Hey, I m sorry, I like a girl, but I missed the opportunity

Updated on psychology 2024-04-18
30 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    There are only a few precious opportunities in life and the opportunity to meet noble people, and if you miss it, you will miss it, but we should sum up our experience and avoid similar incidents from happening again next time.

    In your description, you could have gotten acquainted with her by helping her get something, but you didn't go for various reasons and missed it. A little regret (it's normal for everyone to make mistakes.,Don't be too...) I used to make bigger mistakes than you, but now it's all in the past, and it's a lesson in life.)

    In fact, most of our lives are spent preparing for opportunities, and only then can we discover and seize the rare opportunities around us.

    If you miss it, you should have memories and experiences, and I hope to learn more knowledge in the future, so as not to miss the opportunity in the future.

    Good luck!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    I regret losing it, I don't care if I use it, I want to go to the dog p in the past, I might as well think about it now.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I wish you can meet her again, and you must grasp it when the time comes, and at the same time complete your studies well.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You'd better confess to him.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    1. The most important thing at this stage is not to be in a hurry, don't make things so clear, so that people can see at a glance that you are chasing others.

    Come to think of it, most people won't take a fancy to you at a glance, but they won't hate you at a glance, they are all children of ordinary people (unless you look like Chow Yun-fat Andy Lau or Kevin Costner), and goodwill needs to be achieved with the increasing understanding, so the key to the problem is the opportunity you want to develop further.

    Think about it from the perspective of a girl: If you rush over so directly to get a partner, the girl must have psychological pressure. If you find out that you don't like you after a while, won't it be a trick on you?

    So if you start out in a posture that you want to win, you're basically going to be stuffed back right away.

    2. Start with a low profile.

    First of all, you must position the relationship as a "friend", originally an "ordinary friend", you want to be a "good friend", and if you have taste, you can also ask the other party to become a "confidant" or something, in short, don't say "chase you".

    Think about it, if you don't mention "chasing" at all, then the girl will have no chance to "reject" you - how can you refuse you if you don't chase her?!

    This can reduce the psychological pressure of the girl and enable you to have a smooth relationship. Don't have the illusion that you will agree to marry you after knowing each other for three days, you must fully communicate and understand, and feelings do not arise out of thin air.

    3. Don't be too impatient in the process of dating.

    Be open, don't pester people all day long, whoever treats you like this, you will also get tired. A good friend of mine told me that the key to chasing girls is eight words - hot and cold, want to catch and indulge" (this is the crystallization of many years of hard work by my classmates).

    You pester people all day long and naturally don't think you're good, if you are properly cold for a day or two, the girl will remember the benefits you are in.

    Also, don't come up with the ambition of "you don't marry", it's too cheap, and sometimes you can play some tricks.

    4. Create opportunities appropriately.

    As mentioned earlier, don't make things immediately become "you're chasing someone else", and you need to get a chance to get close to girls, and that's when it's up to you to be creative.

    You can gather intel and find a way to turn the wait for the rabbit into an encounter; You can also pretend to be casual and find the best reason to invite the other person to do something with you.

    In short, this is the most technical place, and if you really can't do it, you can ask your seniors for advice.

    5. Don't be careful: It's rude to give gifts to others.

    Some people chase girls and like to often buy things to give away, but they don't know that chasing girls is the most taboo.

    As the saying goes, "no merit is not punished", if you give something to someone like this, you are exerting pressure, and people will feel that they owe you, so they will find a way to pay you back, and if they can't pay you back, they will find a way not to associate with you, so as not to always owe you favors.

    If you want to show your sincerity, you might as well invite girls to spend together, such as finding a good restaurant to eat, or finding an expensive place to play with or something, girls can naturally see that you have spent a lot of money, but after all, the money is spent by two people together instead of becoming something to take home.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You're still a student and she's already working, and that aside, she's an outsider, and it's okay for you to pursue her, and it's okay to fall in love with her, but you can't really get yourself into it, because you can't know her completely, and she'll know you completely. Of course, if you like someone, you have to tell her not to regret it, but you must remember: behind bravery is reason!

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    To be honest, I missed out on such an opportunity!

    A little regretful!

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Since you like her.

    You should go and talk to her.

    Otherwise, it's you who suffers!

    Anyway, no matter how it ends, but it's at ease!

    Don't let yourself be left with regrets!

    Maybe she's waiting for you to say!!

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It may be that she gives you a chance, the girl never takes the initiative, so I suggest you go to her, even if she doesn't give you a reply in person, I believe she will not refuse you, because you don't have much time to date, you have to take the initiative to get close to her, if you can, you can rent the house to her again, so that there will be more opportunities to meet, you don't feel embarrassed, feelings are seized, and the opportunity is the same, boy, it's up to you, I showed you the way, it depends on how you go.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    If you like her, you're chasing her.

    Don't let yourself regret it.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Chic in the world, dare to act.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you like her, you should seize the opportunity.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    There is fate. You'll see you again.

    The next time you see it, remember to try for it.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Generally, this kind of fruitless, there are many good girls in the world, so why bother to miss it. It's just that I haven't met a better one.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    If you miss it, you miss it This can only give you a hint: the next time you meet such a girl, you must remember to find a chance to meet Ah, stop thinking about the past, or put your mind on work.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Oops, 500 times of looking back in the past life in exchange for the passing of this life, if you like her, tell her that even if you can't be together, you can't leave regrets for yourself, besides, "The female junior hugs the gold brick", good, I suggest you try it Come on

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Give her **, confess, take the initiative!

