In love, the so called I don t stay is right or wrong?

I feel right.

There are many young people who are in love, because of some recklessness, it will lead to some breakups, and because the man or woman is uncertain, even when he is in love, he will look at the good of others, which is also the reason why some couples break up is like when a boy and a girl fall in love together, if the girl meets someone better than the boy, she will, choose the better one like in this case, if the daughter wants to leave, the boy does not choose to keep is right.

There is a good saying, you can never wake up the person who pretends to be asleep, you can't keep the person who wants to leave, or don't let yourself pull your face and beg this kind of person to stay, what should be yours is yours, if you don't stay, he will also stay for you, it shouldn't be yours, just like you lick your face and leave her, he won't choose to stay for you, in a relationship, all the pay is on both sides, if only one party pays, then after a long time, he will feel tired, and he will choose to let go of the person who loves you.

Whether it is love or marriage, this is the right of both parties in the middle to leave, but after getting married, they are not so free to fall in love, they can leave if they want to, and they can leave if they want to choose, because they are married, have a family, have children, and tie themselves up, I remember that when I was in love, because I had some personality incompatibility with my boyfriend, I often quarreled, although he kept me when I finally left, but I still left.

It's not because I've met someone better than him, it's just because our personalities don't fit together and always quarrel, even if I've been humble, he doesn't understand my humility, and he doesn't understand my kindness to her, just inch by inch again and again, like this kind of person, I feel, not worthy of letting me entrust for life! In order not to let me sink deeper and deeper, I had to say the breakup first.

When he kept me, I told him, I am iron-hearted to leave, if I am not iron-hearted to leave, you don't have to keep me, you can only apologize to me, saying that I will no longer be so to me in the future, if I don't care, I will stay for you just because my heart is broken, so I will choose to leave so I feel that a person is in love, if you choose to leave, you should not stay, the person who chooses to leave is destined not to be you, a lifelong partner.

This question is a case-by-case scenario.

If the two people just broke up after an awkward relationship, then of course they have to keep it. Maybe the two of them have conflicts and differences together, at this time many girls will be angry and say break up, at this time she just wants you to comfort and comfort her and coax her, if you say divide it, then the two of you will definitely be finished. At this time, "if you want to leave, I won't stay" can be said to hurt yourself.

If two people are really not suitable, then this sentence is the truth. Many people find that the two people are not very suitable after being together, it may be a personality problem, it may be a family problem. No matter what the problem, if you can't get back together by all means, then you just let each other go.

Entanglement will only make two people more embarrassed, rather than let your image completely collapse in your heart, it is better to be okay, leave a better impression in each other's hearts, let go of each other, start two people's own lives, leave all the good in their hearts, and bravely continue to pursue their own love.

If two people broke up, but the two people only separated due to some misunderstanding, and they still love each other, then this sentence does not apply. How difficult it is for a person to meet another person who is in tune with you, from thousands of people to find each other, if you let go easily, you will definitely regret it in the future. The right person is too hard to find, and the right love is too hard to find.

Some small contradictions can be resolved, love that does not quarrel is not called love, at this time lower your head and admit your mistake to the other party, keep him, and believe that he will stay if he loves you. In the relationship, cherishing is the most important.

I think it's right, the relationship is originally a matter of two people, since there is a person who wants to leave, it means that he doesn't love you anymore, what's the use of you keeping him, it's not reliable to maintain this love in front of yourself alone. One of them wants to leave you and give up your relationship, which means that he can't hold on anymore, and he is no longer as enthusiastic about this relationship as he was at the beginning.

Unless you know that he has a hard time, if he has cancer, if he has an incurable disease, and he tries to let go of you, to go alone, if you see through him, or if you know the real indescribability of this matter, I think you must tell him that you will be with him for the rest of your life, and tell him that everything will be fine, and the end of the world is over, and there is nothing we can't solve. <>

Only withered flowers do not have withered hearts, and as long as our hearts are still beating, they can't change my heart to live in this world.

Will is the most important thing at all times, nothing is more important than a sincere heart, if you want to live well, please cherish your life, don't give up easily.

There will always be a person in love who can't hold on, he will let him go when he is tired, we live well, beautiful, and financially independent, none of us can't live.

When you have someone in love who has given up on you and abandoned you, please love yourself well to prove to him that I still live without anyone, maybe without him, I want to do whatever I want every day, no one has to think about it, do what I want to do every day, teach what kind of friends I want to teach,.

Isn't it good to be so good, when you are in love, you must also have your own dignity, dignity must be there at any time, a person without dignity is equivalent to nothing, and the soul will go with it. The soul is gone, and the body is left.

When you have it, you have to cherish it, you have to love him well, when he leaves you, let him go, you will be happier without him, and the best will always be kept for you later!

That's right. Not only in love, but also in life, this criterion can be used to treat family and friendship. I now have an attitude towards everyone that you are leaving, and I will never keep it, because since this person has decided to leave, it is definitely not impulsive, but has been planned for a long time.

He has been thinking about leaving you for a long time, and he has been thinking about how to leave you in the days he spent with you before leaving, why should such a person be kept?

It is said that the twisted melon is not sweet, you forced this person to stay, but there is no relationship between you anymore, and you can't go back to the original, why do you have to let each other be so separated? Maybe you're crying and begging him to stay, and even if he stays, you're going to be happy to ignore you every day? If you don't go, let it go, and let each other be free.

