My boyfriend thinks I can t be friends, I can t do things, and I want to break up

Each has its own problems, it should be said that you didn't take into account his feelings, he didn't take into account your feelings, after all, there are so many friends, of course it's not good for you to refute him so much, but he didn't take into account that you can't play It's his fault Have you ever considered breaking up? Maybe it's good for both of you, you can find a new one, find someone who will really love you, love you, take care of you, and he can find someone who is sensible and will think about him, but are you willing to think about it, and you haven't always quarreled over such trivial things, in fact, it doesn't necessarily go to the end Because both of you are people who don't think much about each other, if one of you proposes to break up, then break up, maybe break up for a while, you can also understand that the other party is very important in your heart, and you will think more about each other in the future, on the other hand, if he breaks up with you on the grounds of this incident and then ignores you, then is this kind of person worthy of your love.

How to say it, bystander clear. To be objective, I feel like you're really not considerate and empathetic enough. Like you said, it was a barbecue with his friends, and he had a good day.

It's going to be over, you just give him enough face, and no matter how unhappy he is, he won't be able to go home in a seizure. Men, just like children, it's not up to you to clean up when you give him enough face outside to go home. Maybe you don't have any malice, you don't really want to quarrel, or you are stubborn, and the child has a temper.

You must know that the matter of challenging his face is really serious, and he will consider whether you will be like this when you get married in the future, whether such an unsympathetic will affect his career, etc. Learn how to be a good helper.

The two get along with each other and accommodate each other.

But when you meet someone like this who won't back down, you give way.

If he gets an inch, you're going to have to fight back.

Ordinary people are, people respect a foot, I respect people.

So let's give in and see first.

You're not very sensible. And I don't think you've been like this once or twice. Men also have face and dignity, and girls who use scoundrels or coquettishness to make boys submit are the stupidest.

There are many girls who feel that this is their love for themselves and that they care about themselves. In fact, it is very wrong, this kind of thing, once or twice is fine, more is stupid.

Actually, according to what you said.

It's just a trifle.

Maybe calm down.

Recall. You will feel that everyone is not mature enough.

Men and women love each other.

We often have to accommodate each other.

This time I gave in.

Next time it's you. In this way, it can last a long time.

You've been together for a year.

If you can. Try to express your willingness to compromise with each other without being reluctant.

There is a sentence in Hong Kong movies: Take a step back and open the sky.

In the play, it is used in the rivers and lakes - the situation of the characters in distress.

But it should also be applied to the relationship between men and women.

Men want to save face, whether it is friends or family, they want to save face, just calm down.

So many people pinch! Give some face! If you can't get a taxi at night, you can open the house directly, how simple it is.

If she doesn't love you, that's an excuse, on the contrary, it's ...... you're too bad to speakWon't you coax her? For example, if she wears a good-looking dress, you say that it is average, etc., girls, you have to coax it, even if it is against her will, ......If it's not a matter of talking to him, but socially, then you have to learn more and assure her that you will do well.

Do you want to break up? If you don't want to, you can change, and it's okay to change somewhat.

You will say, you can do things, you have the ability, you have the ability, you say that you are more capable of doing things.

If you can't speak, you can learn, and if you can't do things, you can learn why to break up.

This man is destined to be incompetent. Divide it! It is said that women are used to hurt, not to scold.

A man who loves you and has you in his heart, everything you do is right in his eyes A man who doesn't have you in his heart dislikes everything He breaks you up is a matter of time because the next one she hasn't shown up yet, and when she appears, you'll be done.

Maybe he wants you to be better, you have to think about it from a different perspective, you might as well try to change yourself, communicate with him, there is no need to be so stiff, love the other person, you have to tolerate and change, not complain.

It's time to break up, and I dislike you before I get married, and I'm still behind when I quarrel.

He has already begun to dislike you, there is no love, why bother with it if you don't love, I believe you are also tired, let it go, let yourself live happily!

I don't think it's the same kind of people! If only I had chosen someone who shared the same hobbies and values, it would be better.

Do it well, forget it if it doesn't work.

