What should people do if they don t have opinions? Is there any salvation?

I'll come to the landlord: 1Start with small things.

Friends like the landlord have a hesitant and indecisive personality when dealing with things, this kind of personality is not good, but we can start with small things.

For example, what should I eat when I eat? Make a decisive decision for yourself, don't regret anything (but don't be blind), what you should wear today, decide decisively, and think what is right is right.

This will help you.

2.Don't rely on others all the time.

Handle things more by yourself, so that you can also exercise your independent character and avoid your lack of opinions.

Most of the friends who have no opinions like to do things with others, do what others say, and do what others say. So trying to solve the problem individually will still help with your personality correction!

3.Be self-confident.

Most of the friends who have no opinion are friends who are not confident, and they don't know if they can solve this problem, so they want to listen to the opinions of others. So, build up your faith!

There's nothing in the world I can't do, it's just that I don't do it!

Understand the meaning of this sentence!

The above is a small suggestion, but it is wrong, no wonder.

If you have any questions, please communicate with me, thank you.

Think about the difference between their suggestions and yours.

If you always trust others, it is caused by your low self-esteem, then you must establish a sense of success for yourself.

Only when you affirm, trust, and believe in yourself will you reflect your own assertive side.

First of all, you have to be confident, and then you have to be bold enough to speak up about what is right, so that others can agree with you.

The premise of assertiveness is self-confidence. I just say I can do what I want. Don't overestimate. Good luck!

What if you don't have an opinion? Save yourself a little effort!

That's good! When you eat, others don't need you to order, as long as others think about it, you can cooperate! Very happy! (I'm also an unassertive person, so at the same time I don't have much to offer!) ）

Analysis: Assertiveness is your independent opinion on things. When others disagree with you, it doesn't mean that other people's ideas can't be used.

As an assertive person, you can also have the same ideas as others, not that doing what you want to do and being different from others is assertive.

Mature and assertive people will have their own judgment on what they want to do, and at the same time, they can rationally look at the suggestions of others and learn from others' strengths. In the end, choosing the most reasonable one is not necessarily your own assertion in the first place.

Method: Expand your knowledge and think positively.

On the premise of referring to the opinions of others, insist on making your own decisions on your own affairs.

Regularly voice your opinions online, at home, and in the classroom.

Financially independent. Nurturing children's opinions:

1. Actively solicit children's opinions and ideas, and let children make some decisions on their own. For example, if you take your child to the supermarket for shopping, you can ask him what he wants to buy. When you take your child out, you can ask him what means of transport he would like to take; When traveling with your child, ask him what he thinks he needs to prepare.

2. Break the child's superstition about authority, instead of blind obedience and blind imitation.

3 Do home mind games with your child. Parents can identify a topic or problem and ask their children to come up with multiple ways to solve it.

4. Cultivate children's ability to think and judge independently.

5. Frequently ask questions with your child, leaving space for him to think and answer without interfering.