When love has passed, should we continue to marry for the sake of our children?

No, children will grow up, and after the age of ten they will no longer be what their parents say, they will grow and leave. And you still have a long few decades to live, and it's really not that parents can bring benefits to their children without divorce, and children in divorced families are not sound in their minds. I think that if you don't have love, you should leave, and explain it to your children.

In fact, the most feared marriage is the future, a good marriage is a harmonious relationship between husband and wife, educate children that parents are very happy, children will not have big problems, the total reason for the future of children is actually that the relationship between husband and wife is not smooth, in a family, children are very important, but not the first. The relationship between husband and wife is. I'll teach you a little method, I call it the Four Ways to Charm a Happy Family.

Giving, complimenting, helping, respecting. Often give your lover some small surprises, small gifts, it doesn't need to be expensive, just prepare carefully. Usually encourage and praise your lover, praise his food, clothing, housing and transportation, and settle down from the eyes, ears, nose, tongue, body and mind.

Don't block him is also a kind of help, pay behind the scenes, let him know, but not to invite credit, this is a kind of wisdom. Respect starts with both parents, then friends, colleagues, and family around you. Give him love, care, and protection.

Find a feeling of being respected.

Happiness is a psychological feeling, whether the marriage is happy or not only depends on the two husband and wife, if you feel unhappy in the marriage, divorce is a relief for both people, let go and let the other party find happiness. As for whether you choose to forbear in marriage for the sake of your children, it actually has little to do with your children, and an unhappy marriage is not good for your children, and your children will not be happy if they don't feel the warmth of the family.

A relative has been divorcing for half a year. The child lost his smiling face in the half-year-long clutch of his parents. He loves his mother, but his grandmother and father both say that his mother is a bad person, greedy for fun, and doesn't care about his family, so he doesn't want him anymore.

In order to protect himself, he deliberately hostile to his mother. But I saw the joy he had when he saw his mother, and the sad look he felt when he learned that her was leaving. I really can't stand it.

It's too much for a 5-year-old. I said to my young parents, who were about the same age as me, "I'm not here to advise you not to get a divorce.

I see that you are so negative about the love and the good past, and I disagree. Would it be possible for you to get married and have children if you were like now? You go back and forth like this, and you don't have any impact at all.

But open your eyes and look at your children. If you really want to leave, leave quickly, and if you don't leave, think about how to live in harmony. Give your child a peaceful life as soon as possible.

To be honest, changing the original state is the saddest, as long as you change, you can slowly adapt, and the hurt will slowly be relieved.

No matter whether you are rich or poor, there is no complete home that is the most important thing for children, but if this home is often noisy for children, and fighting cannot give children a good environment, then you can choose to end it, so as not to make everyone miserable, and it is also a relief for children.

What I really want to say is that the process of divorce may be a relief for both parties, but the damage caused to the child is immeasurable, the healthy growth of a child is inseparable from the love of both parents, most children who grow up in single-parent families are more or less psychologically defective, such as willful, autistic, impulsive, not like to study....

A makeshift marriage ends up hurting more than just three people. The essence of marriage is that two people love each other, the essence of family is that relatives love each other, family is the last hole card for a person to struggle in the world, and it is the safest haven for life.

Marriage is a matter of two families, plus firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea. The other party is not your shadow, it is impossible to be inseparable from you, and the other party is not your pet, and it is impossible to obey you. Marriage is more about tolerance, understanding, and trust!

There are many people who will compromise for their children in the face of marital misfortune, but will this approach really be good for their children? Will such an emotionless marriage really maintain the happiness of the children by itself? If two people want to divorce, the elders will always persuade themselves not to break up a family for the sake of the happiness of their children.

Love is the foundation of marriage, in a family that lacks love is not a healthy lifestyle for children, now every marriage in the family will not be so happy, and there are many families who make do with their children. If two people don't quarrel and live a peaceful life every day, that's also good. If it's because the two sides don't have the same personalities and quarrel every day, it's better to live separately.

Everyone longs to have their own love, even if they want to get married in the future, they hope to be together because of love.

For some families, a makeshift marriage can not last long, without each other's care and consideration, you can't feel the warmth of marriage, everyone needs love, and without a loving marriage, life is cold. Since there is no happiness in the marriage of two people, it is best to divorce, for the children, the father's love and mother's love must be the same as before, indispensable, but the relationship between husband and wife is broken. A makeshift marriage itself hurts two adults, and if you maintain a loveless family, it is not conducive to the child's growth.

In fact, children are very smart, they understand what it means for their parents to divorce, although this result is difficult for children to accept, but he will also understand that his parents are unhappy together, and slowly accept this fact, so divorced couples have children, and they must take good care of their children.

First of all, I think you can talk to your lover about this and communicate with each other well. What is the reason why you have no feelings, or are you married because you have no feelings? If you just feel this way because you can't stand the dullness of marriage and don't have the freshness of love, then you think this way and correct your mistakes.

