What is it like to not have a clear idol or not be sure of your own idol?

I just can't experience the madness of those star-chasing people, my friend likes Cai Xukun very much, and the Weibo circle of friends is his avatar, and the news posted is about him, and he will pick him up. In short, it's the kind of crazy love, and every time she talks about him, there is a very shining light in her eyes, and she asks me, "Who do you like?"

Don't you have a favorite idol? ”

Like, there really isn't. I'm very hot about everything, I don't have anything I particularly like to do, I don't have anyone I particularly like.

The biggest experience is that I haven't felt the madness of tearing up with each other in order to maintain idols. I don't understand why those fans are so faithful.

I'm just someone who doesn't really like idols, let alone celebrities. Because once you locate who your idol is, you will equate your values with your idol, and you will feel that whatever he says is right. It will reduce my ability to think and judge independently, so I prefer to pay attention to those who are helpful to me and learn from each other's strengths.

You don't know who you admire? Who do you really like? You're going to be confused.

It's the same as studying, how to feel, feeling very lost, not having a clear goal.

Without idols, I'm my own idol, and I'm the best.

It's sober.,There's no brainless liking and crazy maintenance for idols.。

It doesn't matter, it's time to live, it's time to eat and drink.

It feels okay and doesn't affect my life too much, so it's not that important.

But if my husband doesn't have a clear idol, then he should look for it himself.

An idol is an object that is imitated by man. The idol is the species, the object is the genus, and the imitation is the species difference.

Usually the people who become idols are either celebrities, or maybe some people with high moral character and special abilities. Idols do not have to have a certain social influence of celebrities, as long as a person has enough to convince others, can be liked and respected by others, they can be called idols by others.

An idol should be a spirit, a dream to chase, and the worship of idols is also rightSelf-worthThe pursuit. Idols are made by people.

I think idols can be very great people, and they are the goal of people's lives; It can also be an entertainment star who can bring ordinary happiness; Children may think that their father is their idol, and the idol is established according to their own values and outlook on life.

A change in worldview and a change in the world.

Like light, it brings warmth and kindness to the public, so that those who love him can love the world.

An idol is an object that is imitated by man. Use the genus plus the species difference to do the analysis, the idol is the species, the object is the genus, and the imitation by others is the species difference. Idols can be divided into 3 categories.

One is natural objects, such as the sun and the moon.

The second category is man-made objects, such as celebrities.

The third category is the thought object, such as immortals.

Briefly describe the cult of natural objects:

Nature worshipIt refers to the worship of natural objects and forces as objects of life, will, and great power. is the most primitive form of religion. At that time, people had not yet formed a clear concept of supernatural beings, but they had begun to have a tendency to supernaturalize natural objects and natural forces.

The worship of nature is mostly reflected in folk life. For example, the worship of the water god is more reflected in the belief in the river god, the sea god and the idol god dragon king who has been reunited with the water god.

This is directly related to the geographical environment and the livelihood of river transport, sea transport and fishing.

The people's worship of heaven and earth is reflected in many customs. For example, in the marriage customs, before the newlyweds are married for a hundred years, they must first worship heaven and earth, even if they are men and women who have made a private lifelong decision, they must also pray to heaven, kneel on the ground and swear, and use heaven and earth as evidence to bless them to grow old together and never separate.

The inspiration brought to us by positive idols is huge, Newton once said that he was just "standing on the shoulders of giants", and it is the greatness of the predecessors that inspires and guides the later ones.

Antonides: St. Esupéry said:

The star shines so that everyone can find their own star one day." For us, he always has a quality or mental distraction or talent that we lack. There are things we want to learn, which can be used as our "weather vane" to guide us in the right direction.

That's why we call him an "idol.""。

In fact, the meaning of an idol is that he is a person you worship and admire at a certain point. Mark Twain said, "Everyone needs an idol in their heart, and I think everyone needs an idol to back up their beliefs."

We get motivation and energy from idols and then get close to him in our own way, and even surpass him, which is the biggest meaning of idols to us.

In the period of life, if we can't find a good competitor and have an idol as a role model, it is also a special and wonderful thing to spur ourselves all the time.

It can make people more motivated to live and aim for their idols, which can spread more positive energy and make life more colorful. You can also expand your social circle, after all, every idol character has too many fans, and these are all people we can interact with because there is a common language.

When we were growing up, there were idols of one kind and another, sometimes we were fascinated by him because of his talent, sometimes we liked him because of his charming charm, and sometimes we admired him for his great personality, ......There is a saying that "it starts with appearance, falls into talent, and is loyal to character" is such a thing.

A positive idol.

While giving us a good image.

It also encourages us to live in a positive way.

An idol of selfless kindness.

While impressing us with kindness.

It also inspires the kindness in our hearts.

Choosing a positive idol has a good effect on our lives. But when we get older, it will not be so easy to "worship" others, we need to identify with ourselves more, and we need to be more confident.

In that case, why not make yourself your idol?

Wilde said that "loving oneself is the beginning of a lifelong romance", valuing oneself and recognizing oneself can not only bring us a happy life, but also make us more enterprising.

Work hard to live, discover your own talents and advantages, and become your own idol, we are all the protagonists of our own lives, and how to write it is our life's work.