Two women who don t know each other share a house, anxious 5

It's hard for anyone to say! Or try to rent it, see what her character is, and leave if you think it's not good...But I think it's better to look for another one to see if there is anyone to rent, after all, your own safety is more important! If you're not familiar with life, it's really hard to meet bad guys!

Don't be a man!

People should get along slowly, don't think too badly about people, maybe others are also thinking about you like this, pay more attention to yourself, put less cash around you, there will be no problem.

I believe that there are still many good people in the society, and if you don't try, you will never know what the result will be, you can try it, and be vigilant in the early stage.

What's bad, as long as you think it's good, and it's just sharing, renting a house together, not living together, as long as your mind is right, there is no problem.

I also shared a house with a little boy, at that time I found a house at random, opposite was a little boy who had just graduated from college, I had a boyfriend, he didn't have a girlfriend at that time, and then I heard his mother say that it seemed to break up, at that time we shared a house, and lived very well, sharing a house with a boy is more worry-free than a girl, the boy is generous, nothing to do, speak brightly, generally water, electricity and gas and the like are more and less like that, and get along more harmoniously.

I don't think there's anything inconvenient, it's just that after going home, they went back to their respective houses, and there was not too much contact, my boyfriend went to our house, and rarely had contact with the boys who shared the house, just occasionally met to say hello, it's really nothing, in my opinion, it's good, my husband didn't feel how it was back then, just shared a house, and saved some money.

Later, the boy's mother passed, his mother is amazing, she can cook a lot of delicious food, every time she does something, she leaves me a little, and I am much happier in the six months when I have his mother, I eat well, and I get along very well.

When we all left, I got married, he got married, far away, no longer a city, seeing him have a child, aunt is taking grandchildren, that feeling is really good, I really wish him.

So there is nothing wrong with men and women sharing a house together, as long as you don't feel like it, it won't be good, but remember that the other party's character must be good, otherwise there will be chaos.

I don't think it's good to share a house with men and women I don't know. It is not suitable for both short-term security and long-term perspective.

First of all, I don't think it's good to share a room with someone you don't know, let alone with someone you don't know. First, we don't know the background of the other party, and we don't know the character of the other party, so it is not good for our own safety to share a house with a stranger, after all, the place where the house lives is a relatively private space, if the stranger really has the potential to be unsafe, then the person who shares the house is unlucky, and our personal safety is not guaranteed.

Everyone is a young person, easy to have a common language, every day after work, they are together, share a living room and a TV, chat and talk every day and even eat together, so that the distance between each other is shortened. After a long time, it is inevitable that feelings will arise.

It's okay if both partners are single, but if one of them has a boyfriend or girlfriend, then it's more dangerous. People are emotional animals, and once they fall in love with someone, it is not so easy to get out.

Especially we girls, belong to a more emotional animal, if you really live with a stranger man for a long time, it is inevitable to have feelings, in case this man has a girlfriend, but he is more deeply invested, at that time it will not be good. Not only hurt yourself, but also hurt each other.

So I don't approve of men and women who don't know each other, sharing a house, it's not very suitable.

Not so good.

Because without knowing each other, there are risks for both men and women in sharing a house.

Especially in today's society, many recent graduates and people who have just joined the workforce will choose to share a house to save rent, which is indeed very economical, but it also has certain risks.

Because you don't know what kind of person your roommate is, this situation is more likely to cause a lot of problems than those who share a flat through someone you know.

In fact, for a man, there is nothing to think about in sharing a house, after all, it is still very convenient for men to deal with some sudden situations, and they do not need to worry too much about personal safety.

But as a woman, it's a bit risky to do so.

Because through the way of not knowing each other, the male roommate who shares a house together is easily a person with bad conduct and habits, and in such a situation, women are easily in potential danger.

In today's society, many people will sometimes have all kinds of negative emotions because of the pressure of work, the pressure of friends around them, and the pressure between lovers.

But many people don't know how to vent in time, and such a situation can easily lead to people's mood swings.

If you are not careful, the emotional outburst in your heart will have immeasurable consequences for women.

Of course, what I'm talking about is in the minority, and in some cases, the gender of the roommate can't be chosen at all. This is also the helplessness of life.

So, in the case that it can't be changed, women need to be more careful.

Try to wear less revealing clothes, don't give too much trust when you haven't determined the other person's personality and behavior, always be alert to the other person's state, and contact your friends in time if there is a slight mistake.

These are all issues that need to be paid attention to, and they are also ways to ensure personal safety.

Men and women who know each other should not share a house together if they are not boyfriend and girlfriend, let alone men and women who do not know each other.

The first is that there is no guarantee of safety, and the second is that it is really inconvenient.

Try to find a one-bedroom apartment to rent, because one-bedroom apartments are also many now, and they are much cheaper than two-bedroom units. The most important thing is that it will be very convenient, and you can do whatever you want when you go home. You can even cook at home in pajamas, sing and laugh loudly.

You don't have to care about other people's feelings, you can make what you want to eat, and if you don't want to do it, you can order a takeout. On weekends, you can sleep until you wake up naturally, and if you don't want to wash your face, you won't wash your face, and if you don't want to comb your hair, you won't comb your hair. If you share a house with others, you should also pay attention to your image.

If you really don't have a suitable one, you should also consider finding a friend of the same sex to share a room, although people you don't know are insecure, but it's better than the opposite sex.