The freshness of love and the dullness of marriage requires a process, and this process is inevitable. So, you have to find out if you really have no feelings, or because you feel that you can't stand the flatness of marriage.

Secondly, put yourself in your child's shoes and feel that you should make decisions carefully. Although I personally think that you should not compromise for the sake of your children, this practice is actually selfish and will have an impact on the physical and mental health of children in the future. If the child is still young, it is more likely to be awarded to the mother, and if the mother has a job and a house, your life may not be under great pressure.

But if you don't have a house, you don't have a financial **, what do you use to raise your children, so that not only you will suffer, but your children will also suffer with you.

Finally, it is recommended that both of you communicate and communicate well. If the communication is fruitless, then there is no need to make so many excuses, don't say that you will do this for the sake of your children. Since there is no emotion in marriage, it is better to stop early, don't be afraid of wolves and tigers, and just like that, you will be for a lifetime.

I am now a mother of a child, and I feel that if my marriage is emotional, then I will not choose to divorce for the sake of my children. Because in our marriage, the child is innocent, I want to give the child a healthy and happy childhood, I want the child to get the love she deserves, and the love that Mom and Dad give her. Some people may think that it is necessary for you to have an emotionless marriage?

That kind of life is bad, there is no emotion, and they still live together, as long as they are more and more wronged. But for the sake of the child, I feel that my grievances are bearable.

So I'm willing to do anything for the sake of my children.

I don't think there is any need to make do with the children, it is normal for two people to quarrel after getting married, if both parties can actively solve these problems, while maintaining a happy married life, they can also gain a stronger ability to control life, which is undoubtedly the best result for men and women in marriage. However, if the problems between the two parties have become irreconcilable, the love between the two has passed, and there is no happiness together, then it is better to separate, even if they already have children.

I don't know how the husband and wife look like each other, and the makeshift marriage under the pretext of children will be interpreted? You must know that in the pure eyes of children, whether the parents are true or false, children may not notice it for a day or two, but after a long time, there is no interpretation of true love between husband and wife, which will imperceptibly infect their children and leave a shadow in the child's small heart. After all, the trajectory of a child's growth depends to a large extent on the personality of the parents.

As a result, they are afraid of the opposite sex, marriage, and society in the future.

In a family that lacks joy and warmth, what kind of healthy character and mentality will children develop? In the process of arguing, many couples often lose control of their emotions, and many mean words and even swear words are blurted out, and sometimes they even fight. The demeanor, posture, and tone of the parents' quarrels may be learned by the child.

This creates two extremes:

One is to let him misunderstand that quarrels and fights are a good way to solve problems;

The second is that it will make him afraid of disputes and get used to cold treatment.

Many times, parents always think that they are suffering and making sacrifices for their children's growth, and sacrifices for their children will always be rewarded. In fact, this kind of thinking is very wrong, which is not only irresponsible for their own feelings, but also irresponsible for the growth of children.

In fact, the happiness of children is not necessarily related to the marriage of parents. Some sisters will say, how can you persuade you to leave? After reading the previous text, everyone will understand that there is a prerequisite for persuading you to leave, and you must be completely unable to get by.

Of course, Pao's mother hopes that the world will be peaceful and the husband and wife will be harmonious. Some sisters will say, "Mom, have you ever thought about your child's feelings?" It's knowing too many children's feelings to know what it's like for children to grow up in a bad family.

If you want to think about the happiness of your children, first of all, you must have a happy mentality. Only if you live well, your children will be well.

That's a must! How realistic people are now, who can love their children with their hearts? Only the child's mom and dad.

If there is no love in marriage, should I make do with my children? Many people are entangled in it and wake up after reading it!

I was silent for a long time when confronted with this question, then carefully considered every word I typed on the keyboard. I've answered a lot of questions about relationships, but when it comes to marriage, and even children, it gets extra complicated.

If your question is, should a marriage without love continue? I might tell you, it shouldn't. Because if you don't love, if you betray, two people will start to suffer together, and their pain will become mutual torture, and in this world, the most lasting and painful thing is probably the pain and torture of marriage.

But now the problem is that I can't answer your question lightly because of a child, I don't know your gender, I don't know your marital status, so I can't answer you directly.

But I can tell you that most women, in a betrayed marriage, choose to continue for the sake of their children. Because as a mother, a woman's endurance is enormous, not to mention, not all marriages are hopeless, and with the right guidance, the problems in marriage will be solved.

No love? Is there any family affection left? If there is, then at least there is a reason to continue, and if not, it is really better to separate. It's going to be painful, and it's going to be boring!

No, it's too painful, a marriage without love will only make yourself and others more miserable.

Yes, because if you want to have a child, you have to bear the responsibility.

No, since there is no love, being together will inevitably bump and bump, rather than giving children such an environment, it is better to leave.

It's really hard to say that it depends on people.

I won't. This will not give the child a better life.

I'm not going to move on with my life for the sake of my children, and it's going to be painful to go on like this.