Let s give me an analysis, what would happen if I got divorced at the age of 24

The composition of a family can only be maintained through tolerance and understanding on both sides, and if your husband treats you as you say, it means that he has not fulfilled his responsibilities as a man, a husband, and a father, and you divorce on this ground, which proves that you are also a very irresponsible attitude towards the family, your children, and the elderly on both sides. Divorce and remarriage or remarriage are not a big deal, but you must know where your responsibilities lie.

Relatively speaking, a divorced woman or man will have some obstacles when choosing again, because the thoughts of Chinese people have the same thoughts, and I believe you will have them.

So you should know the answer, right?

Personally, I think you still have to ask your parents for help, after all, your parents have more experience than us, and after all, this is not just your problem, but the problem of two families, and if you are divorced, what will happen to the children? After all, marriage is not the same as love, and marriage is more of a responsibility. But if the man is unfaithful in the first place, there may be other better solutions.

It is recommended not to tell your parents because you will be laughed at, after all, the only ones in the world who will really feel sorry for you are your parents, so let's talk to your parents. I'm just a student myself, I'm only 2 or 3 years younger than you, and that's purely a personal opinion, just take a look. But I still hope you can be happy. )

In fact, you have already said it quite right, in your description you have analyzed yourself very thoroughly, and you also have good ideas for the future. In fact, in my opinion, when a woman is unhappy or unhappy in the marriage contract, or even because the man will be miserable, then there is no need to continue the marriage. So I think you're right, although women are the main family, women should also have some independence.

I think you're a person who hates directors, I'm not handsome and don't have money, I only have a sincere heart, if you want we can get to know you.

It was wrong at the beginning, you are young, and your husband hasn't played enough.

The reason why you are like this, mainly because you are not independent, whether you are financially or psychologically want to rely on a person, but you have to think clearly, whether you can let go, as long as you want to be independent and do it, you will be grateful to you now, there is no shortage of people around me who have no education and a high income, in fact, you are still very young, and now many people are working at your age, and I do not have a high degree of education, but I know that some jobs do not require much education, what do you need q1391575160

I think it clearly, in fact, if I am wrong, I can only say that I am wrong at the beginning.

What to do? Chilled salad. Just kidding. You're both 24 years old, and you're already an adult. Parents should be left to solve their own problems. What's more, their relationship is not good. Insisting that they be together will only make each other sad, so why bother?

I can understand your feelings, but think about it from another perspective, if you and your girlfriend (boyfriend) break up because of emotional discord, and your parents stop you, do you think you can listen to them? I don't think you're going to listen to them. Then you.

Why block their choice? Just because they gave birth to you? Am I going to be responsible for you to the end?

Is it because you're suffering? Parents have been working hard for most of their lives, maybe they don't want to be together for a long time, and they are still insisting because of their feelings. Being able to file for divorce at such an age is enough to see how unbearable it is.

Remain neutral, because the impact on you is limited, you just need to determine whether it is a foregone conclusion, if you have to leave, dad is still dad, mom is still mom, if a dad becomes two dads, a mom becomes two moms, with their own emotional intelligence and they live in peace is the greatest reward for your parents, I hope you don't become a stumbling block for your parents to pursue happiness again, let alone become a headache for your parents (to prevent your parents from divorce and hurt yourself and care for your parents), long live understanding.

There are also many friends around me who have this kind of thing at home, and they are all very troubled. From the standpoint of an outsider, I said to them: First of all, you should try to mediate this matter, after all, your parents have been together for so many years, and there is no family affection.

Secondly, if you can't mediate, you can follow your parents, sometimes we as children can't understand what our parents think in their hearts, it is better to let them calm down and deal with this kind of thing by themselves, <>

Do your best to keep them, don't be sad if you can't do it, love them well! Parents are actually children, and their feelings are fragile, and some of them really can't get by, it depends on the specific situation

You should support your parents. Your parents are not living well and want to separate, you should support them.

You should respect your parents' decision, after all, your parents also delayed their divorce until today for you, I think your parents are also very great, and your parents' divorce is also a relief for both of them, but the love for you will not be reduced.

If your parents want to divorce, you still have to do mediation work in China, understand the real reason, and if you really can't reconcile, then you should support it. After all, their lives are still in their own hands.

You should communicate well with your parents, if there is any conflict between the two of them, you can also help them solve it, so that they don't want to divorce.

You should talk to your mom and dad about why you want to get divorced, and then try to persuade them to be obedient to them.

The choice of the parents should be respected, and the parents' ideas are also very mature, and there is no need to interfere too much.

If you want to divorce at the age of 25, you can choose to divorce by agreement or file a divorce lawsuit. According to the provisions, if the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

1. How to deal with the divorce if the other party does not agree.

If one of the husband and wife does not agree to the divorce, they may apply to the relevant organization for mediation, or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court. The Civil Code of the People's Republic of China stipulates that if both spouses divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. If the husband and wife cannot agree to divorce, the relevant organization shall conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

If the marriage has indeed broken down or if one of the parties has taken drugs, assaulted family members, gambled, etc., the divorce shall be granted.

2. How to separate households for divorce after two years of separation.

The Civil Code stipulates that there are two types of divorce: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. Where the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority. Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

If the divorce has been separated for two years due to emotional discord, the court grants the divorce.