Not only will I not keep those who have left, but I will not accept them back. Because the person who will easily leave me once will also easily leave me a second or third time. They don't care about hurting me again and again, how sad it will be for me to leave again and again, I know they don't care, and whoever can do it the first time will do it a second time, so I'm going to keep myself from being hurt.

I won't send you when you're gone, but if you're coming back, I'm not welcome you.

I tried not to repeat the mistakes of the past. Don't let yourself do wrong things again, so that I can learn to treat the people around me correctly, don't trespass, don't exceed the rules, and do my duty. You can not only be a friend who can confide in your heart, but also be a capable and powerful backer.

I will be strong to protect my important people because I am grateful that they are there for me. As I get older, there are fewer and fewer people left around, but they are becoming more and more important to me. I won't send you when you're gone:

When you come, I will meet you from a thousand miles.

I think this is an incomplete statement, as for whether to go or stay, it also depends on your own mentality, if you love him and he leaves, then you must not be happy, so when there are times in the relationship, don't speak hard. Because men often don't dare to think about it, while women are generally knife-mouthed tofu hearts. The woman will say that she is leaving, but he is really not Mr. Jiang, if the man says a word at this time, she may stay, but if the man does not say so, then your fate may really end here.

I used to have a boyfriend, that boyfriend of mine, often quarreled, and then I asked him if one day we quarreled, you made me angry and left, I am leaving, will you keep me? But he said to me, I won't, since you're leaving, then what am I keeping you for?

At first I thought he was talking about a joke, but then I was really angry with her, and he didn't keep him when I left, and I was completely disappointed in him at that time, because it was obviously his fault, but he didn't apologize, and then we finally broke up, maybe such a person will eventually part ways, because it's not suitable at all, it's not that he doesn't know how to coax you, but it's obviously his fault, but he refuses to admit it, such a person may not have enough fun at all, and treat love as a joke. <>

Later, I had a boyfriend, and I had a very good relationship with him, and I was like a person every day. Although we didn't quarrel at the beginning and had a very good relationship, we still quarreled later, but it wasn't a three-day quarrel, but although we quarreled, the relationship didn't change. We are all today's business, today's solution is never delayed until the next day, he has also walked me by, but he has chased after him, only once or twice, he did not chase.

When he didn't pay attention, I was really disappointed in him, I once broke up with him, but he tried his best to keep it, and then he knew that he was wrong, although occasionally he would be angry with me, and I would quarrel with him, but he would chase me out every time. So I feel like this boyfriend of mine is still reliable.

If you don't love him, you will definitely go, if you don't love him, you should not stay, but if you still love each other, then don't miss it, after all, there are so many people in this world, and it is a great fate that you can meet.

I think it's right to say that I don't leave in love. Because a person must have her own reasons for choosing to leave you, or you have a reason to separate, since he has decided to leave, even if you keep him, he still won't stay, it's just a shame for himself. So if your partner is really going to leave and you want to choose to break up, you can first ask him the reason and ask him why he broke up.

It's good to let yourself know, but don't keep him. <>

I believe that everyone has self-esteem. When your partner is about to break up with you. You generally don't choose to keep her, because you think that since she is going to leave you, isn't it humiliating to keep her?

I actually think that's right, if he breaks up with you, it means that he really doesn't want to be with you. I have always thought that breaking up is a very serious thing, and it is definitely not a way to threaten the other party when arguing, I think that if it is really a breakup, it is a real breakup. So if he's really going to break up with you, I think it means he's really going to leave you, and he's already made up his mind?

Even if you try to keep it, it won't change the result. In order to preserve your self-esteem, I think it's better not to stay. I know, my friend used to have a boyfriend.

Later, her boyfriend broke up with her. Then my friend kept keeping him, but the boy was determined to leave. We all felt that this girl was very pitiful and pathetic, so we always felt that if a person really made up his mind to leave and a woman broke up, then don't keep it, don't make yourself look so pitiful, think so pathetic.

My you have to keep the last of your dignity in this love, so if he really chooses to break up with you, let him go and not stay.

Personally, I think this is a more correct, or a better view of love. I've talked about love many times, and each time I have different ideas, but the concept of love and love that I insist on will not change. First of all, we should pay attention to the fact that love is a matter of two people, and if love can be solved by one person, then the world is much simpler.

I never understood what the meaning of that kind of love is, whether it is love or not love, or whether it is just to satisfy some personal desires, or whether everyone just wants to have fun and engage in ambiguity, and two people have never taken this relationship seriously. If you love, then don't break up, if you don't love, then let go, break up and regret it, okay, you can't, you can't even have a chance to regret it, although life is only once, but sometimes we don't need to be too serious. Regret can get back together, so why should you be separated after experiencing a loss and cherish it?

I should say that such a specious emotion.

I have never distinguished some people and things in terms of good and evil, because reality is a very complex thing. In a relationship, if one of them already has the idea of wanting to stay away, then the relationship can basically be declared over, not that it cannot be retained, but at a certain period of time, when one person begins to get bored, the other person's retention is useless.

Many people may think that this is a casual and unserious attitude, but in my opinion, it is precisely a serious attitude towards feelings. If one day, you want to leave, then just tell me, if you feel troublesome, you can also omit it, if you want to go, just go, other people's misses are my encounters, my misses, will also be other people's encounters.