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Hello, for the question you asked, how did you meet such a girl, I really regret knowing him, have you ever met him, you were chasing him at the time. This is what you admit you chased him first, first of all, what I want to express is that a beautiful love, it needs to go both ways, a person blindly pays, is never able to exchange for the happiness of two people together, two-way running, will make love more meaningful, not, a person pays in obscurity, well, the above, is my personal thoughts, I hope to help you, I wish you happiness.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Block her, turn on airplane mode, move, and leave no trace

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Why did you provoke her, you chased after her when you saw it, and you didn't know anything about it?

    Serious people can't be amused.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Missed a girl I like again, I think if you like a girl, you should be bold to pursue her, move him with your true love, boldly confess to him, even if you fail, there is no regret Many times, the person who loves you is close at hand, but it is often another person who makes you tender and worried. You weep for him and mourn for him; Only talk about giving, not a little return. You think it's love, but it's just human nature:

    What you can't get, it's the best. What is easy to get often does not know how to cherish. While we are scarred, we are also hurting those who love us deeply.

    Love is a thing that turns a thousand times, and maybe there will be a moment when you will repent - it turns out that you are also here.

    Actually, happiness is really simple. Think about it, do you have such people around you?

    He clearly remembers what flavor of snacks you like to eat, and when the two of them eat together, they will take the initiative to pick the fatty meat, bones, vegetable roots, and side dishes into their bowls;

    When you're in a bad mood, he'll be there for you quietly. But he won't ask what is going on, he will wait for you to take the initiative to tell him;

    Walking on the road, he will let you walk on the inside, laughing and saying that he is physically strong, even if he hits it, it will be fine;

    When he goes shopping, he will keep asking you, "Do you want this, do you want that?" ”;

    He never thinks you're fat, he always thinks you can't eat enough, you can't eat well;

    He interrogates you about your recent physical condition, cares about your sleep, always thinks that you can't take care of yourself, and sometimes says that you are like his daughter;

    When staring at you, I will use a very distressed look;

    Every time I hit **, I will wait for you to hang up first; Every time you separate, he will watch you disappear from his back and disappear from his sight;

    Before going to bed, he would ask more than once, "Is the quilt covered?" more than once. Don't leak air". When I wake up in the middle of the night, I will subconsciously cover you with a quilt;

    You inadvertently say that he looks good in a certain dress, and then you find out that he wears it all the time;

    often say "as long as you like, you can do anything";

    He has always been waiting for you, smiling at you from afar;

    often picks you up unexpectedly;

    If you hurt him unscrupulously, even if he gets angry again, he won't say a word seriously, but he will only get along with himself, such as having no appetite and not being able to sleep;

    If there is such a person in your life, don't give up on him, don't think that he will be with you after hurting him again and again; Don't pursue ethereal love, don't try moths to put out fires, and don't squander love just because you're young. Don't hesitate when it's time to let go, and don't let unworthy people hurt you again and again. Many times you think you're in love with that person, but you're just in love with it.

    Trust me, the person you love is right there for you, it's just that you don't find it.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    If you miss love, it will be a lifetime, so once you meet true love, you must pursue it bravely, grasp it and cherish it. If you miss it, then pursue and grasp the next relationship.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    There is no regret medicine in the world, regret is useless if you miss it, accept the lesson, and if you have the opportunity in the future, you will not miss it again, you can start to confess through chat after helping her get close to her.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Since you like it, pursue it boldly, don't wait until you miss it and regret it, there is no regret medicine in the world, if you have fate, you will meet again.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    You can go to him, with your true love for her, you will definitely be able to find him, and then treat each other sincerely, and go through the second half of a happy life.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    If you miss it, you don't have to think about it anymore, the sea of people is vast, the possibility is too small, or continue to look for the next one.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Since you have missed it again and again, it means that you have no fate, don't be sad, if there is fate, you will meet.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    Once again, I missed meeting a girl I liked a few months ago, and I regret it now when I think about it, what should I do now? Then you'll have to chase her back.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    First of all, you have to make sure that girl still likes you.

    You know, it's strange to like this kind of feeling, it's hidden deep in our hearts, we don't know when it's going to pop up, and we don't know when it's going to shrink back.

    Therefore, it is particularly important to determine the girl's current intentions. If she still likes you and wants to be with you, then, even if you have never been in contact with each other, but as long as you both have hearts, then the beauty that was lost in the past will definitely come back to you.

    However, if that girl no longer likes you, or even dies on you, and finds her happiness again, at worst, she has found her own happiness and is deeply trapped in ......

    At this time, if you chase her again, I think, you may have lost the opportunity to get her.

    You know, it's terrible for a woman to be infatuated, but it's also terrible to be desperate.

    So, although it is still possible for you to have a good outcome in pursuing her at this time, this beautiful possibility is too small and pays too much, and it may not be something you can afford to live.

    In fact, the most important thing about chasing girls is sincerity. If she is willing to accept you, as long as you treat her well and think about her in everything, then she will definitely be able to feel it.

    Finally, even if you don't have a good relationship and don't come together, please don't regret it too much.

    You know, there is a lot of beauty in this world, and in your world, there is not only the sun, but also the moon and stars.

    If, because you close your eyes at sunrise and look for the sun all over the sky, you find that it is cloudy today, so you are so depressed that you hang your head at night, then you will be even more heartbroken if you miss the stars and the moon.

    Don't miss out on your happiness again in the midst of regret.

    This way, you will definitely regret it for the rest of your life.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    She must have a good impression of you, you are in the position of the first spare tire of the positive nature, you are far from the seeded team, you may not be able to do enough, you should deeply review and fight again.

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