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If you're really tired, just give up, whoever leaves can live.
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1.Don't make any decisions when you're in tears, and talk as little as possible when you're in a negative mood.
2.Don't think about the same question over and over again, don't put all your feelings on one person, you have your parents, you have other friends.
3.Don't be afraid to do something wrong, even if you are wrong, don't be upset, life is right and wrong, not to mention that there are many things, looking back, right and wrong no longer matter.
4.It's normal to have negative emotions, but you must know that this is only a small part of life, and try to calm down your emotions for the rest of the time.
5.It's normal that person suddenly doesn't contact you; It's normal for that person to contact you again all of a sudden, and that doesn't mean anything.
6.If you don't understand, say it, and if you do, don't say it, just smile.
7.All the troubles are self-inflicted, so you can only solve them by yourself, don't cry with your friends, and ask them to play.
8.What has been said must be done, even if it is very stupid, no matter how stupid it is, it is better than not believing it.
9.No matter what happens, don't break the original rules of life, eat and sleep on time.
10.Don't be afraid to do something, don't be afraid to touch the situation, don't be afraid to say the wrong thing, don't be afraid to think of the past, don't be afraid to face the future.
11.Whether it's right or wrong, you need a guideline that your behavior should follow and constantly revise according to real life. It is impossible for a person who is indecisive to be likable, and a person who hovers between right and wrong is not as positive as a person who goes from wrong to right.
12.When he said, "Let's calm down for a while, shall we?" ", to say yes calmly, and then hang up**. Don't plead, he's not here to ask for your opinion.
13.Don't take out all the words from the bottom of your heart, these are the treasures that belong only to you.
14.Don't talk to a person about people in the same circle as him, no matter how reliable you think they are.
15.When you don't know what to say to him, then don't say anything, silence has infinite meanings.
16.Don't pursue any result, everyone has the same result, which is death.
17.Don't regret it, don't regret it anyway, regret is more terrible than what you did wrong, because it destroys your self-confidence, self-esteem and is very likely to cause you to do something more wrong.
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Well, I guess it's a lot of pressure. Because there are more and more excellent people around you, these uncertainties will arise. In fact, as long as you do what you should do and treat your friends sincerely, then they will feel it too. Don't overthink it.
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It's the way of nature, you see, even plants such as mimosas!
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Make friends with happy people and you will be happy too.
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Everything is arranged for the best I feel that this sentence can be somewhat relieved.
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It is fundamental to eliminate confusion and irritability, relieve psychological pressure, establish a life path, and establish good living habits and attitudes.
1. Life is only a hundred years, it is still easier to be a man--- don't be in a hurry, don't be burdened by trivial things, take a step back and open the sky.
2. Maintain inner peace to feel relaxed--- content, indifferent to fame and fortune, tolerant of others, and learn to be calm.
3. Be kind to yourself, you will feel more relaxed--- accept yourself, applaud yourself more, learn to rest, and vent the troubles in life.
4. To be a relaxed person, you need to learn to enjoy life.
In life, it is inevitable to encounter some unpleasant things, but sometimes you just need to look at the problem from a different angle and face it optimistically, and there will be a scene of "another village in front of you", which requires discovering and creating the beauty of life and learning to enjoy life.
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Most people are just like you, including me.
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Sentimental people are more emotional ups and downs than ordinary people, emotions are often turbulent, alternating between cold and warm, sad and joyful, emotionally rich, long or short, soft as mud, kindness mostly, with the feelings of compassion and compassion for travel, when it is good, it is very rich in artistic inspiration and talent, can discern the details, penetrate the psychology of others, like radar, sharp sense of smell, smart and clever, introverted and subtle, the character will not appear drastic socks ruined style, never rough and wild, focus on the inner universe, Once the retraction and release are out of control, it will cause many emotional problems, it will be stingy, sensitive and irritable, emotional, irrational in dealing with problems, Zhenchun does not know how to weigh the pros and cons of gains and losses, resulting in a situation where it is unbearable and chaotic, and it will also be hysterical and lose self-control, resulting in irreparable impulses and neuroticism.
