My girlfriend can t cook and refuses to learn for me, doesn t she love me?

This depends on the specific situation, not cooking doesn't mean not loving you, it doesn't make sense logically, it's just that you don't want to cook, it's all caused by hobbies, some men like to cook very much, and women don't like it very much, it's just a personal hobby! So you can try to communicate and try cooking in the future!

Not necessarily, I think it only means that this girl may be lazy, doesn't like to cook, and can't use this to judge, but I think you can also guide her, for example, you teach her to cook or the two of you cook and eat together.

In fact, in this case, it's not that your girlfriend doesn't love you, after all, everyone can learn to cook, and it is not that your girlfriend has to learn to cook, your girlfriend can't cook, and she won't learn to cook. It's his personal freedom, and in this case you can learn to cook on your own. Instead of forcing your girlfriend to study.

Category: Annoyances >> in love.

Problem description: As the question, is it true that when a girl likes a man, she will try to make him happy, use delicious meals to trap his stomach, and capture his heart with her tenderness, is this the case? If a girl likes a man, will she unconsciously want to tidy up the room for him, clean up, cook for him, watch him gobble up his own food, see his satisfied and naughty smile like a child, listen to his heartfelt praise and feel how happy and lucky he is to meet such a good woman? If a girl is unwilling to do this, does it mean that he still doesn't love this boy, at least he is not so strong in love, and he is willing to give his affection and love???

Analysis: Hey hey. My boyfriend just keeps asking me this question, I always raise my head haha, two voices and don't speak, and then he asks again and says that he can't cook, I'm afraid that it won't taste good and then he will dislike me for not being virtuous enough, and then he will hold me and pinch my nose and love pity and say, baby, my puppy, learn slowly, everything is from scratch or something, no matter how it is done, it is my puppy who does it I like to eat, and then I will live a happy life:

The two of them came back from work together and went to the supermarket to buy their favorite dishes together, and then he did other housework, cleaning the windows、、、 I tied up the very cute apron he bought for me and walked around in the kitchen, that feeling was very warm, and then he would line me to concentrate on stir-frying when gently hugging me from the back, like watching the little mother busy cooking for her little son, he said that he enjoyed this life very much, hehe, he would enjoy it、、、 but as long as you like it, I will slowly learn to cook for you, Slowly let you enjoy this treatment!

Friends, I think to love him is to make him happy... Hehe、、、

Introduction: In life, as young people are getting busier and busier at work, and the task of learning is getting heavier and heavier, many people's social practice ability is not particularly good, and some women can't cook, so if their girlfriend can't cook, will they be willing to learn to cook for him? If so, I would be willing.

1. Learn to cook for your girlfriend to maintain your relationship. There are no rules, only women need to cook, and there are many men who are housewives now. And cooking is a matter that requires the care of two people, and if no one is willing to back down for this, then this relationship can also show the result from this small thing from now on.

Affection is not a game with each other, but mutual tolerance and humility. Only by being willing to pay for each other can we gain a more sincere feeling. So it's also a very manly thing to learn to cook for your girlfriend.

Second, feelings need to be paid. Affection is not an exchange of interests, but requires some unasked reciprocal giving. If your girlfriend can't cook, then you will learn to cook for him and pay your own efforts, so that your girlfriend will also see that she is willing to pay for this relationship, so that this relationship can become better and better in getting along, instead of rubbing everywhere because of some trivial things, because who will cook will quarrel everywhere, such a love life is very tired, so whether it is for yourself or for your girlfriend, you must learn to pay in the relationship, so that the relationship between each other can be truly sublimated.

3. Warm love with care. As a boy, only by warming his girlfriend with love can he reflect his masculinity, if it is a fact for his girlfriend, then such a boyfriend is not only in front of his wife, but also in front of friends and friends, not an honest and responsible man. Only when he expresses love for his wife and makes his wife happy in life, can a man be truly capable and responsible.

Yes, because I like each other very much, and I am willing to pay for each other, I will contract all the meals at home in the future.

I will learn to cook for her, because cooking is not necessarily done by women, but also by men.

I will learn to cook for my girlfriend because it will keep my girlfriend happy and it will also make life better for both of us.

Yes, if you like her very much, you will definitely make changes for her, which may be the performance of liking someone.

Girlfriend can't cook, you can learn to cook together, even if she doesn't do well, praise her.

There are two kinds of girlfriends who can't cook: one is that if they can't cook, they simply don't do it; There is also a kind of love that although you can't do it, you must dare to innovate, dare to try, and persist in doing it. Most of the girls in love are willing to pay for the boys, and it is not difficult to cook, but cooking requires talent, why don't they do it?

Because I'm afraid of being hit by you.

Therefore, life is sometimes not easy, there is pressure when you open your eyes, and there are problems everywhere. How cool it is to be praised and praised, Mark Twain once said: "With just one word of praise, I can live two more months."

It's not that you can't live without anyone to praise, but when life is a little bitter, everyone needs a little sweetness.

There is a classic saying in the Bible: If you want to remove the thorns from others, you must first remove the beams from your own eyes. When you want to criticize someone, think about whether the other person has any grievances.

I feel that others are "useless", perhaps because I have not found beauty in my eyes. "You see the world as it is, and the world sees you as it is. ”

In addition to giving appropriate praise to hard-working girlfriends, boys should also learn to cook, most men who love to cook have high IQs, and doing housework can prolong life. A man who can cook can understand and take the initiative to meet the needs of his family, and must have a warm and harmonious family. In addition, doing housework often can also delay brain aging and avoid Alzheimer's disease, such as excellent men Nicholas Tse and Chen Xiaochun, which are not loved by all people.