If you share a house together, how will you know that he will not have bad intentions towards you, if once something happens, the power of women is insignificant, and something big will happen, so there will really be safety risks.

There is also very inconvenient, two people share the same kitchen and bathroom, the kitchen can also prepare their own pots and pans, but the bathroom, washing and bathing is really inconvenient.

Although you will feel that it is like two people being neighbors, there is no problem, and neither of them will bother anyone.

Two people will always look down and not look up, so even if you can handle the relationship well, there are still big safety risks.

It is possible that this person is kind-hearted, but he knows people and faces, but he doesn't know his heart. People who don't know don't know each other. If you have different living habits or any quirks, don't choose to share a house with the opposite sex.

I don't think it matters, but the premise is that the character of the people who live together must pass, so that they can take care of each other. When I just graduated, I had more than a year of shared housing experience, but I rented it with my university, we rented a room with the landlord, and then the landlord rented other rooms to people we didn't know, which was quite mindful, but slowly got along, and I thought it was pretty good, because several of us had just graduated, and there was a boy who was younger than us, so we often cooked and took him to eat together, and we two girls couldn't help if there was anything that needed to be repaired at home, We would often call my roommate next door to help with the repairs, and I was less courageous, my roommates often worked overtime and came back late, and I would be very scared every time I was alone, but as long as I thought about the people living next door, I was not so afraid.

I thought this kind of life was also very good, anyway, we are roommates, and we can have a care, but one of the boys is going back to his hometown, and the landlord recruited us an older man, he brought a very big golden retriever, we all liked it, but more and more I found that this man was a little wrong, every time he was at home during the day, and went out at night, he didn't think so much at first, until one day he found out that he was playing a golden retriever, only to know that he didn't buy it, he picked it up on the road, I felt that this person's character was a little problematic, and I found that his mobile phone and bracelet were hidden in the shoebox in the living room, which were quite expensive, and we guessed that he was a thief, so we told the landlord, but the landlord didn't care, because there was nothing worth stealing in the house, and my roommate and I didn't feel very safe, so we moved out.

So it's okay to share a house, but it's best to find someone you know, and your character must not be a problem, otherwise you will lure the wolf into the room, and there will be endless troubles.

Because living together, you can't do complete AA, and this kind of life is too tiring and full of calculations.

But the description of your problem found that it is not all AA, which means that you are a self-reliant child, and this kind of life will be better in the future. In fact, even if you are married, life is shared by two people, not the man bears all the burden, and what is more open in life is the girl who emphasizes women's rights and postpones the settlement, such three views are not correct, it can be said that this is selfishness.

As for why people around you find it strange, there are two possibilities:

One is the way the problem is described, if you say that you live with your boyfriend, the rent AA, and the utility bills are paid in turns, so it does sound like a shared relationship, which is not normal. But in other words, I didn't want to take advantage of him, so I gave him half of the rent and paid the utility bills as much as possible. Then you will feel so self-reliant.

Of course, the premise is that it is true that AA's opinion was put forward by you, not that he said that you have to bear half of it, it is not that you have overspent your living expenses for a certain month, and he also emphasized that it is your turn to pay the electricity bill.

Another situation is that the problem of the life circle, maybe the people in the circle you live in think that men should bear some burdens, and women are as beautiful as flowers.

But I hope and think it should be the first one. In fact, other big expenses such as rent can be this kind of AA, daily expenses can be this time he comes, next time you come, he helps you buy something, you also help him buy some things, he invites you to watch a movie, you invite him to dinner, etc.

It doesn't feel like you shouldn't worry about money, it's easy to hurt feelings, and don't feel that you should spend your boyfriend's money for granted. Affection requires the dedication of two people.

If you think you want AA, I personally suggest that in another way, it is that two people each have a part of their love ** every month, if it is a common expense, one person will manage the account, and it will be good to deduct it from it every time, don't eat a meal every time AA watch a movie AA, this form is not very good.

Feelings need to be managed, if you feel that this person is worth paying for, then cherish it, love it well, and be able to ask questions to show that you are willing to spend energy for this relationship.

3 girls share a house, and it is not suitable for the two girls to move in.

First, this does not respect the right of disposition of the roommates who share the house; Second, living with one more person will inevitably lead to more communication costs, more restrictions on the use of public areas and unstable factors, which will affect the living experience.

Third, at the beginning, it was said that three girls shared a house, which shows that several people deliberately found same-sex sharing a room to some extent when looking for roommates, indicating that they mind to some extent being in a private space with a strange opposite sex, and bringing the opposite sex back privately is to break this "agreement".

Because it was originally rented by three girls, it was inconvenient to bring it all in all, and no one likes how many strange men there are in the house, so it's not convenient to wash clothes, take a bath, go to the toilet, etc.

Please note the following points when sharing a house:

1. When sharing a house, the door is a shared key, but each door in the house must have its own lock.

2. If you want to sublet the vacant room to others, you must go to the nearest police station with the other party's ID card to verify your identity, and keep a copy of your ID card in case of emergency.

3. Before sharing a room, you should sign a written agreement, including the proportion of rent, the occupation of space, the responsibility for hygiene, food and beverage problems, the visitation and stay of guests, and when to keep quiet, etc., in short, the more detailed the better.

4. It is best to find a familiar person in the shared house, at least there must be an introducer, and in case of an accident, you can find it by wire.