Debate about being happy for yourself or being happy for someone else to live

Living for others, all your hopes are in the hands of others, you don't have any initiative, and your happiness can be destroyed in the hands of others at any time.

However, to live for yourself, you don't need to expect any "God's blessing", you don't have to put your hope on something that you can't control, first of all, people will be relaxed!

Everything can be decided by yourself, at least you can do your best, change what you can change, get what you can get, you will naturally feel fulfilled, the object you are targeting has suddenly changed from "people" to tangible things, people are always unpredictable, put hope on them, the odds are not big, but things can change through your efforts, and gradually tend to your ideal state, so that the sense of accomplishment that people should get will naturally follow, This is the real life! After all, it's not Lei Feng's society anymore!

What is your debate?

In life, we must make ourselves more open-minded, because an open-minded self will not get into the tip of the horns, and can be optimistic and enterprising. Be more cheerful, because a cheerful self is likely to bring happiness to others and make the atmosphere in life more pleasant. If you want to be happy in your heart, you must not regard the trivial matters between people as right and wrong. Some people are often troubled, just for someone else's unintentional words, but he deliberately accepts them and piles them up in his heart.

A person's happiness is not because he has more, but because he cares less. More is a burden, another kind of loss; Less is not enough, it is another kind of surplus; Giving up is not necessarily a loss, but a broader possession. A good life should always have a relaxed heart, no matter how the external world changes, you can have a quiet world.

Tranquility is not in the hustle and bustle, let alone in a heart that asks too much, let go of obstacles, open mind, and the heart is naturally quiet and worry-free. Joy keeps the heart bright and maintains a certain and eternal tranquility. If our minds and artistic conceptions can always be clear and cheerful, then the surrounding environment will be beautiful and good.

It's better to live for yourself, and when you fall in love with someone, you live for her.

What is the debate of the square.

Man is based on his own happy life.

If you are not happy in your own life, what if you let others live and be happy?

You should live for your own happiness!

Originally! If you are unhappy yourself, will others be happy? Here's an example:

One day you meet a very sad person who asks you, "Are you happy?" "How do you get to him/her?

Not happy! Is that the word him (she)? He or she is already very unhappy, do you still want to rub salt on her wounds?

Do you think that's how it should go? If you know how to speak like that, will your heart be better? Have you ever thought about his or her psychological capacity?

So my point is: to be happy for your own happiness is to make others happy, and to be happy for others is also for yourself.

Whose happiness is it? Who is happy when you feel happy? Is it a stranger you have never met, or is it your own relative or friend?

Or are you happy for the pleasure of your rivals and rivals? Think about it! Your own happiness can only be built by yourself!!

People are me, I am people, when you pay for others and get the recognition of others, you must be very happy, when you share your happiness with many people, you will feel happier, because I am not a very selfish person, so when I have a simple happiness, I will continue to extend this simple happiness for others, so that more people have happiness, and people are happy for others.

It depends on what the situation is, most of them are alive and happy! Because there is no need to live for others, everything has to be fought for by yourself; There's no need for that, and certainly can't be too ruthless.

Living for oneself and realizing one's own pursuit and life value will be more meaningful and happier! If we do not realize our ideals, how can we contribute to humanity and society? On the contrary, we will be sincerely happy because we have found our own worth, because we are living for ourselves!

A person's abilities and experiences are always limited, and when you can't find more happiness in yourself, what's the point of living for others? Maybe you will say Qu Yuan and Lu Xun who are worried about the country and the people, but are they happy? If they are happy, how can there be Qu Yuan's throwing into the river and Lu Xun's weeping blood?

Choosing to live for yourself is more authentic and feasible, and of course, it is easier for your heart to overflow with a sense of happiness.

A person's survival, no matter who they live for, is actually just a difference in the way of choice, and there is no right or wrong, good or bad. More importantly, as a college student, we should learn to be human beings and learn to take on more responsibilities, whether it is for ourselves, others or the whole society.

XX University once did "Who to live for?" The answer to the survey "live for yourself" accounted for the surveyed. This shows that most of us have our own goals and aspirations, and we also know that the goal is the beacon on our way forward, with which we can move forward bravely, continue to strive towards the goal, and continue to achieve ourselves.

If you live for others, you will lose your direction, just like the grass on the side of the road, the wind blows on both sides, and it is difficult to reach the other side of victory and achieve your goals. (Arguments should be short and persuasive).

To live for oneself is to have a purpose more than for anyone.

If people do not do it for themselves, the heavens and the earth will be destroyed.

Do what you are happy about, and you will be happy.

To please others or to please yourself? Dependence on others or paranoid ego? Yang Daxia chose to be a maverick and face the dilemma and confusion.

In the text, in the rivers and lakes, he seeks to explore another world, and carefully constructs his own possible "ideal country", which is used as a poetic sustenance to support the individual's spirit and emotion. Yang Daxia (heroyang).