In the tedious housework, it is not a question of who does more and who does less, but how two people can do a good job in the division of labor in the family, and try to experience fun in the process, of course, more of a sense of responsibility.

In a family, a woman has to do a lot of things: go to work, cook, take care of the children, clean up the house. If you do it all by yourself, you can't have three heads and six arms.

You will definitely feel tired, and then you will have resentment and anger, which will make your other half feel very bad. But often they think like this: isn't it just a few things, what's so difficult?

When he participates with you, he will understand the tediousness, and you will have more understanding, tolerance and tacit understanding with each other. We should all be gentle in themselves, and when others talk about you, not to praise your abilities and status, but to say, "I have been with him, and the time is slower than usual, and the wind is warmer than usual."

Compliment your girlfriend and cook a sweet dinner with her.

In fact, there are many people's girlfriends in life who have some bad habits, some bad habits may be irrelevant, but some things are bad habits. For example, book reviews don't like housework and don't like to cook is actually a very hot topic, some people think that girls should cook, because the tradition in China for so many years is actually that girls cook, and some people think that girls shouldn't actually cook, because it's no longer a feudal society, and boys should spoil girls.

I don't think there is any specific truth to such statements, and my point is that girls can choose not to cook, but there should be a reason. That is to say, a girl can't do nothing, and she can't stop doing something because she is lazy. A complete family division of labor should be clear, you can make money, if you have your own independent economy, you can actually choose not to work, but if you don't do anything in your daily life, you don't want to cook and clean up the housework for a long time; And who will like you and live with you?

In fact, feelings in life are like this, everyone is mutual, we want to be liked by everyone at the same time, we also want to like each other, and we must have the capital worthy of being liked, so as to have a better life. We shouldn't just ask for things, so you won't have a happy life.

People who say these problems are immature in the face of life, in a love everyone should have their own things to pay, we are not only in love with flowers and red wine, we have to face the firewood, rice, oil and salt in life, these are the most needed things in a love, and Zhexi is in line with our actual life should face things, flowers and red wine are very good, but only for a period of time belong to our things, in the long-term life we should still return to reality.

Most of today's children don't know how to cook, and some may never have done it before. Don't use this to say that others are stupid, as long as you are willing to learn, it is very convenient now, there are many teachings on the Internet, if she can't do it and is unwilling to learn, it is lazy, and it is not a problem of stupidity.

What should I do if my girlfriend can't cook? I feel that such a stupid girl should be your favorite. So my girlfriend can't cook, so let's do it myself.

It's very simple, she can't cook, you can learn to cook by yourself, you can also teach her.

Try to do it yourself, cooking is not a girl's vocation, everyone is good at it differently.

Learn to cook by yourself and be a good man.

I once heard that a boy broke up with his girlfriend because girls couldn't make hanamaki, which sounds ridiculous. According to the boy, when they were together, the girl never learned how to make hanamaki well, which made him very disappointed and frustrated, feeling that the girl could not meet his expectations of family life.

This boy had grown up in a very traditional family since he was a child, and the women in the family were very good at cooking, so he always had a standard in his heart: a girl must be able to cook Xiaobi in order to be a good wife and mother. And the girl is raised in a big city, the family conditions are superior, and she has never had no special interest in cooking.

In the process of getting along, boys have always wanted to help girls learn to cook and cook by teaching and encouraging, but girls' interests have never been here, which makes boys very frustrated. In the end, the boy couldn't bear it anymore and proposed to break up.

The reason for this breakup is incomprehensible to many people, and even a little nonsensical. But in fact, everyone has their own values and standards deep down, and they will make their own choices based on these criteria when pairing. For this boy, cooking occupies a very important position in both culture and life concept, so the girlfriend he chooses must meet this standard.

Although this reason for breaking up sounds ridiculous, it also reflects the incompatibility between two people.

In love, everyone has their own needs and expectations, which may not be reasonable, but it is a deep reflection of a person's heart, so when choosing a partner, it is always necessary to look at emotions rationally and choose the right object for yourself.

This is not a problem, don't you like it if she doesn't know how to cook, if it's like this, when you talk about your girlfriend, Linglu should find someone who can cook and talk about it.

Summary. Hello, happy with your question. Girlfriend said:

I don't want to cook in the future, I don't want to learn to cook, and I don't want to do housework. Do you want to break up? It's just your girlfriend talking about it now, and when the time comes, he will naturally do it, and there is no need to say break up.

My girlfriend said: I don't want to cook in the future, I don't want to learn to cook, and I don't want to do housework. Do you want to break up?

Hello, happy with your question. My girlfriend said: I don't want to cook in the future, I don't want to learn to cook, and I don't want to do housework.

Do you want to call for breakups and repentance? It's just your girlfriend arguing now, and when the time comes, he will naturally do it, and there is no need to say break up.

Kiss , do you love your girlfriend?

I'm sure I love it.

I don't think it's a problem if you love her.

Kiss You can cook when you're together, and if you're not at home, she'll naturally cook it herself<>

Kiss, now your girlfriend is saying this, but if she really gets married and has a child after a trillion trouble, she can do anything to cover it<>

My girlfriend said: I don't want to cook in the future, I don't want to learn to cook, and I don't want to do housework. Do you want to break up?

This depends on the relationship between the two of you, if your girlfriend really loves you, and you love him for the hail, then I don't think you should break up. Because my girlfriend is still young now, she just talks casually, and when she gets married, she will naturally learn to cook.