Who can keep me from being lonely, lonely, not lonely

Updated on psychology 2024-04-22
11 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Find someone you like, preferably if they like you too. If you have something to do, find friends to get together and connect with your feelings. Find something to do to make your life more fulfilling, and you won't be lonely.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I like to be alone, only when I'm lonely can I think, I can be calm, I can face my true self. Lonely people are smart and wise. He knows when to be alone and when to be in a lively crowd. I love those people!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    The world is inherently lonely, and we must learn to be lonely.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Ask some non-mainstream questions, forget it, it's not a point, LZ is disgusting, only stupid people will express their emotions indiscriminately.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    You yourself can make yourself not lonely, loneliness is a feeling in your own heart, you feel lonely maybe you think that others can not understand your practices and ideas, feel that no one can speak with yourself, if this is the case, you can be with friends when you don't speak carefully listen to other people's thoughts, feel that you are different from others, and then find a person you think is the most reliable, tell him what you want to say, listen to his thoughts, maybe this can open your heart knot, That way you won't feel lonely!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I'm also a lonely person, **I 2207229907, find someone to talk to.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Find more things to do, don't think about being lonely, then it's better.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Find someone you like, preferably if they like you too.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    In this noisy mortal world, we all need to have a suitable place for our souls. Maybe it's a quiet house, maybe it's a wordless scripture, maybe it's a labyrinthine path.

    As long as it is where your heart goes, it is a post station, in order to start in the future and no longer be so confused.

    I think the place where my soul is placed is the words.

    As we move forward in the earthly world, we often feel lonely and lonely.

    Of course, polite enthusiasm can't get closer to each other, and gossip can't touch the depths of the soul after all.

    When we are tired, when we are confused, when we are confused, when we are helpless, we long for someone to listen to what our hearts have to say, without comfort, without encouragement, just silently listening, deep or shallow understanding.

    At one time, I was like that, longing to be understood, and even more eager to be understood. If someone listens to what I have to say, they can be pleasantly surprised to tell me that they have felt this way, and they think the same way, and they have this confusion in their hearts.

    Then, I will feel that I am not the only one in the journey of life, it turns out that there are similar souls in this world. So, how nice it would be!

    We spend our whole lives just to find a common soul in the vast sea of people to fill the loneliness of life.

    But unfortunately, in life, it is becoming more and more difficult to find a friend who can calm down and listen to you.

    Everyone is very busy, some are working hard for life, some are obsessed with their dreams, and some are addicted to the illusory world and can't extricate themselves.

    In the WeChat circle of friends, in addition to the micro-businesses who sell things and keep swiping the screen, there are only a few people who are tired of showing the trivial things in life. Occasionally, I see someone ** really have content and connotation of the article, but almost no one cares.

    It dawned on me that we were alone after all.

    Each and every one of us is a product of the loneliness of this planet. Our hearts, our flesh, grow on each of us, the ups and downs, the taste of our own taste, only we know.

    Don't pin your hopes on others, don't ask others to understand your feelings, no matter how loud you shout, it's in vain.

    Yes, no one knows me.

    I can express everything I want to express without any qualms. In the text, I speak to my soul. It is really good to rejoice in my joy and grieve my sorrow.

    I never thought that there would be people here, who read my words with great patience and listened to what I wanted. Some Jian You, even spent a long time, reading them one by one, and leaving their own sincere comments for each one.

    I never imagined that here, I would meet so many souls who talked to me. In their conversation, I was pleasantly surprised to find that there were unusually familiar feelings, unusually familiar thoughts, and unusually familiar life perceptions.

    Loneliness, in the text, admit this loneliness, and in the text, enjoy this loneliness.

    Most of the Jane friends here are at peace of mind. I like words, get close to words, and enjoy the various realms conveyed by words.

    I am very grateful for the chance encounter, so I was able to gather here with so many common souls, and since then, I am really no longer lonely.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Some people have asked what they will do if they become lonely when they are separated from their friends.

    But I never think like that, in fact, it's a great thing to watch movies, eat, and go shopping alone.

    When you go shopping with friends with different mindsets, you see different things, and there is no way to empathize.

    I choose to watch movies alone, and I can choose my favorite movies at will, without compromising or negotiating. I choose to go shopping alone, I can go to my favorite counter and buy some things I like, and I don't have to worry about others saying that this thing is expensive. I choose to eat alone, and I can choose my favorite dishes without asking for other people's opinions.

    I once had a roommate who did what I used to do and went shopping and dinner alone, and when she came back, she said, "It's a good feeling."

    So, I was never lonely, but I chose to be lonely.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    For her, many times, it is not the fear of loneliness, but the desire for loneliness. Her pain is not that she can't bear the life of one person like most people, but that she has to withdraw from one world and face another. An overcrowded world.

    Yes, for her, the world outside of her is another world. Some people think that her world is another world, an illusory and unrealistic world. But she felt that the world outside of herself was an illusory world.

    People talk to each other, but they don't hear the voice of their own hearts.

    Some people think that people who prefer solitude suffer from a disease, a disease called "loneliness". They can't appreciate loneliness, and there's a bliss that can never be achieved in noisy relationships. Accepting the reality of loneliness is undoubtedly the beginning of one's spiritual independence.

    When we think that loneliness is a disease, why not those who can't stand loneliness? It's like a child who can't be weaned. It is understandable that you cannot wean before the age of one, but if you cannot wean by the age of three or five, it is a serious disease.

    It's just that many people don't realize their mental problems, and they always want to hit others as soon as they calm down, and want to fill their emptiness with small talk. Keep yourself busy and avoid loneliness with so-called effort.

    Some people never grow up. Those who look old are most likely just old. And those who seem to be alive are not necessarily shallow teenagers.

    Only when a person can be as quiet as a virgin can he be as dynamic as a rabbit. And the people who have been wandering between various groups of people are likely to be just busy ants. He didn't even know why he was busy.

    He just thinks that that kind of busyness is the normal state of life. Just like ants, they think that crawling is the norm as ants.

    It is undoubtedly frustrating to live like an ant as a human being. Thankfully, as a human being, more or less, there will always be times when you are alone. This is precious time for us to think about the meaning of life. The difference between humans and animals is that they have the ability to think.

    The world is destined to be incomplete, and human beings will never be able to fully comprehend this imperfect world. Only by accepting loneliness can we better protect ourselves. The lack of calm and loneliness is not because of fear of being hurt in the outside world.

    And it is precisely that, many times, we need to be better and stronger in one's world.

    When alone, when night falls, the hot and humid air may seem a little ambiguous, even a little desperate. But keep looking upwards and you'll see the starry sky of Youlan, which is where human life comes from......

    You, in fact, are not alone.

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is not interested in love, but who said that if you don't want love, you will definitely be able to enjoy loneliness, she is afraid of loneliness.