What should I do in the face of her like this, I will hurt her

Really, you're planning for the future now?

Do people think so? It's still in the hazy stage, there won't be so many thoughts, I'm talking about her again.

And why are you still in school like this, don't you think it's too early? If you really want to plan for the future, then you should study hard now and tell her that you will be responsible for her.

1. What is harm, figure out whether it is good or not.

2. If you really love her, he also loves you, and it doesn't hurt to let go now.

3. Ask him what kind of feelings he wants, can you give it, if you can, you can do it yourself, if not, you work hard first.

4. Find out whether love is important or academic, and find a balance.

Finally, I wish you happiness.

Tell you the truth, if you don't hurt her, someone will always hurt her, and you can bear to hand her over to someone else to hurt??

Got it? You don't need to be taught, do you?

Love has no distance Happiness is grasped by oneself.

In fact, what she means is that she still loves the previous object in her heart, but she is embarrassed to refuse your pursuit, and she feels that she can talk to you very well, and she doesn't want to let go of your side, so in this way, the euphemistic expression is "afraid of hurting you", in fact, the essence of the meaning is that I still love the person I used to be, and I can't make a decision.

You said you asked her before you pursued her, and she said there was no object now, so you chased her. But you didn't ask, did she let go of the person before and the relationship she had before? If you don't ask, then she's actually just swinging between you and the person before you, hesitating, preparing to choose, or she's waiting for her ex's decision, and she's not ready to start with you.

I think she is doing this very right, when she is unsure in her heart and can't make a decision, she will not start dating you, so as not to hurt you in the future, she did the right thing.

She knows that she won't marry you, but she has a crush on you, so she's afraid of hurting you.

Love should not hurt each other. That's why you're confused! It can be seen that the love that hurts each other is the love that has problems!

When you talk about love, it's either verbal or superficial. Verbal love no one will believe. Two people hurt each other, and at least one person is skeptical of love.

Do you really love me? Let's verify it, okay! I hurt you, and if you hurt me too, it's nonsense for you to say that you love me!

This one is just conjecture! There is also a kind of one party that clearly feels the other, saying one thing with his mouth and doing another with his hands! There are two kinds, one is not enough to understand each other, such as:

You say you love me, why are you coming home so late this time? You say you love me, why did you forget what I said? For all sorts of reasons, it's not necessarily not love!

The other is to really say one thing, do another, go on a date with someone else, and don't love at all.

Because it is just conjecture and feeling, so this kind of verification is only in words, if you don't love is not conjecture and feeling, but fact, then it is definitely not just a verbal injury!

There is also a situation where there is not a problem with love, but because it is safest to lose your temper with someone who loves you. When a person is wronged outside and upset, who can he vent to! It's not safe for anyone, who eats his set!

You can only go home and vent to the people who love you the most! There is no good way to do this, we have to learn to understand our loved ones! He wasn't targeting us, but just trying to stabilize himself!

Once his emotions stabilized, he was bound to feel guilty about us. will love us better.

As for whether you hate it, it's because you see what she does as a test for you! It's a special way to love you! Naturally, I can't hate it!

The above is just a personal thought, I hope it can help you!