This kind of psychology is generally caused by childhood circumstances, being treated without love, not getting the attention and love of the elders, family warmth is very lacking, easy to look at the shadow of self-pity, pinning affection on the scene, clicking on the cultivation of imagination, obsessing with the untouchable things in the void, balancing the imbalance of emotions through fantasy, needing to be recognized, being known that they are different from others, and special, easy to become thinkers, writers, writers, ** home, it depends on how they express themselves.
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Summary. You can reply to him like this: "Although you think you are a heartless person, everyone has times when they are sad and hurt, and this is a normal emotional reaction.
If you're not feeling any emotional response right now, it's probably because you haven't really been in touch with your innermost emotions yet. I advise you to pay attention to your inner feelings, try to explore your hidden emotions, and find appropriate ways to deal with them. At the same time, you can also try to deepen your emotional connection with others through communication and interaction.
Hello dear, I am happy to serve you, I am an emotional counseling teacher Zhuang Zhuang, good at marriage and family, love, psychology and other aspects of the problem analysis, typing needs a letter manuscript collapse time, so don't worry, if it is convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation, in order to help you solve the problem more respectfully
Hello dear, it's a pleasure to answer your questions, I understand how you feel right now, maybe you feel sentimental and have a hard time controlling your emotions. I suggest that you try to see yourself through the eyes of others and not be too yourself. At the same time, you should also learn to express your feelings from Sakura Li Ji, and don't suppress your emotions because you are worried about the reaction of others.
If you need further help, consider talking to a psychologist or a close friend who may be able to help you better understand yourself and take control of your emotions. The above is about your question. Thank you for your consultation and have a great day!
I don't feel bad if I don't have a heart or lungs.
How to reply. You can reply to him like this: "I understand how things feel like you, and sometimes we feel overly sensitive.
I suggest you try to take a few deep breaths to allow yourself to relax. You can also try to find activities that make you feel good to deal with negative emotions, such as listening, watching movies, or chatting with friends. In addition, you can try to think about the reasons that are causing your low mood and find appropriate ways to address them.
You can reply to him like this: "Although you think you are a heartless person, everyone has times when they are sad and hurt, and this is a normal emotional reaction. If you're not feeling any emotional response right now, it's probably because you haven't really been in touch with your innermost emotions yet.
I advise you to pay attention to your inner feelings, try to explore your hidden emotions, and find appropriate ways to deal with them. At the same time, you can also try to deepen your emotional connection with others through communication and interaction. This can help you feel more emotion and joy in the dust, and it can also make you more empathetic and caring for others.
I hope my advice is helpful to you. Oak accompaniment".
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First, recognize the natural differences between boys and girls, and accept the existence of differences between men and women.
1. I remember that there was a book in the early years, the name was "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", in John Gray's series of books, the differences between men and women were told in more detail, you might as well find it and read it. The two learn and grow together, why men and women are so different, so that they can increase their understanding of each other.
2. Seeing the difference between boys and girls, allowing each to hold its own independent "characteristics", only by seeing each other clearly and getting along can we understand and tolerate each other more. When you understand the needs of the other party and tolerate the "sentimentality" of the other party, does it change from "unnecessary" to "accept its different qualities"?!
Second, in relationships, try to learn to be authentic.
1. Because both parties in the relationship are also independent individuals, when the other party's personality characteristics are "blank" for themselves, it is normal to not be able to understand each other. At this time, the party who needs the other party to understand needs to learn to take the initiative to learn to communicate and express with the other party, so as to achieve effective communication, and see each other's inner needs, so as to further make feasible changes in getting along. 、
2. Here, I recommend a book "Nonviolent Communication", both boys and girls can learn, for example, when girls are aware of their "sentimentality" and hope that the other party will see their emotions, remember to take the initiative to express their true emotional feelings to the other party, and what is the expectation of the other party? In this way, the other party can understand and understand their own needs. The basic "routine" of expression is to feel plus need.
Third, improve the ability to love yourself and know how to love yourself.
1. When a person learns and enjoys solitude first, and then enters the relationship, he will be at ease, and will not pin all his expectations on the other person.
2. Realize that "high sensitivity is a talent", and it is not bad to have this personality, but in the relationship, you need to take the initiative to reveal your heart and express yourself, so that the other half understands more of your needs, which is the key.
3. Learn to improve the ability of self-love, and first grasp the ability to love yourself, such as reading the books "When You Start to Love Yourself, the World Will Love You" and "Love Yourself Back".
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