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Correctly cultivate children's values and outlook on life, cultivate positive interests and hobbies, and appropriately transfer their bad words, deeds and concepts. There is no problem with the child's psychology, it is because the surrounding environment has changed, so that he has changed.
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I don't know how old your child is, my child is 13 years old, and he has not gotten along well, and he has also found a psychological counselor to do counseling, but it works, but counseling can only solve individual problems, after all, it is we who get along with the child day and night, and later, I went to learn psychological counselor by myself, and now I am more comfortable communicating with the child, and I can also test, I just took the exam yesterday, I hope I can pass.
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The formation of children's psychological problems has a lot to do with the family environment in which they live and their parents!
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The child is in a puppy love situation.
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Hello, according to the situation of the child you said, I think this is more due to the combined effect of the child's strong inferiority complex and depression. Because of practical reasons, the child has not been effectively solved, coupled with the fact that the child is currently in the physiological stage of puberty, and the parents pay too much attention and expectations to the child in interpersonal communication, so that the child is prone to a strong avoidance mentality, and is easy to show through the way you say refusing to communicate with others. Therefore, I suggest that you should first ask your parents to seek professional psychological counseling services in parent-child relationship and parent-child education that I provide for your parents, so as to help your parents reconstruct new beliefs in this regard, and then, with the cooperation of your parents, to help your children effectively eliminate the psychological factors that lead to children's strong inferiority complex, depression and avoidance, and enhance the psychological quality of children. It is more conducive to the child's safer passage through the child's adolescence and allows the child to return to normal interpersonal and mental states more effectively.
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Hello, children are not necessarily in a state of psychological problems. As long as he can take care of himself.
Everyone has the right to choose their own way of life. You parents should be more understanding and tolerant of him and approve of her. Only if he feels that you approve of him and agree with him, will he communicate with you normally.
In addition, you husband and wife should also be good to themselves, set a good example for their children, and how to live is the best.
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Hello, children may have more serious psychological anxiety and irritability problems, and the reasons may be as follows:
1.Physical impairment, low self-esteem, reluctance to communicate with others.
2.The excessive discrimination from the outside world makes the child go from low self-esteem to autism.
3.I don't know how to communicate with others, and I can only intuitively express my inner thoughts through emotions.
Here's how to fix it:
1.It is advisable to take your child to a psychiatrist.
2.Parents should communicate with their children more and let them express their ideas in the right way.
3.Guide your child to deal with physical impairments correctly.
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First of all, determine whether it is the cause of the family atmosphere, family happiness directly affects the child's personality.
If the family has no reason, then go to his classmates, or former elementary school classmates, and ask if there is any school violence and whether your child has encountered anything in school.
The last thing you want is the child's own reasons, such as autism or mental retardation, etc., which need to be solved by a professional psychologist. During this period, you need to be very patient to find the root cause, and if you get angry or yell at him, it will have the opposite effect.
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Parents who control too much can lead to self-isolation from you, and forced gregariousness can lead to depression. So either ignore him, the IQ will not be bad in the future, and there will be no problems in school. Either guide them to think from the perspective of others, and they will slowly become cheerful.
It mainly depends on what direction you want to develop, and people don't necessarily have to be exquisite, and each has its own way of living.
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This should be a bit of an autistic tendency, or an extreme low self-esteem. I have to go to a professional psychiatrist to see, there is no way. Don't feel ashamed, it will help him.
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This is due to his own physiological reasons that cause him to have an inferiority complex, which is why this abnormal behavior occurs.
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The inferiority complex has been very obvious, and in severe cases, depression will be suffered as much as possible, and I hope that parents will pay attention to it and take their children to see a psychologist.
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Some children have an easier time joining the circle of friends, but they do not maintain friendships, and they do not take into account the feelings of others in the process of socializing with their classmates. Some children only like to play at home on the computer, and they don't know what to say, only a few simple sentences, and can't continue the conversation.
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You're talking about children who are a little withdrawn. He needs to be well guided into the society, communicate more with everyone, and participate in more social activities, so that he will get better slowly.
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There is a big problem in my heart! Autism! To get started! Don't scold.
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Children's psychological disorders or psychological problems must attract the attention of parents, timely detection, timely diagnosis and medical treatment, specific manifestations of children's psychological disorders are:
1.ADHD is mainly manifested by inattention, frequent small movements, large mood swings, poor self-control, and serious impact on learning.
2.Tic disorders, involuntary, aimless, repetitive rapid muscle spasms in certain parts of the body, and in personality they manifest themselves as nervousness, timidity, and low self-esteem.
3.Autism, also known as autism, is a manifestation of social communication disorders, communication disorders, and narrow interests, which refers to a rigid and repetitive way of focusing on a certain aspect.
4.An anxiety disorder is a state of fear that occurs suddenly and sporadically without an apparent physical cause. The specific manifestations are lack of self-confidence, oversensitivity, low appetite, and unreasonable crying.
5.Visual impairment, fear of certain things or situations and avoidance, such as fear of lightning, extreme nervousness, head movements, etc.
6.Insomnia, the child has difficulty sleeping, crying widely, waking up from time to time, and even sleepwalking, but can't remember during the day, only feels low energy and emotional instability.
7.Aggressive, this type of child runs around all day, often plays pranks, and likes to sarcastically mock others.
If your child has any of the above conditions, then parents should be vigilant, because it is likely that the child has a psychological problem and is sending a distress signal to the parents.
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In fact, children in every era have psychological problems, but today's children are indeed too fragile psychologically, which is caused by the following reasons.
First, the pressure of competition is high.
