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Life seems to be very long, but when you have experienced an experience that you have never imagined, it seems that this is very long and very short, so short that it seems to be only between opening and closing your eyes.
Looking back at those "stubbornness" in the past, I will always think that if life is started all over again, only "forgiveness" or "tolerance" can make a life full of storms become gentle and sweet. And so wonderful!
Forgiving others is an excellent way to release yourself, and after forgiveness is happiness, comfort, calmness, and peace of mind.
Tolerating others is a mature practice, a rare realm in life, and a transcendent realm!
If you slow down your life in resentment, then this hatred will become a "drug" addiction, burning in your chest, burning your own body, and even harming the hearts of others.
If they hurt each other and shackle each other, in the end, they will only be killed by each other's "human nature", and their lives will be wasted, and there will be no winners at all.
Forgiveness and tolerance are the most beautiful scenery in life, the greatest wisdom in life, and the most elegant realm in life.
So, cherish your loved ones, friends, and all those you know. Always think of "forgiveness" and "tolerance". Don't give the most familiar and dearest people the farthest distance in your eyes!
Without forgiveness, without tolerance, then life will lose its temperature and lose its content. All actions are just a one-person drama, so bleak, so helpless.
Moreover, the Creator of the world is always the Creator of the world, and the grace is given to mankind, "Ask Allah for forgiveness, and Allah is Forgiving and Merciful." People, how can they not concentrate on it?
Forgiveness and forgiveness are actually good deeds. As a believer, all good deeds are done for Allah's sake. Ge Lao said:
Good deeds are the highest good, righteousness. It is a good deed that is close to Allah, it is a deed. The Hadith says:
All good deeds belong to a kind of charity.
Therefore, forgiveness and forgiveness are both charity.
One day, if you despise the "forgiveness and tolerance" in your life, the regret at that time can only become the biggest regret in life that cannot be made up for in this life.
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There are similarities and differences: forgiveness comes after the incident.
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No, it is possible to forgive.
To forgive is to have forgiven.
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What needs to be forgiven is a mistake!
What needs to be forgiven are the shortcomings!
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Some people may say that tolerance and forgiveness mean the same thing, but I don't think so. Tolerance gives people the feeling that they are more inclined to forgive and forbearance, and tolerance lies in tolerance. Fast is to identify with the existence of the landlord phenomenon, fast does not have to be hurt, it lies in understanding, in recognition, tolerance is a kind of bearing.
Tolerance focuses on providing a relaxed environment for forgiveness before others do things, and this focuses on the open-mindedness and generosity of others after doing things, especially when they do things wrong.
Tolerance is a realm, tolerance is an attitude, and tolerance should be remembered. The animalistic nature of spring grass is not a process of enduring suffering, but a state of understanding others. When I confess, I don't like to tolerate others, but after gradually learning to tolerate other people's mistakes, you can experience another realm, tolerance and tolerance, I think it is also different.
If you are very angry at someone's behavior, but you don't show it, it only means that you are tolerating them. This will only be your own depression, but if you understand him, think about the reasons for his mistakes, and look at it calmly from his point of view, this is tolerance.
Passive forgiveness will never become selfless and natural forgiveness in the heart. I can't think that more people will make the moon appear in the middle measure, on the contrary, it will make people more toothy backpack, the home of the independent beer lady, if you really don't look at it, then say it.
Some people always think that he forces others to be tolerant of himself, let others be tolerant, and gradually become the most tolerant political person himself does not know how to praise others, and there should be one tolerance, otherwise it will become connivance.
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Tolerance actually comes in many forms. If you don't know what it means to be tolerant? So what do you think is intolerance? Tolerant and stingy, does she want to be right?
I think tolerance and chicks are really thinking about the object. If you want to talk about tolerance, let's talk about some ordinary things as examples. Because, for example, it may be more clear, because if we do have those things that happen in ordinary times, we can also experience what tolerance is, right?
If you are in love, then you will feel that your girlfriend is very good at finding your own business, very good at finding a fault, they are also very angry, very good at finding your shortcomings, and angry with you, at this time you can experience. How can the guide be considered tolerant?
At this time, if you choose to be angry with them and worry about them, this is considered as stingy, and you are not tolerant of them. Because girls I can't do this to them. In today's society, the status of women is much worse than that of men, and men are in high positions.
Three wives and four concubines are fine.
In today's society, women are the emperor, and they are the boss, right? So when they are angry, we can't be with them, we all tolerate them, tolerate them and take the initiative to admit their mistakes, even if sometimes we are really right, but we don't have to talk to them.
Maybe this kind of tolerance is that the real body doesn't care, to be honest, this is tolerance for them.
And sometimes it's the same, sometimes they say the wrong thing or sometimes they don't understand it, and they do it wrong, and I shouldn't. I have to be considerate of them if I deliberately find fault with him, because there is a saying that those who don't know are not guilty?
Because they don't know how to be a guest, we shouldn't blame them for this, if we think about it, because he doesn't know, and then we tell them what to do next time, since it's tolerant, otherwise you're a stingy person!
Other times it was when we were in college. As a senior sister, when I faced my younger brother.
Sometimes, we have long tails because they don't know a lot of things, so we want to make one. We owe others, but our relatives who are more mature than them and know more than them teach them how to do it, we don't just because we are a little older than him, we know more than him, we can laugh at them and mock them.
It's just that as senior sisters, we can't take ourselves too seriously, after all, everyone is human, and they are not necessarily many years younger than or younger than us? It's just that he hasn't experienced it, they don't know, and we shouldn't look down on them. Because we remember a saying, what if one day I beg him.