3. Can a third party be forced to divorce if she is pregnant?

If a third party is pregnant, a divorce cannot be compulsory, but divorce by agreement or litigation can be chosen.

There are only two ways to divorce in China: divorce by agreement and divorce by litigation. There is no way to force a divorce by law.

If the spouses divorce voluntarily, they can choose to divorce by agreement.

If one of the spouses requests a divorce, or if one of the spouses does not agree to the divorce, the other spouse may file a lawsuit for divorce in court.

According to Article 1076 of the Civil Code, if the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration in person at the marriage registration authority.

Paragraph 1 of Article 1079 stipulates that if one of the husband and wife requests a divorce, the relevant organization may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

Article 1076 of the Civil Code of the People's Republic of China.

If the husband and wife divorce voluntarily, they shall sign a written divorce agreement and apply for divorce registration at the marriage registration office in person.

The divorce agreement shall clearly state the parties' expression of intent to divorce voluntarily and the consensus on matters such as child support, property, and debt handling.

Article 1078.

If the marriage registration authority ascertains that the parties have indeed divorced voluntarily and have reached a consensus on matters such as child support, property and debt disposition, they shall register and issue a divorce certificate.

Article 1079.

Where one of the spouses requests a divorce, the relevant organizations may conduct mediation or directly file a divorce lawsuit with the people's court.

People's courts hearing divorce cases shall conduct mediation; If the relationship has indeed broken down and mediation fails, the divorce shall be granted.

Narrator: A fickle woman.

I'm 25 years old, I'm still very young, but I'm divorced, and people say that after setbacks, you will grow, and that's true. But I don't want to grow up like this anymore, and when I have a second marriage in the future, I will definitely cherish it very much, and it won't be the same as now. And I found that after the divorce, I suddenly became sensible and kind, not as vexatious as before, nor like before, I had to fight for everything.

Speaking of which, the failure of my first marriage was mainly due to the conflict between my mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, my mother-in-law was not a fuel-efficient lamp, but she was a reasonable person, but at that time I was too willful, and I was not sensible, and I always made my mother-in-law angry. My mother-in-law will quarrel with me when she is angry, and I am young and vigorous, I can't listen to the quarrel at all, my mother-in-law will stand up and talk back to her, and I will quarrel with her, and my mother-in-law's unintentional words will make me feel that she is deliberately looking for me, at that time I really feel that I can't suffer at all, so as long as I feel that my mother-in-law is targeting me, or deserves it, I will immediately stand up and fight her.

At that time, I felt like a big hero, but now I think about it like a fighting, with a stalk on my neck, and I have nothing to do. I feel that I am really ridiculous, it is just unreasonable, but at that time I didn't think so, and I stared at my mother-in-law everywhere, as long as there was a little place that made me unhappy, I would stand up and quarrel with my mother-in-law, I was still uncomfortable without a fight, and I had to find a quarrel, thinking that I was really cheap.

But after the divorce, I figured out a lot of things by myself. For example, I always used to quarrel with my mother-in-law under the pretext of arguing, but now that I think about it and think about it carefully, those excuses when I quarreled with my mother-in-law were really ridiculous, why did I quarrel with my mother-in-law because of these in the first place? Actually, it's nothing at all, if it were me, maybe I wouldn't have a mother-in-law who could speak.

But I didn't understand it at that time, I really did it against my mother-in-law, and I figured it out after the divorce, so people suddenly became a lot more sensible, no longer unreasonable, no longer arrogant and willful, even my parents said that I don't know if it's a good thing or a bad thing after the divorce, because I'm sensible, but I have become a divorced woman.

And I found that I was also kind, and I began to face many things with a Buddhist mentality, and I didn't want to fight too much with others, just follow the fate of everything. It's best to go with the flow, and I often say this to myself to calm the resentment that often arises in my heart. I'm only 25 years old now, I've had a failed marriage for a year, and I'm going to have a second marriage.

I will continue to grow, make myself more mature, more sensible, and make my second marriage happy, and I will no longer be as arrogant and willful as before, and I will no longer let myself be like a fighting, and I will have nothing to quarrel with.

I suddenly remembered a sentence, it is not terrible to make mistakes, it is great to know and correct mistakes, if you know your mistakes and do not change them, it is really terrible.

Divorce is like a stab in our chest, you will bleed, you will be in pain, but as time goes on, your wound will slowly recover, first stop the bleeding, then scab, slowly heal, and then leave a scar, and over time, the scar will disappear.

What should I do if I can't survive the most painful stage of divorce?

To face, to cry, to be presumptuous, to break down, you can do everything that may make you better, but you must have a belief that every day from now on will be better than today.

Even if we have not yet reached the other side of happiness, we have this seed in our hearts, and it will eventually take root and sprout.

Another point is that don't think that your life will disappear after divorce, in fact, it is just a process of life, and you just happened to encounter a hurdle.

All you need is time and courage to face all this, but one day, you will step over and look back with a smile, and the memories of those past events will exist in the softest corners of your heart.

Hello! You are only 25 years old, very young, young have capital, young will have opportunities, the setbacks you encounter can not explain the future, just show the past, as long as you have firm beliefs and work hard for it, you will definitely achieve fruitful results, do not complain, step down to do your own thing, no matter the career and family are beautiful.