I also have one now, should it be over?

If you don't break up, do you have to be driven away?

What you get is imperfect, others will think you are very good, he will be pampered and proud when he has you, this kind of male insatiable, obviously he is not the best, and he still asks you to do this Do your best, stop when you think you can, don't do things according to his requirements, if he really likes you, he won't think you have a lot of shortcomings, and what he likes should be all of you.

I think the average boy says this, it's not that you're really bad, it's that you find fault and want to break up, do you think the person who really loves you will dislike you?

The more this kind of man, the more attractive it is to women. You can do the same to him, to give him a little bitterness.

Such a man will only find fault with others, but he never reflects on what he wants him to do.

I think it's important to be confident, and then when you meet your boyfriend's friends, you have to talk to them more or something.

I don't even know how good your boyfriend is, how good he is in the world, and how good his tutor is. Just say what you said to him, and you can see that his tutor is very ordinary. Your boyfriend is obviously the kind of person who loves face, and he wants to break up with you just because you don't know how to behave in the world, so he doesn't think you are very important at all.

This kind of man will only say that he loves you, but in fact, he may not be in his heart. He dares to treat you like this now, and it won't be any better for you in the future. If you break up with him, let him find someone who is good at everything, and see if people can take a fancy to him.

He's belittled you to such an extent, why are you waiting to break up? I think breaking up is the trend of the times, and it's not interesting to stay together.

First, he shouldn't say that about you. Second, you must have done something very excessive. , because boys really pay attention to girls' tutoring. Because a girl's homeschool gave this boy a long face.

Is his popularity good.? Being a person is inherently a complex issue, and a man who loves you will only indulge you, and he can love you. But there is no right to ask you to change.

It also shows that he can't tolerate you. It's easy to fall in love and difficult to get along, and there will definitely be problems after being together for a long time, and the problems will either be solved, and the relationship will be solved if the problem can't be solved, so there is no need to be distressed.

Get along with each other, talk well, and don't scold at every turn.

This is very serious and hurtful, think about it from another angle, what is your problem?

There's nothing you can't learn, just like your mother didn't know anything before she got married, and that just means he's making excuses to break up with you, that he loves you, that he's going to teach you, that he's going to tell you, that's going to be on your side.

Do you still need to ask? I broke up with you because of such a small thing, so why should you be serious about others? It's not worth it.

Your boyfriend is really a bit too much, and if he's afraid of losing you, he's not going to break up because of that anyway. You choose him, you haven't married before, so you make such a request, a little girl just in the society, there is not much social experience, where will things come, if you will come to things, will he think that you are not pure enough, too worldly or sophisticated. Your boyfriend broke up with such a reason, I don't know what reason he will put forward to break up in the future, he will break up if he wants to break up, he proposes to break up so casually, what place do you have in his heart?

What does it mean that it won't come? Is it a way to do things? If yes, that's troublesome. This is a matter of principle, and no matter how much you love you, you may break up.

He loves you and doesn't care if you come to something. Hurry up and break up, and threaten you with a breakup, don't want him.

Then you learn slowly, it will definitely be, there is nothing that will not be.

Won't it happen? What do you mean?

It's useless, it's useless to be sad, you should say, it's not a problem, there are a few places.

First of all, girl, don't be sad, break up with him, since he dislikes you, then leave him in style, it's better to be the best version of yourself than anything else, you know? Only by making yourself stronger and more temperamental will you live beautifully, and I hope that while you love others, you must first know how to love yourself, so that others will love you, don't be sad, don't think too much People who really love you don't care about any flaws in you Come on, you will be happy.

Regardless of men and women, if they are in the place, they are qualified to care, the more they love, the more they care, they all want the other party to be completely their own, if they are not in the place, then what qualifications do you have to ask others, what qualifications do you have to be sad about this, who told you not to love yourself?

I don't think he really loves you, and if he loves you, he won't care about your past.

I hate it every day, I hate it every day, I can't help it, I can only divide it, find someone who doesn't dislike you.

It's not true love, it's not true love, it's too careful, and it's not easy to have a good time in the future.

