What s so hard about tolerance? Why be tolerant

Everyone has their own difficulties, and they should not be outsiders. Those misunderstandings, cold eyes and loneliness! Only you can feel that since you have a commitment, no matter whether you are strong or not, you have to abandon some people and things in the wilderness!

Everyone has their own way to go, whether it's a straight road or a strange path. Everyone has something to do, whether it's happy or sad. Everyone has their own people to meet, whether it is a hand in hand or a guest who rubs shoulders.

I only found out today that everyone has their own difficulties, they have their own reasons for wanting to cry, many times, we can persuade others, but we can't persuade ourselves, we are so stubborn.

If you love, there is no difficulty, and if you don't love, you can't do it.

Tolerance is a beautiful quality, but a narrow-minded person cannot do it.

I think being tolerant of others also belongs to being tolerant of yourself, everything has pros and cons, everything should be open or take a long-term view! Even if you want to open some for yourself.

It's not easy to be tolerant sometimes, especially when you give a lot and others don't understand and blame you, so it's really hard to be tolerant sometimes.

What's so difficult about tolerance, if there is, it's all your own definition. To be tolerant is to let go of my comparisons, my judgments, and let go of my ego's greed and hatred.

Tolerance is the basis of cooperation. There are various differences between people, and it is necessary to be tolerant and respect each other's individuality. Because everyone's lifestyle, way of thinking, behavioral habits, and personality characteristics are different, there are differences in moral cultivation, and it is very normal for people to have differences and contradictions.

There are all kinds of differences between people, and there is a need to be tolerant of each other and to respect each other's individuality. People are not sages, and everyone makes mistakes at times, and they need to be tolerated by others. Seeking common ground while reserving differences is the basis for tolerance and cooperation.

If we are tolerant, we can solve people's difficulties, promote people's strengths, and forgive people's mistakes, so that we can win friendship and get more friends. Tolerance allows the other person to learn from it and re-examine their own behavior; Tolerance enables oneself to be free from troubles and hatred, and to experience peace and contentment of the soul.

Because to be tolerant of others is also to be tolerant of oneself; A little more tolerance for others, in fact, a little more space in our lives. On the road of life with friends, there will be love and support, and there will be no loneliness and loneliness; The life of friends will be less wind and rain, and more warmth and sunshine. Don't let your eyes always be busy collecting the shortcomings of others, we only have a pair of eyes, which should be used to find the strengths of others, and should not always stare at the shortcomings of others.

No one is perfect, and to be tolerant of others is to be tolerant of oneself; To be kind to others is to be kind to yourself. Tolerance is a virtue is a kind of wisdom, the sea can be tolerant of all rivers, we must learn to be tolerant, lenient to others, strict with ourselves. Tolerance is a kind of cultivation and a kind of realm; Tolerance is a solvent, a lubricant for mutual understanding; Tolerance is a good medicine, a good medicine for the wounds of the soul.

There is also a happy rule of being a human being: be tolerant.

Life is very forgiving to us. If you accidentally cut your hand, life will make it grow well; If you eat the wrong food, life will make you feel it immediately through nausea, so that you can take remedy. Life does not blame us, it always tolerates us and allows us to regain our health.

As long as we are willing to cooperate in our minds, life will bring us peace and peace. But negative thoughts, painful memories, resentment and malice towards others can hinder this vitality of life.

Life is tolerant of us, and we must also know how to be tolerant of others. Giving tolerance can reap a healthy life. We describe a person as angry:

Infuriated lungs. Traditional Chinese medicine says: Qi hurts the lungs.

You are angry, and your anger is burning. Traditional Chinese medicine says: anger hurts the liver.

If you are always tolerant, you are protecting yourself. Now advocating: learn to get along with yourself.

It is to know how to take care of yourself, not to torture your body through emotions, and to learn to protect yourself.

When I was in elementary school, there was a small incident that happened to my neighbors, the sisters, that left a deep impression on me and I will never forget to this day.

At that time, people were still burning honeycomb coal. When we took out the garbage, the cleaners dragged the garbage cart and rang the bell into the compound where we lived, so every household came out with the garbage to take it out. It just so happened that the sisters lived on the first floor, and the upstairs garbage had to pass through their house, so it was inevitable that some soot would be scattered at the door.

The cleaner who took out the garbage that day came again. When my sister came back, she found that there was a lot of soot at the door of her house, and she swept it too many times, so she finally couldn't help it this time, so she scolded. She scolded very fiercely, and it was also hard to hear, "Which bastard has the ability to admit it, and if there is a seed, stand up!"

As a result, the man who accidentally sprinkled the soot finally couldn't bear it anymore and jumped out to quarrel with her. It was noisy, and my sister returned. I think there's a drama to watch now, two quarrel with one.

Who knew that my sister saw that her sister was arguing with others, not only did she not help her sister quarrel, but pushed her sister back vigorously, saying: "What is there to quarrel with your neighbors?" Neither did anyone else's intention.

You have time to make noise, you can already sweep the soot clean. ”

After pushing her sister in, she took out her broom and began to sweep it. I watched from the sidelines, and suddenly I thought she was beautiful and moving. This happened when I was in elementary school, and I still remember it.

In the future, I tried to be as careful as possible when taking out the garbage and not spilling it on her doorstep. Not only me, but I find that everyone else is too.

Being tolerant and considerate of others shows your good cultivation and virtues, which will add to your charm and make you appear more lovely.

Pay tolerance, reap health and harmony.

Being tolerant and considerate of others shows your good cultivation and virtues, which will add to your charm.

Take your time and experience for yourself: A wise man once said, "You must be tolerant three times."

You have to forgive yourself because you can't be perfect; You must forgive your enemies because the fire of your anger will only affect yourself and your family; Perhaps the hardest thing to do on the way to finding happiness is that you have to forgive your friends, because the closer you are, the more you can inadvertently and deeply slander you. Too often, we are too others. The tongue of the world, with which we are more accustomed to stirring up storms in the crowd.

Everyone is trying to prove that I am right and you are wrong. People always have self-esteem, and beauties will be willing to be pointed out for their shortcomings.

What's more, what we think is true may actually be what others think is false. Tolerance is a virtue: when we are harsh on everything, the world is left with lightning in our eyes.

Tolerance is also a kind of broadness. Tolerance is great. In this way, we can also say that a heart can accommodate the shortcomings of others or oneself, and can accommodate the ups and downs of the whole world.

Tolerance is a blessing. We tolerate others, not only giving them respect and trust, but also blessings us. You see the people who often crouch in the corner, waiting for an opportunity to come out and take advantage of the shortcomings of others, their eyes lack brilliance, and their faces are blue and gloomy; And those who are able to face the world with a forgiving heart are ruddy-faced, peaceful and joyful.

There is a saying that "there is no way for good or evil, only people invite themselves". There are many kinds of blessings in a person's life, and the most constant one is tolerance. Because this blessing is not given by anyone, it is a blessing to the self.

The person who has the whole world in his heart will also be full of flowers in his heart.