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Tolerance is like a drizzle from heaven that moistens the earth. It blesses the tolerant as well as the tolerated.
Forgiveness focuses on the open-mindedness and generosity of others after they have done something, especially after they have done something wrong.
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The difference between one word and the meaning is not the same, you can disassemble it first, and then you will understand.
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Forgiveness is when you do something wrong and are forgiven.
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What is "tolerance", the official word Jianshan Mengyu analysis is the draft bridge: magnanimous and magnanimous, do not care or do not pursue. The official answer to what is meant by "forgiveness" is to tolerate and forgive negligence, negligence and mistakes, without blame or punishment.
Originally, I just wanted to talk about "tolerance" superficially, but I think that tolerance is a phenomenon that only exists on the surface, and forgiveness is tolerance from the heart, so I mixed the two.
Tolerance is a high probability that what happened did not cause substantial harm to the parties and stayed on the surface. For example, if a colleague in the unit drinks my coffee without my consent, I know that at most I will complain, but I will not bring such a complaint into a deeper emotion, if I feel that the matter is serious, I will choose not to carry coffee or tell my colleague euphemistically, it is very rude to take something without the consent of others. Although I feel from the bottom of my heart that this colleague likes to take advantage of me, taking advantage of me has not caused me more harm.
But forgiveness is different, forgiveness is a feeling that comes from the heart, and we often hear a sentence called "I accept your apology, but I will not forgive you". It shows that the parties involved in the matter have been affected and hurt in their hearts because of what happened, and the mental damage cannot be repaired all of a sudden, so there will be contradictions between people that are difficult to explain clearly. Even if it is explained clearly, the estrangement still exists, and the next time they meet face-to-face, they will be more cautious about each other.
On weekdays, Lao He, a very good colleague in the relationship department, said bad things about me behind my back, and it was an unwarranted bad word, which affected the views of colleagues and leaders on me, and even more seriously may affect my work, then I will definitely not be close to Lao He again, and even feel that Lao He has a very bad character, can't keep secrets, and doesn't care about friends.
Therefore, we must learn to be tolerant of those around us and not easily forgive those who have hurt us.
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Is it the same thing to be tolerant and forgive others? is a meaning.
For people who have hurt themselves, if the manuscript is like a criminal case, let the law punish him, if it is a bump in daily work or daily life, don't bother him too much.
One by one, I feel that this person is not bad in nature, and his character is okay, but he is just a knife mouth and tofu heart, and he will not come to trouble, so he doesn't have to take it to heart. If a person with an ugly face and a person who stumbles behind his back, he doesn't care whether he forgives or not, but for such a person to stay away from him, not to work with such a person, to ignore his affairs, just like a passerby, to such a person, he doesn't even hate his master, the more entangled you are, the more people look at your jokes, so we don't spend time and emotions on this kind of person. Spend that time and energy on the things you love.
I have a lot of things to do, and I throw things about others out of my head, and when I am strong and my career is successful, is that little thing about others still a thing?
One by one life and work, all kinds of contradictions are inevitable, and the friction between people will always exist, because of the difference in the three views, the way of doing things is bound to be strange, if you are always entangled in these problems, it will be your own torture, endless, why bother? Get out of this quagmire as soon as possible, move forward easily, and live your own life, that's the real thing.
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Forgiving others is an excellent way to release yourself, and after forgiveness is happiness, comfort, and peace of mind. To tolerate others, collapse is a mature practice, a rare realm in life, and a transcendent realm to dispel the realm!
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Tolerance is not the same as forgiveness, forgiveness is to completely let go of contradictions, disputes, and tolerance, just don't care, but not necessarily let go!
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There is no definite answer to this question, as it depends on the situation. However, I can give you some direction to think about.
If this person has no intention of hurting you, but just made a small mistake or impulsiveness, then you can try to forgive him and communicate with him to let him know that he has hurt you, and hope that he can avoid similar behavior as much as possible in the future so as not to hurt again. In some cases, tolerance and forgiveness can ease tensions and allow things to be resolved better.
However, if the person intends to harm you, or if his actions have very serious consequences for you, then you need to consider your own safety and interests. At this point, you may need to take action to protect yourself, such as testifying to him, sending information or other means. This may involve the issue of legal law, so consider consulting a professional on how to deal with the problem.
Finally, remember that whether you choose to forgive or fight back, make decisions calmly, sensibly, and wisely. Don't overreact to your emotions because they will only make things worse.
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To be tolerant is to forgive oneself. This is a sentence said by Xu Huizhen, played by Jiang Wenli in the TV series "The Little Woman Under Zhengyang Gate", and also said that "tolerating others is to forgive yourself, and forgiving others is to forgive yourself", I personally think it is very philosophical. Leave the plot behind the story and move on to our lives and work.
Whether it's a rough job or a job, we want to achieve all kinds of success, satisfaction, joy, and so on, but generally speaking, the premise is through the right means. But think about it on the other hand, good things, good opportunities are not available everywhere, they also have lifespan, quantity, time and space limitations, we get it, rotten demolition and success, then there must be people who can't get it, go to failure. Whether it is unintentional or intentional, it will hurt others more or less because of a word or an action, but often we don't feel it, but we will firmly remember how many tribulations, suppression, ridicule and even attacks and injuries we have experienced along the way, maybe these will take root in the depths of our hearts and remind ourselves at all times.
The casual words and deeds of others will accidentally tease it, touch it, and cause pain.
Tolerance, in fact, is to let go and compare the heart with the heart. No one is perfect, everyone will make mistakes, so why bother to repay them? If you want to make your life happy, start with tolerance. Remind yourself that to be tolerant is to forgive yourself.
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