What should I do if I can t sleep with my boyfriend, work, and always feel uneasy?

If you live with your boyfriend and can't sleep at work, you always feel very uneasy right now, it's because you don't feel safe. I think he is really not a person to be trusted, so you have to communicate with him well.

Under normal circumstances, if this is the case with your boyfriend, then you may be more nervous, or you like him more and care about him, so you will be in such a state.

With your boyfriend, if that's the case, you'll have to tell him. Proper separation may be a little better for both people, and everyone's work and life can be normal.

Obviously, your boyfriend may not be giving you enough security to know if he is himself. Relatively insecure, or are you personally an insecure girl? If it's your own problem, you can learn about it through contact with your boyfriend over time, and slowly change it, but if it's your boyfriend who doesn't care enough about you.

If you are not considerate enough, then you should think about whether this person is suitable for living together in the future.

I can't sleep with my boyfriend, and I always feel uneasy at work, which can be understood as not getting used to it.

It is recommended to find a boyfriend to communicate more, the two people will integrate faster, and slowly enter the state, if the more rejection, then it will be counterproductive.

That proves that you don't get along well and are not happy together, so break up.

Then let's sleep in separate rooms, and this doesn't make a big difference, because many couples sleep in separate rooms.

Then don't be together, it means that the two of you are not suitable at all, and when you get married in the future, isn't it a bigger contradiction?

I think you may just not be used to having your boyfriend around, but it's a gradual process to get used to someone coming into your life, or maybe you don't have a lot of feelings for your boyfriend that you can accept him.

Why this mentality? Your boyfriend understands you enough and sleeps in a separate room with you, then you will slowly change your mentality, slowly accept your boyfriend, sleep in the same bed with you, and believe that you will be fine slowly.

You can't sleep at work because you don't accept this boyfriend in your heart, you can get along with him slowly for a long time, get to know each other, get acquainted, and naturally get better.

With your boyfriend, you can't sleep, and you always feel uneasy at work, which means that you still don't like him very much, so let's hurry up and break up!

I'm afraid you're not used to living together with two people, you have to know that since the two are in love, one day they will live together, you have to overcome psychological barriers.

You can separate rooms when you work, work separately, and live together during leisure time and rest at night.

Maybe you're not used to it. It is also possible that your lifestyles are different, so you need to get used to it slowly, and the two people always sleep separately, I am afraid it will affect your relationship.

For the sake of your better work and study, then you don't sleep with him.

If your boyfriend is together and you can't sleep or work, you can be separated, not in the same room, so that you can work.

It is recommended that you communicate with your boyfriend more so that the gap between you can be cleared up so that you can continue to walk with him.

My boyfriend is together, I can't sleep, I always feel uneasy at work, I think you are responsible for yourself, because you always feel that you don't have a license, a little unsteady, that's right.

If you are with your boyfriend, you can't sleep, and you are always at work when you are not at ease, you can try to be separated from him for a while to a certain extent.

If your boyfriend can't sleep together, it may be because he cares too much about you and always thinks about your feelings, so he doesn't have the heart to do anything.

If your boyfriend's work affects your sleep, it's better to sleep in separate rooms, after all, where is the nature of your work?

Maybe you're not used to being with others, so you're alone, after all, your boyfriend doesn't force you, you must be with him, don't affect yourself.

What if my boyfriend is together and can't sleep, and work is just a relationship? Then you can go out, is there something wrong with your heart? You can change places, or you can go out on a trip.

You're used to being alone, so it's hard for two people to adapt together, but you have to learn to adapt.

What should I do if I can't sleep with my boyfriend and am always at work? That's only going to be separated for a while, don't live together again.

Maybe it's because one person sleeps in one room and one bed, and occasionally one more person adapts to it, and if you can't fall asleep, you have to adapt slowly.

What is not together with each other, what is wrong with work is always uneasy, if it is sincere, you listen to her and talk to her, and then solve this problem.

You should still discuss it with him and find a place where you can feel at ease.

I always have insomnia when I sleep with my boyfriend, I always can't sleep, what's going on?

Dear, because I used to sleep alone, I still don't have the habit of rolling and the reason for not adapting to the hand closed meditation, and there is also a possibility that the boyfriend has snoring or other habits, which affects the quality of sleep, or there are other thoughts at present. For example, when thinking about the relationship between the two people, whether it is related to economic or other ideological pressures, first of all, we must accept and adapt psychologically, listen to more soothing ** before going to bed, and if you have any ideas, you can also solve each other's ** openly and honestly, usually communicate more, and release pressure appropriately.

The main reason is that I am not used to it, and I have slept alone for so many years since I was a child. Suddenly there is one more person around, and it will take some time to get used to.

Then there is the unmarried cohabitation and insecurity. Girls take more risks than boys in premarital sex. Fear of contraceptive failure, worry about pregnancy, what if you get pregnant?

Is it ** who still gave birth to this child? Really give birth to a child, if two people break up, how to raise the child? These problems will be vaguely worried for girls, which also affects sleep.

So, as a woman, it is very important to be virtuous and virtuous, and it is very important to be self-confident and self-reliant. It's important not to rely on men. A girl with an independent personality and financial independence will definitely be recognized and respected by everyone. Your boyfriend will also cherish you more.

It is normal for two people to love each other and have premarital sex. But long-term cohabitation is not appropriate. Long-term cohabitation before marriage is one of the causes of boys' disrespect for girls.

Girls still have to be reserved. Otherwise, the boy will easily get you, will he still cherish it?

I sincerely wish you sweet love and a happy life!

