I feel like I ve reached the point of my life

I also feel this way, but for the sake of your parents still have to live, you don't have money now, you can still take care of the family to ask for some, or manage friends to borrow some, hurry up and find a job, you can't sit and eat empty, the current society will not starve to death, it depends on whether you will fight, there are many unsatisfactory people, you can't all die, face the reality, for the sake of the family not to be sad, or live well, I don't have so many ideas now, or live a good life, there is still a good youth, there are still a lot of things that have not been eaten, I haven't been to many places, and my life has not been enjoyed before it ends, it's not very miserable, I come to the world to walk once, I have to taste the sour and sweet, and there is no way to Pingchuan.

The first half of your school was in vain, you can't get over this little hurdle, you think about what else you can do in the future, you pass the current official, and you can do anything in the future.

In fact, when it comes to the same thing, positive emotions are different from negative people's perceptions. Let me tell you, if a person reaches the lowest point, as long as he faces it bravely, there will naturally be a ** time! If you figure it out, you'll be fine!!

Don't always think of yourself as miserable, you can think about those who are worse than you live, and your mind will be more balanced. And when you're in a bad mood, don't listen to sad songs.

Why is it so useless, then please jump from the 12th floor, you should fall to death.

Don't look too high, don't necessarily do what you have learned, find something to do first, and then look for it, take your time at work, and others may not be able to see your current ability when you like the job

Now that you have reached the lowest point in your life, you will only have one way to ascend in the future.

Keep your head high for the sake of the lows.

Grinding is a resource. There is a story about a young man, who has just graduated from university, and the road to job hunting is very difficult, because he has no work experience, and his major is not popular, he has repeatedly encountered a wall in interviews, and he has interviewed more than 50 units within three months, but he has not succeeded. When he sat in front of an interviewer in a company again to tell his story, the interviewer showed great interest in him and finally accepted him.

The reason for this is that it is a job search consulting agency that specializes in providing consulting services to job seekers. So your experience is your resource, don't take yourself lightly. Ideally, perhaps this is an inevitable stage in your ascent.

There are ups and downs in life, some people can come out of the trough and go to a higher level of life, while some people go downhill from then on and achieve nothing. Whether a person can get out of the trough in faith is related to his psychological state, and it is difficult for people with these three states to get out of the trough of life.

1) The "sour grape effect" of self-soothing

Some people fail and will analyze their own reasons, find a breakthrough, and make a comeback, while others will constantly make excuses for themselves to explain the rationality of this state.

You see others getting a raise and reassure yourself that that kind of work is too stressful and not what you want; You broke up with your girlfriend and you consoled yourself that she wasn't the right person; You didn't stick to your workout today, and you consoled yourself that one more day of fitness wouldn't have any effect. In any case, you always have a thousand reasons to let go of your frustration and accept it with peace of mind.

2) Can't get out of the "psychological comfort zone".

Fan Li ordered a 15-yuan beef fried noodles at a food stall near the company, and as she ate it, her tears flowed down her cheeks. She looked at her phone, and it was already 10 p.m., the fourth day in a row that she had worked so late this week.

Fan Li does software testing in a technology company, with a salary of 4,000, and after deducting five insurances and one housing fund, there is only about 3,500 left, excluding the rent of 1,000, plus the usual food and transportation expenses, almost beyond her means. She wanted to leave her job more than once, and wanted to find a job with a higher salary, a weekend, and no overtime work, but every time she stared back. She said that she didn't know what would happen after she left her job, whether she could find a better job, and whether she could survive the job search.

The last time I saw her, she still worked at her old company, and she still worked late almost every day, and there were still no weekends. She once asked the company to resign, and the company gave her a 500 increase, so she stayed.

In fact, she can't get out of her "psychological comfort zone" - although the job is terrible, at least she is familiar with it, she knows what time to work overtime every day, and knows which way to go to the company closest. However, this familiarity brought her endless torture.

3) Deeply influenced by the "mourning culture".

"Mourning culture" refers to the fact that young people become depressed and depressed in the face of the pressure of life, and lose their purpose and hope in life. They use "Ge You Lying" to laugh at their status quo, and then they are content with the status quo and do not want to forge ahead. As a direct consequence of this, instead of trying to change the status quo, they are depressed all day long, playing with life.

They no longer believe that they can afford to buy a house in their lifetime, no longer believe that there will be no material love, and no longer believe in the meaning of hard work.

People who are at a low point in their lives are the most susceptible to negative thoughts, which lead to their current situation getting worse and worse. These negative states are gradually eating away at their will, killing their time, and causing their life level to be lower and lower.