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I don't think it's about giving up or continuing, the problem is that you have to understand it first, what you said shows that she doesn't like you, it's useless to confess, it's worse than giving up, I also have a similar story to you, I also like a person for 7 years, and the result is the same as you, I didn't decide to give up or continue, because there is no way to choose, don't care too much, take it easy! Also, don't say that rejecting others is for her, in fact, it's all for yourself, people don't ask you to do it, it's just that you like her, don't like other people, it's just your own business, liking someone is selfish, you like her because you're selfish, she rejects you because he's selfish, you're sad because you're selfish! I don't think there's a chance now, maybe things will be different when you and her become different in the future, let's get along with her first in a relationship that can get closer to her, sadness is certain, and there is no way to get rid of it, wait for time, find something interesting to do, but don't be numb, and don't borrow others to forget others, it's despicable, I wish you a speedy escape from the sea of suffering
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If the years have passed, the former youth and frivolity will only be stamps, which can make you cherish, not embarrassed;
Time passed by minute by second, and we were able to meet each other, not just a turn back. Fate has not only been cultivated for 500 years. Not a second earlier, not a second late, it was at that time that you met.
She, like Dai Wangshu's pen, the woman with a lilac-like melancholy, may have let you meet you on a certain afternoon that is destined to make you sentimental.
Some people, who have never seen it, say that they will never be moved. But once they met, Cupid's blessed arrow was already stuck in him in a single phase, forever, maybe only a few seconds before the meeting.
I admire you for having such courage – because I don't. I suggest that you ask her out more formally and say "I like you". If you refuse, there is also a step to give up. Ever heard of it?
You sometimes look at the clouds.
Look at me sometimes.
I think. It's very close when you look at the clouds.
Look at me far away".
Gu Cheng's, "Far and Near". But if it's no fun, let's go, give her the most beautiful back. If you really had to give this back a name, it would be called - suddenly.
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It's been 4 years and I'm still liking her, it's not easy, since I like her, just take the time to put (face) aside, do you love her? Is it more important to get her love than to save face? It's another thing to be brave enough to confess to her a second time, and whether or not to accept it is another matter, because you have already tried hard, and you can't help it.
The last thing I want to say is that maybe confess to her again, she will be moved by your perseverance and will accept you!
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In ordinary life, he shows more concern for her than before.
When she was a little aware, she found an opportunity to create a more romantic scene between the two of them to confess to her: "We've been friends for three years, right?!" ”
She'll say yes.
And then you'll talk about it.
You can see how she feels about you from her words (of course, this requires a little level, and you also need to know her well).
If you feel like everything is ok, you can say, "I've always been the best friend with you, and I'm really happy to be with you." We've been together for three years and we've been through ......I feel more and more that I have feelings for you that are more than friends, and I really hope that you are more than just my friends.
They all said that from friends to lovers, the relationship will last longer. Of course, if you really think that we can only be friends and never become lovers, I will respect your opinion. We'll always be good friends, and we'll go through another three years, another thirty years, and ...... foreverI've been waiting for three years and I don't care about waiting any longer, but if you think we can, I really hope we can go one step further.
Can me?
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There's no shame in liking someone.,Even if it's rejected.,Let the other person know your heart.,No matter how bad it is, it won't be worse than now.。。。
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Personally, I don't think it's meaningful, why should you give up a forest for a tree, you should study hard and try to be yourself!
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You're still young, you're still studying, what do you like about her, do you really know her?
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I suddenly found out that the other person had someone I liked, and he threw everything I gave him in the trash, so I chose to give up the confession.
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Give up confession, of course, this problem is to realize that we are directly impossible, will give up, when you work hard for a long time and find that there is no effect at all, do you think you will still persevere? I know I can't do it, so why stick to it! So the reason for giving up confession is very simple, that is, you will give up when there is no hope!
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The reasons for making a person give up confession, everyone is different. Some people feel that they don't love each other so much in an instant; Some people feel that the time is not yet ripe, and they want to slow down, and there are many more.
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Many times I let myself give up confession, in fact, because of my timid character, or because there is no good way to pursue girls because of introversion.
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Maybe it's because of time, or maybe it's because of work or the fact that there is less contact between two people, and then I gave up confessing.
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That person met someone he liked very much, and he was going to get married, so I should give up my confession, and I can't destroy others, and since I like it, I have to fulfill it.
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It's that the other person will always reject me, or say something that makes me particularly sad, then I will give up because I feel that there is no result.
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I gave up because I saw her laughing and having a happy time with him, so I chose to give up
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I have low self-esteem and lack of self-confidence, I feel that I am not very good, and I am afraid of being rejected by the other party, so I will give up confession.
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I think we should keep going. Because everyone has the right to pursue happiness and love, if you really like someone, you only need to insist on this feeling, you don't have to care about the other party's feelings, if you can't get the other party's acceptance in the end, then you can bury this feeling deep in your heart The album of her blessings.
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The next step should be to reflect on yourself, determine whether you want to continue, if you feel that there is no drama, give up as soon as possible, if you feel that there is a drama, you must not give up!
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If the confession is rejected, be sure to ask the reason, if it is a force majeure cause. Then give up in time. If you like her more, then don't give up easily because of a rejection, maybe she is just a test of determination.
If you don't particularly like her, then give up, and those who give up lightly are not liked enough.
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It should be abandoned. Because love is a mutual love, not an unrequited love of one party. If you continue to chase it meaninglessly, it is a waste of time and feelings.
Even if you are rejected, don't give up easily, because if you give up, the person you like will think that you are vulnerable, and you don't have lasting courage, even if one day she still doesn't agree to you, it means that you are really not the person she likes, at this time you can only let go, you can't stalk, leave yourself some space and time for each other to consider, whether you should be together, maybe you are not suitable, once her reaction also likes you, then you can continue appropriately.
This society is a realistic society Romantic love is almost all built on a strong economic foundation If you consider that you can't stand the hardships of life, I think it is very undesirable to choose to give up If you choose to leave Most of the reason is because you feel that he still has someone else in his heart and can't face him calmly Then looking for it again is a way out Choose well Don't be with others easily Consider whether you can approve of everything about him and then make a decision....
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