You just break up with her, and you won't be happy when you get married.

Blame yourself for being too casual ...

There are a lot of places now.

He dislikes you for being shameless and not loving yourself.

He dislikes you for not being a virgin, you have to ask him if he is a virgin first.

You ask him! He's not a place! Why do you ask you to be!

Divide it, what's all the fuss.

It's not a lot now, so don't worry too much.

Don't let external factors affect your confidence, slowly change yourself little by little, and you will definitely become very good. Do more things that you are good at, and spend more time and energy practicing more things that you don't know. Anyone can give up on you, but you can't give up on yourself, you are living for yourself.

It's normal to not be able to behave with people.

But I believe that there are always people in the world who care about you and accept you.

Don't be too imperfect.

The more deliberate, the worse.

Just be yourself.

And don't always blame yourself for the cause.

Bad emotions can form a vicious circle.

You make sure you're happy first.

Go to the movies and listen to ** and go out and have fun.

Everything will be fine.

I'm the same as you, my character is like this, the same words come out of my mouth, I don't like to listen, I don't turn a little straight when I speak, especially when I reject others, I am particularly offended, causing the leaders to think that I am shirking my responsibility. I hate to talk about those hypocritical words, I feel very tired, I can't learn, my temper is not very good, I can always quarrel with others, so I don't mix well in the workplace. Try to change yourself and make yourself happy.

Man is a social animal and must have his own circle. There are things you like and things you hate, and you have to learn to get along with them. The first thing to do is to learn to live.

You have to know what everybody is talking about, and then develop interest in that topic. Do things reasonably, don't mind the rest!

I have to say that talent is very important, and some people are self-taught about communication or something. For those who don't know how to behave in the world, they rely on their own efforts. Don't say it's not important, it really doesn't make sense.

Don't speak, no one when you're dumb.

Dealing with the world needs to be learned, exercised, and gradually improved, and no one is born to die on all sides and on all sides. But a person in society has to deal with all kinds of people, parents, brothers, relatives, friends, colleagues, leaders, etc. You need to learn to deal with all kinds of interpersonal relationships.

Well, you can make the family dislike.

Only selfishness can be conformed.

Character issues. Just get used to it.

If everybody doesn't like you, that's really your own problem.

You should also roughly know that the problem is **, and make up your mind to change it, really.

I've been under too much pressure lately, and I can't hold it anymore. I would like to ask the gods to give me some instructions.

I'm 23 years old, I've been with my boyfriend for almost a year, and I'm in a long-distance relationship. The relationship between the two of us was very good. I went to his house for the first time in November last year, and his parents felt pretty good about me at that time.

Because his family opened a factory by himself, he was needed to replace his father in the future, and his father said that if I married him, I would go to his house in the future (he is an only son, and I have a younger sister at home), and said that he hoped that I would resign as soon as possible to help him (I was a college student after graduation and was admitted to the village official, and it only expired in September this year) I said that I wanted to wait until my job expired and I would go over. At that time, his father was a little unhappy, but he didn't say anything, just said something like asking me to quit every now and then. At that time, I was with my boyfriend for only a few months, and the reason why I didn't want to quit was that I felt that there were still variables in the future, although my job didn't make much money, but after the expiration of the examination, there was preferential treatment for public institutions or civil servants, if I couldn't succeed with him in the future, then I wouldn't have a boyfriend without a job and it would be difficult to have a job, besides, I will expire in September this year, and it will not be bad for these months.

Although his father was a little upset, he still didn't make it difficult for me. Because I had a small operation before, and after the operation, I took hormone drugs, which soared from 110 pounds to more than 140 pounds. My boyfriend is also fat, although he is 182 tall, but he has 200 pounds.

His dad thinks my boyfriend and I are fat, calls us **, and says it's for the sake of our health. His family's three meals are like this, breakfast, porridge steamed buns, lunch is a hodgepodge of noodles, and dinner is porridge steamed buns. Because his parents are very busy in the factory every day, so his grandfather is cooking, I don't like to eat noodles very much, and then I also cook porridge steamed buns every day.