Children are under increasing pressure to compete, not only academically, but also socially and hobbly. This makes children more susceptible to setbacks and failures because they believe that failure will cause them to lose confidence and dignity.
Second, parents are too protective.
Some parents may be overprotective of their children, causing them to lose their ability to face setbacks and become psychologically vulnerable.
3. Excessive use of electronic products.
The rise of modern technology has led people to use electronic products more, which not only affect their eyes and physical health, but also affect their mental health. Children are addicted to electronic devices and are unable to gain real-life experiences and growth, which also makes children more vulnerable and autistic.
4. Lack of self-confidence.
If a child is born into a stressful and competitive environment, they may lack self-confidence and self-esteem. This makes them susceptible to the criticism and negation of others, and the criticism and negation of themselves cannot be handled well.
5. Family environment.
The home environment can have an impact on a child's mental health. If parents spoil their children too much, are overly protective, and do not give their children proper criticism and feedback, it may lead to children being unable to bear in the face of frustration and criticism.
6. The education system.
The current education system pays too much attention to grades and evaluations, and often only looks at the results of the source responses, ignoring the personality and characteristics of children, which will cause psychological pressure on children and be overly sensitive to criticism.
7. Social Networks.
The popularity and use of modern social networks has made children more susceptible to negative evaluations and online violence, negatively affecting their psyche. 8. Children's psychological problems.
Your child may face some internal child psychological problems, such as anxiety and depression, which can lead to your child's sensitivity to criticism and frustration.
Therefore, parents and educators also need to pay attention to children's mental health, provide support and help, and create a positive home and school environment to promote children's all-round development.
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The answer is yes. There are two main aspects: one is that the child is more stressed, and the other is that there is less space to digest emotions.
The children's learning pressure in school itself is greater than in the past, there are more subjects, more homework, and the competition is more intense, and our parents are afraid that their children will fall behind, so they enroll their children in a lot of tutoring classes, which further increases the pressure on children. When a child comes home after a tiring day, it is stressful, and if the parents blame, beat or scold at this time, it is difficult for the child not to have negative emotions.
When a child has negative emotions, if they can be resolved in time, psychological problems can also be avoided. Children of the past also have negative emotions, but they have a lot of time to play and a lot of places to go. If you're in a bad mood, it's good to go out with your friends for a while; I was reprimanded by my parents, went to my uncle's house, and forgot about it when I came back after eating.
Today's children no longer have such conditions. In terms of time, it is full of arrangements from morning to night, and there is no time for emotions to dissipate, only more and more; In terms of space, with the development of urban group demolition, our living environment has become more and more closed and narrow, and we can no longer walk the streets and alleys as in the past, and children's emotions can only rely on their parents to appease. However, most of our parents have not learned about family education and psychology, and they cannot help their children solve emotional problems, and children begin to have problems.
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1. It's not that you don't have psychological problems, but you don't know that you have psychological problems.
At that time, it was very good to be able to ensure good health, who would care if you had psychological problems? Moreover, psychological problems are often not easy to detect unless they are particularly severe. It is not like a physical problem that can be seen by the naked eye or an instrument, as long as it has no appearance, or the person himself does not admit it, it will not cause people to notice it at all.
In addition, people who are often beaten and harassed are likely to become perpetrators of violence. When he was weak, he was bullied, but once he had absolute power, he bullied others in the same way. So of course he doesn't feel that he has a problem, and the problem is someone else.
Refer to the case of Sun Xiaoguo).
This is true from generation to generation, but it does not mean that the previous education was correct or fine.
Second, it is true that there are no psychological problems, but this does not mean that there is no problem with rough beating and scolding education.
It is undeniable that each child has different characteristics. There may indeed be children who are more solid, thick-skinned, and have bigger hearts. Often beaten and scolded and still alive, mentally healthy, positive.
However, this is only a part of the children, and it is possible that they have not been negatively affected by the scolding. This does not mean that scolding education will not have a negative impact on all children, and it does not mean that scolding education is correct. And even if this part of the healthy child only sees that he has been beaten and scolded, we do not see that in addition to the beating and scolding education, he may have also received other ways of education from the upbringing members (such as gentle, encouraging).
For example, the care from grandparents and grandmothers, such as the influence and support from the external environment.
When such children grow up, they generally do not easily use beating and scolding education. Because his heart is positive, sunny, gentle and powerful. There are more ways and means for them to educate their children than just scolding.
3. I have suffered from psychological problems, but after self-regulation and good education, I reconciled with my past parents and successfully got out of my psychological problems.
This kind of person who has stepped out of the psychological shadow will definitely not implement beating and scolding education on the issue of children's education. Because they themselves know best how damaging it can be.
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There are many reasons why children are prone to psychological problems, mainly the following:
1.Excessive learning pressure: children now have to face the increasingly severe competition brought about by filial piety and openness, parents are also more concerned about academic performance, children will face greater learning pressure, sometimes parents are also for the future of their children, but the degree of concern is a little excessive, which leads to psychological problems such as anxiety and depression in children.
2.Insufficient emotional experience: If the family environment is not warm enough, it is difficult for children to get affection, warmth and understanding, so it is difficult to experience and express their emotions and thoughts, which will also affect the healthy development of children's psychology and cause depression and psychological problems.
3.Bad friends: The friends children make in school sometimes do not all have a healthy mentality, sometimes join some bad groups, and dismantle the lingering negative culture, children are easily affected, and bad influences can affect children's mental health for a long time, thus causing various psychological problems.
4.Changes in the social environment: Today's society is in a fast-paced development, and openness brings new horizons to children, but also brings great impact and challenges, so many children cannot correctly accept new theories, and many emotions are also triggered by this, resulting in various psychological problems.
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