When the man came in, what did the boyfriend think?

It's normal, you think, a poor student from the countryside, I don't know how much discrimination and bullying he has suffered, and he must have been silently enduring it in his heart, and finally worked, and he felt that he could raise his eyebrows, and his hard work finally brought about his dream since childhood, and maybe his performance made you feel very cheesy, and he had deteriorated, and there was a turning point in everything, and the vain boys in the city might have changed to a low profile at the age of seventeen or eighteen, because they lived in the city and saw many people and things that were better than themselves And your boyfriend I think it still needs a small process I believe he will change As for the problem of loans, I think since he graduated from a prestigious university, I believe that the ability to work should also be very strong, and the tens of thousands of dollars in this society are not a big problem for a person who is so superior, but the only thing that disapproves of him is that you said that his mother at home still works very hard, and he should really share more for the family, even if he wants to enjoy it, he should give it to his parents first, and then himself, but in general, you can't give up on him, there is no perfect person in the world You should also think more about the education he received since he was a child, the environment in which he lived, and the discrimination he suffered in all aspects.

Once the poor have money, especially those who have it without effort, it is easier for them to learn to spend, because they want to make up for what they have not enjoyed before, and now that they have money, they want to enjoy it, and his current psychology is a little deviated, but I believe that his heart is still very good, maybe he is just a momentary vanity that makes him not know why. However, if he can't correct his psychological line in a hurry, it's hard to say, you should enlighten him now, so that he doesn't forget that he came from suffering, how many people have helped him, let him realize his mistake of spending money indiscriminately today, but be tactful and don't hurt his self-esteem, such a person's self-esteem is generally very strong. If you are allowed, go home with him, let him see his parents, think about before, think about your mother's hardships, look at your parents' lives and believe that he will go back to the past.

I'm from the countryside.

The family is not wealthy. But I'm in Japan now.

I also work hard.

I think the children in the countryside are different from the ones in the city.

We should know what suffering is.

Think of your parents at home. Which face faces the loess. The affliction of turning his back to the sky.

From your words. I know you are the one who loves him. That's why I care about him.

Persuade him. Or give him a lesson. He went on like this. Even if you have money in the future. Can he think of anyone else. Those who helped him?

Don't forget to dig the well, it's time to pay it back, you persuade him, if he doesn't listen, then you should consider the problem of the two of you, it's a personality problem, it's very serious!

This is really not good, if you can, please persuade him.

It belongs to the type of addiction to death.

Children are not mature yet, just like children.

One day, when he has a child of his own and both parents are seriously ill and hospitalized, it will be time for him to mature, understand, and too late. When he realized that he had never given his parents anything, did not let his parents enjoy the blessings, and did not reassure his parents, it was too late at that time.

Now, you're the only one who can help him. There's nothing we can do to help.

Talk about it, don't tell the truth.

It's normal to feel like you've become a phoenix when you fly on a branch

I'm looking at such a high bounty score, it's your problem, otherwise I don't care about it at all, it's actually very simple, do you love him, are you willing to live with him for the rest of your life, if you want to, why do you care about these problems, if you think about it, really care about these problems of him, then the wise choice is to withdraw as soon as possible.

The pent-up desire to consume bursts out instantly with the increase in income!

Revenge spending! It may be a sign that it has been suppressed for too long! It's a new way of life for him, and he's still intoxicated with it! It will be fine in the future!

Just as you said that I am not discriminating against anyone, I am not talking about a universal phenomenon. However, it is undeniable that there are some cases of "peasants going to the city" or "villains getting rich". Once you get rid of the previous situation, you will intensify your demand, as if you want to earn back what you have in your previous life.

Don't think about it so much, it's hard for people to understand each other. Don't be too confused, don't be too reluctant.

Maybe it's because he comes from the countryside, and he's afraid that others will always look at him like this, and he's afraid that others will always treat him as a countryman, so spending money is an important criterion for him to be able to see himself and urban people as a line! He also wants to have what others have, and he understands a lot in terms of shopping, that is, when others talk about shopping, he can express a lot of opinions, saying what he buys.

He can study and work hard, just to make others look up to him. He didn't want others to see himself by the standards of a redneck forever!!

I'm a man, and I'm the most annoying to this kind of person.

You have to think about it.