The above point of view is from the perspective of the girl's relatives, if there is anything wrong, please understand, thank you!

Why is it uneasy to sleep with my boyfriend? Mainly not accustomed to sleeping with the opposite sex, because long-term singleness is used to being alone, love marriage is the need for two people to understand and trust each other, is the need for mutual communication and tolerance, is the exchange of hearts and minds, is the need for a period of contact, slowly understand trust, in order to have a sense of security, interdependence, in order to feel happy and happy.

This is a matter of habit, it's not a matter of not getting a license and not getting married, I have lived independently for more than 20 years and developed a person to sleep alone, and suddenly there is one more person who is definitely not used to it even though it is a boyfriend, this is to have a habit stage slowly.

This is mainly due to the sudden change from one person to two people sleeping together, and the sleeping habits and environment have changed, so you will not be able to sleep at ease.

If you sleep with your boyfriend and feel uneasy, it proves that he is not a safe person to rely on in your heart, and he is always unreliable and unreliable in your subconscious, so you have such a subconscious, so how can you break this deadlock? If you really think that you love this boyfriend very much and are reluctant to leave him, you will try to accept him as much as possible, and find that his advantages make you more and more reluctant in your heart, and she may also let this Xi'an slowly get up, if he is really not the type you like, it is recommended that you have a long and short pain.

There is an adaptation process to go from one person to two people. It's good to get used to it slowly. Is your boyfriend's personality giving you insecurity?

Isn't he younger than you? Or is there another reason? If you're always upset, then maybe you don't really like him.

Try to get along for a while, if you really can't change, then you have to consider whether you should continue with him. If you're always upset, maybe you're not fit to be together. Maybe it's been a long time, this uneasiness.

It's slowly gone.

Why is it not safe to sleep with your boyfriend, because you are just friends, you have not yet received a collar, and there are still many changes in the future, in case you break up, it is often you who are hurt. So you are not at ease and you are worried.

You don't feel at ease sleeping with your boyfriend, are you not wholeheartedly in your heart? Boyfriend feels insecure, so you heart.

Because of the problem of habit, after sleeping alone for so many years, suddenly there is one more person around who is not used to it. There are also two people sleeping together, I am too excited, I can't calm down, etc. Time is the best medicine, and when you get used to it for a long time, it will be good.

There are many reasons why you don't feel safe sleeping with your boyfriend, it may be that you sleep alone for a long time, and suddenly there is one more person, and you feel unaccustomed, or it is also possible that you have not reached that level of extreme trust in your boyfriend, and there will be that feeling that he will betray you.

Are you and your boyfriend living together without a license? But it's not at ease, one is afraid of pregnancy and the other is afraid that your boyfriend won't want you in the future, it's unstable, in this way, such a girl should be with a boy, young money should be kept at a certain distance, and everything will be agreed later, all know, and then sit together, then your heart will be settled, the relationship will be stable, and it will be stable, if you don't believe you try, you will know if you try.

It is possible that you are a very traditional girl, living with your boyfriend before you are married, and your heart is a little unnatural, and you don't feel safe, so you don't sleep well.

Then there is the fact that I am not used to sleeping with two people.

Actually, these are all natural habits.

There are probably three reasons! One is that I don't have a special trust in my boyfriend, so I don't sleep well and feel insecure; the other is not used to it, after a long time, it is good to get used to it; The other is that you should have something on your mind, it is a matter between you, which has been haunting you and cannot be resolved.

In terms of form, two people sleeping together are actually very disturbing, and the quality of sleep will not be very good, especially if one party has the habit of snoring, it will be even more uncomfortable to sleep. It's good to get used to it.

Whether you are not at ease with him, or you don't have confidence in yourself, the two of them should trust each other and understand each other together, don't doubt him, or leave decisively, or don't trust him.

Since you are not married, you may have a lot of worries in your mind, so you can't sleep with your boyfriend at ease.

Because he has done something wrong, he can't sleep peacefully, for fear that something will happen or his dream words will be exposed.

The main thing is that you are living together unmarried, and there is no sense of affinity, and there are many personal habits that affect sleep when two people are together, so slowly adapt to each other.

You have to get used to this slowly. At first, I won't be able to sleep well. It's like being half asleep. Wake up at the slightest movement! I don't have energy all day when I wake up in the morning. It's good to get used to it.

This situation indicates that you sleep very lightly and have a lot of concerns. In fact, one person sleeps most comfortably, and two people are uncomfortable together. One person can be casual, two people can't.

I'm also used to sleeping alone, and no one is allowed to sleep next to me. It's good for the body. Maybe that's the case for you, too.

It has nothing to do with who you are with, it has to do with your habits.

If you love each other, you should be tolerant according to the situation, and then find a way to adjust the other person's state, which is an adjustment rather than a change.

Is this kind of boyfriend you like? You ask yourself, if he likes you, why care, if he doesn't like it, then what's the matter? Personally, I think that a man has no sense of responsibility, no sense of ambition is really...

Not to mention how great the dedication is, there should be the responsibility of supporting the family, right? He doesn't have it now, is it possible that he will have it in the future?

Because he doesn't want you to find out that he's actually depressed too. But if he is the second generation of rich, then he may be used to being like this. You must not be angry with him about this kind of thing, no matter which of the first two is him.

Try to keep yourself busy, and let yourself socialize with him to very little, but it is still better for him when the two of them are together. When the time comes, he can't stand it, and it's not good to be angry with you. If he doesn't realize your conversion at all, he may not be paying enough attention to you.

While you're young, it's certainly not wrong to have more options.