Am I having a psychological problem? I am cold to girls

Do you have any thoughts when you go out and see beautiful women in little skirts?

22-year-olds should be a little curious about women's body structure, right?

Would you take a few more looks when you see the beautiful mm that looks long?

If you have all of the above, then you are still normal.

It's just that I haven't met someone I'm satisfied with, don't expect too much, no one is perfect.

If you don't pursue perfection, you will naturally meet when the time comes.

If that's not what I'm talking about, then buddy, you have a problem with your sexual orientation, go to the doctor!

Friends are friends, they get along casually, if you really want to fall in love with a woman, you will be very nervous, and it is really normal to want to behave well.

I haven't met a girl I like.

Girls' emotions are more delicate, and sometimes girls are cold to you, either there is no topic to talk about between you, or you have offended her.

Mainly because girls don't get what they want, and they're depressed and not interested in you, so they don't want to pay attention to you.

Maybe it's because someone her off, or because she's having something unhappy about her.

The relationship is not in place, and you cross the line.

Crossing the line is divided into two possibilities, one is the WeChat chat on the crossing, the other is the physical crossing, chatting on WeChat, the girl will suddenly be cold to you, then she is afraid that she is too enthusiastic to talk to you, do you have such a feeling, when you chat with the girl, talk to the mood is higher, more happy, you will unconsciously tell the other party a lot of things about yourself, but after this period of time, look back at what you have said, you will question yourself, is it too much.

First of all, it is necessary to correct the attitude, cultivate a healthy sense of communication, and dilute the awareness of the other party's gender. Secondly, we should have extensive contact, avoid individual contact, the degree of interaction should be shallow and not deep, and extensive contact is conducive to our understanding and understanding of the opposite sex, and have a basic overall grasp of the opposite sex, and learn to distinguish the opposite sex.

It is said that things gather by like, people by groups, girls are not always enthusiastic about everyone, those she is willing to treat warmly, must be people she recognizes and likes. If a girl doesn't like you very much from the beginning and feels like a stranger with you, then naturally there is no need to be enthusiastic about you.

1. The coldness shown by the girl at the beginning of the relationship is the girl testing you.

People's communication has always changed from familiar to unfamiliar. When you first start dating, most women are more reserved and she won't be passionate about you. This kind of reserve should be what you call indifference.

But apathy doesn't mean you can't continue. As a boy, if you really like this girl, you have to prove your sincerity with your words and deeds. In fact, the indifference of a reserved girl just proves that she is a single-minded person.

Second, if you have been together for a long time, the girl is still very cold to you, which proves that she doesn't like you.

If a girl likes someone, she may be cold to him. This situation is not difficult to understand. Girls like you, but don't have the courage to tell you.

They can only love you secretly. They are afraid that this crush will be found out by you, and it will be very embarrassing. They are also afraid of being nervous in front of you, so she can only pretend to be indifferent to you.

She doesn't mean to be cold to you, but she doesn't have the courage and confidence to face you calmly.

3. If you like a girl, but the girl doesn't like you, then her attitude towards you will be just as cold. The situation is easy to understand. The girl knows that you like her and that your love has caused her trouble.

She is indifferent to you, deliberately avoids you, and rejects you in disguise. Because she doesn't like you and I hope you don't continue to bother her and like her.

When a girl is particularly indifferent to you, a boy might as well think about it and see if he has offended her before. If you have had a conflict before, or if you have done something wrong with her, then the girl will be indifferent to you. In this case, the apathy is due to the fact that two people are angry.

If it was just a misunderstanding and it was resolved, if it was really an irreconcilable contradiction, then your relationship would not go back.

Because girls are very prone to tantrums, and they also like to make small emotions, and this is also related to the girl's personality, so we must look at it rationally.

may be because you have inadvertently offended a girl, at this time you should apologize to the girl, and then prepare some small gifts for the girl to apologize.

A girl suddenly becomes polite to you in time because she doesn't like you anymore. You helped her and she said thank you, you put the dish she liked to eat in front of her, she said thank you, you changed the light bulb in the family companion for her, she said thank you.

Anyway, the most words between you are a thank you, it's not that she's polite, it's just that she thinks all your help is not something she deserves, and she can't accept it calmly, so she will become polite to you, which is also a sign that she doesn't like you.