But it's better to have a good talk with him in person and talk about things, maybe you misunderstood him. If not, then I hope you will split up with him.

In these years, there can be a few sensible people.

Love him for what? Appearance? Hello people?

Now the concept is different, and it will be troublesome to really be together in the future. Deep.

Reality can easily change a person's desires.

Your boyfriend used to love you very much.

It's not that he doesn't love you now, it's just that he's very busy, tired, and stressed, so he just wants to rest, don't think too much.

So you can talk to him and see if you can solve it, or get married, hehe......Then be together every day.

You try to reconcile, if he doesn't want to talk to you, settle it, and don't want to get married, then he probably doesn't love you anymore. Try it for yourself.

I don't think he doesn't love you, it's just that he's too busy at work, you don't let him go home at 11 o'clock, he has to wash or something when he goes home, he can sleep in the water in the early morning, and he has to get up early the next day to face the pressure and competition of work, you better think more about him.

Actually, I think you can really choose to get married, and if you really can't do it, you can break up, because if you continue like this, both of you will be very tired, like you think like this now.

Your boyfriend must also find you annoying, unreasonable, and not caring about his body and condition at all, so he will say nasty things to you.

Try to understand him more, the most important thing in love is tolerance, understanding and trust!

Don't blame your boyfriend, you used to be in love, and it is natural to stick to you for a freshness, when you have been in it for a long time, that freshness disappears and the man doesn't have so much thought to spend on you, it's not that he doesn't love you anymore, he still loves you, but many things won't remain the same, just like the heat of love, it is impossible for couples who love each other to stay in love for a lifetime, think about it, this can only show that your love has risen to a higher level, it is a bottleneck period, try to adapt, He still loves you, don't find fault with your love, it would be better to care more about him and give him some freedom.

Obviously, comparing the before and after, the answer you come up with, in fact, you know it yourself, but you just don't want to face it: he has changed his mind.

At first, you left at 8 o'clock, and then you didn't leave at 11 o'clock, and your boyfriend was very depressed.

The most important sentence of your boyfriend is: Can't you see that he is giving me opportunities again and again?

This boyfriend of yours is a man with thoughts and careers, what he needs is not a girl who can only be spoiled all day long, what he needs is a sensible and intelligent girl. So, although he likes your looks very much, he wants you to grow up quickly. So, he's giving you opportunities again and again.

If he doesn't give you **, it doesn't mean that he already has a new girlfriend, or maybe he just wants you and him to calm down. So, you have to live a few days in peace, don't act aggressively, maybe, he thinks you don't move, he will come to you instead, doesn't he say he loves you?

Maybe you really want to be quiet, is it because you are pressing too hard, so that he does not feel free.

He may have encountered a little setback, he needs to calm down, give him some time, it's nothing, it's okay after this time, then he will take the initiative to find you, both parties need private space when they are in love, hehe. It's normal to have a little fight when you're in love. Don't be upset.

Don't ask anything, observe him quietly, there is always a problem when there is a problem, it is difficult for people to hide their other side, and you are not together for a day or two, you should know him very well. There is everything that needs to be communicated. Wishing you happiness

1. Women will always use various ways in the process of love to constantly verify whether the other party loves them, but in fact, it is caused by a lack of inner security.

2. Men feel that since they have loved each other, most of them will not change their ways to prove themselves again, they will feel very tired, and feel that women are tossing blindly.

3. If a woman doesn't understand the psychology of a man, she will toss a lot, although she may be able to get the satisfaction of love temporarily, but the man's heart will accumulate dissatisfaction little by little, until one day, break up categorically. At this time, there are still many women who feel very sudden, thinking that every time they break up, they go through the motions, why has it changed this time?

4. Depending on the situation you described, if you really love him, you must pay attention, but he may be on the verge of collapse and depressed. Try to experience his heart more, treat him more in the way he likes, so that you can give, learn to understand men, learn to be tolerant, and you will have a harvest :)

You've been together for a long time.

Looking at him, he means that Ziqin is a little tired and has a faint feeling.

I think you guys still have to rent some freshness.

It shows that Minbi still has feelings between you, not that you can break up, it should be to the point of talking about marriage, it can't always stay in the first love stage, men, if you get the buried plum, it will become lighter, but women, they always like their boyfriends to keep moving late.