dormitory, they may transfer you (but it's usually hard to have one).
In short, I think it would be quite uncomfortable if there was a classmate in the dormitory who didn't take a shower all the time, and it would be best if it could be resolved peacefully to make him realize his problem, but if he couldn't, he would have to seek help from a counselor.
But at the end of the day, if your roommate doesn't shower, the most important thing you need to do is keep your bed and desk hygienic. My advice is not to touch that classmate's stuff casually, or yesOpen windows for ventilation and clean your seats every day。(After all, there are still a lot of bacteria, if you don't open the window, it will still affect other students) yourself and other roommates can also buy some air fresheners and put them in the dormitory to sanitize regularly, in fact, in this way, I think most students who do not take a bath can also realize their problems.
In essence, I hope my advice can help you a little, after all, you don't like bad smells and the feeling of being classmates.
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Don't tell me, I have a roommate who is like this, let me show you, how!
Refers to the mulberry scolding Huai law, but you don't have to be so extreme, you can discuss the dangers of not taking a bath with other roommates, deliberately let him hear it, and then give an example of someone who is sick without a bath, his self-esteem will be troubled, and he may go to the bath.
Direct method, Tell him directly about the harm of not bathing, but you have to be tactful, I think you should pay attention to your attitude and language, don't be aggressive and discriminatory, you can tell him appropriately, you say that the weather in the south is very mild, and it is more comfortable to take a bath every day, and the banquet is round and the south is relatively humid, if you don't take a bath often, there will be some hidden bacteria on your body, so tell him that people's ** needs water care every day, often do not bathe, dirt will block the fat glands under the fur, and people are prone to hemorrhoids, affecting the mood. If you don't take a bath, it will be very oily, and it will also retreat due to anaerobic respiration, forming inflammatory cancer. For all of us who pay attention to personal hygiene, take regular baths, experts point out that there are some bathing tips that should be respected and thus bathed properly.
Of course, you can also invite him to take a bath directly.
3.If you can't persuade like this, you can't do it, then you can only fight the old and don't move, I moved, apply for a change of dormitory, ask your counselor, class teacher, I think the teacher should be able to solve it, our dormitory is just one such classmate, basically a month, I haven't seen him go to the bath, I study in the north, the north is a big bathhouse, so we don't like him in the dormitory, and we don't pay much attention to personal hygiene, and we are a little excluded from him.
4. If the teacher can't help you, you can only help yourself, you can spray some freshener or something in the dormitory, at least you can cover the smell, you can't smell the smell, and the mood is not so bad.
Finally, I hope everyone can have a good dormitory environment, when Han Yuanran also understands people, in case people have any diseases, it is not good.
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