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Dale Carnegie once said, "The expression on a man's face is more important than what he wears." "Looking around closely, there doesn't seem to be a single person who can't smile, but few people keep smiling when they speak, and even fewer let their smile come from the heart.

A smile can reflect a person's self-cultivation. For the audience, a smiling speaker makes people feel intimate and distant. A firm and confident look can also add points to the speaker's speech.

To overcome nervous emotions, the ultimate way, one is to rely on the accumulation of experience, the other is to cultivate the ability to overcome tension, cultivating the ability to overcome tension is a process of habit cultivation, it takes time and energy to learn to exercise, as long as you are willing to try, to learn, to find the right way, to find the right direction, serious participation, you can change.

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Obviously, you weren't a very sociable person in college, and your social profile was narrow. It is recommended that you do not rush to the interview first, and spend 10 days to read the book, what book to read? Just read a book on philosophy, because philosophy will change the way you think, and you will think about problems from multiple angles.

Think more when you're fine, and keep what you understand in your heart, the reason why you are slow to react is because you are not from your heart, and HR will think the same. Words from the heart are blurted out. But it's important to remember not to speak too fast.

Speak at the right pace, think calmly, and answer calmly. Believe you can succeed.

We must consciously change our own shortcomings, make some targeted efforts, be good at learning from others, and be good at summarizing.

To learn to change yourself and become confident, you can try walking down the street asking for directions out loud, smiling at others, and practising in the mirror. You will succeed.

Change your personality appropriately and be confident.

You can also choose a suitable career or position according to your personality characteristics.

It's best to increase your self-confidence.

Find out the reason from yourself and encourage yourself appropriately.

Overcome your shortcomings and consciously change.

1. Talk less and do more.

Low emotional intelligence is not something that can be changed all at once, so the first thing you need to do is to keep your mouth shut first, so that you can avoid it"Woe comes from the mouth", causing disgust from others. For example, when a group of people are discussing something, you should listen more to the side, pay attention to the words and deeds of others, do not blurt out your thoughts when you hear something different from your own opinion, and if you can't help it, move around more and do something else to distract yourself.

2. Think more before you speak.

Many people are labeled as having low emotional intelligence because they don't think much before they say or do things, which leads to inappropriate things when they say them. Therefore, if you notice that you are not very good at speaking, then do not rush to say it, but think about it a little more before saying it, and think about whether others will not like or mind if you say it, so that you can avoid making mistakes.

3. Be considerate of others.

It is true that people with low emotional intelligence will have no friends because they have offended people because of what they have said and done, but as long as you can make a change, then it is still possible to gain friendship. And this change is to think more about others, when talking and doing things, think about if you are the other party, hear what you want to say and see what you are going to do, whether you will be angry or embarrassed, etc., if you feel uncomfortable, then even if you want to say and do it, you need to hold back for others. As long as you are willing to think about others, then believe that others will be willing to be friends with you.

If you really want to change, you have to restrain the devil in your own heart, I understand your pain, in fact, I was the same as you when I first entered the junior college, I was extremely introverted, but in this case, you will lose a lot of opportunities, the opportunity to make friends, the opportunity to learn, so it will slowly change. First of all, you have to go out shopping by yourself, and slowly maybe it will be better, don't look for an office job first, first go find a job sending leaflets to exercise your ability to communicate with strangers, in fact, it is to change your dislike to talk and dare not greet people, don't be afraid of losing face. The second is to slowly find a job you want to do and communicate with people more.

In addition, you can go to the psychiatrist to see if you have social phobia, and let the doctor help you.

In fact, the best way is to exercise yourself, don't be afraid of losing face, and hand out flyers on the street who knows whom, just think about it. Finally, I hope you can change. Though it is difficult, come on!

If you are introverted, you can actually do something like, such as writing, or talking work that is less willing to contact people, and the most important thing is to look at a person's ability, or professional counterpart.

Since you are introverted, difficult to find a job, do not like to talk, and have poor expression skills, then you should change and improve yourself, and practice more often, otherwise you can only be eliminated by society.

Tips for interviews:

When the examiner asks questions, candidates should listen attentively, grasp the main points of the examiner's questions, and at the same time organize their own language reasonably. Maintain timely communication with the examiner. Don't be stubborn, allow the examiner to give the opposite opinion, listen with an open mind, and ask for advice sincerely.

When the issue is neutral or not likely to be controversial, you can be straightforward and frank about your opinions. When one's own point of view is not easily accepted, you can use the recursive method and the counter-evidence method. Explanation is a common expression in an interview, and the purpose of explanation is to explain the facts and opinions that the examiner does not understand or understand, or to explain the reason for something, or to clarify the examiner's misunderstanding in a timely manner.

Define your career goals and improve your self-confidence.

If you always fail the interview and your confidence is frustrated, you will naturally wonder if it is caused by sex.

As long as you are not particularly introverted and depressed (if so, go to the hospital for psychological counseling). Personality is not a decisive condition for success in job hunting.

In terms of character, to give you some advice:

First of all, you choose a job that is similar to your own conditions and work experience according to your own conditions (you can exclude outward-looking jobs such as public relations and reception).

Then, find out the combination of the target job and your own conditions, and your own personality strengths, such as careful work and perseverance.

Finally, by strengthening your character strengths, improving your self-confidence, and bravely facing difficulties, you will show a new you in the interview.

1. According to your name, it should be a girl! In fact, girls are not engaged in "public relations", "sales" and other jobs that obviously require an extroverted personality. There's nothing wrong with that. So don't have any mental burden.

2. Communicate with superiors and subordinates, communicate with customers, and communicate with other departments, which is definitely inevitable in the future work, so the attitude of "appropriately changing yourself and enhancing your eloquence and communication skills" is definitely a must.

3. It's best not to have relatives present, as that will affect your performance. Birds always have to leave their mother's arms, and they always have to learn to fly, and if you talk to your relatives, you will definitely be understood.

4. So find more companies for more interviews and interviews, and it's good to have experience.

5. Increase opportunities for communication. For example, communicate more with other interviewees while waiting. In the future, I will work more and strive for the opportunity to speak on stage.

Don't treat him as a boss in your heart, just as your usual good friend, and don't always think that I must answer well, otherwise there will be no job, the more this is the case, the more nervous you are, now ** is not easy to find a job, be bold and magnify, I support you.

You will answer whatever the boss asks you, make a louder voice, don't be afraid, remember to keep smiling at all times, leave a good impression on the boss, and wish you a successful interview!

Judging from the text you wrote, it doesn't seem to be too introverted, and you speak very strongly.

Summary. Hello, if you can accept the law that everything has two sides, you will be able to look at yourself better, and introverted personality also has its unique advantages, learn to accept yourself.

My personality is too introverted and my language skills are poor, how can I change?

Hello, if you can accept the law that everything has two sides, you will be able to look at yourself better, and introverted personality also has its unique advantages, learn to accept yourself.

Seize the opportunity to exercise yourself and set the right mentality, which is very important.

Everyone's expression ability is different, some are good, some are bad, but we can improve our expression skills through acquired training, read more relevant books, and express our opinions more in daily life, which should be better.

Learn what specialties can be improved.

Speech. Debate.

Flesh out the content and lay a good foundation. Many students are very puzzled: I usually speak very smoothly, and I am even a good speaker, but why do I get so nervous that I can't speak well when I go to the interview and examination room, or even the mock examination room?

The most fundamental reason is that there is no content and I don't know what to say. We can imagine that we rarely get stuck in our speech, and even when we talk about the professional field we are good at, we will even be speechless. The reason is that the content of the conversation is very familiar to us, that is, our daily work and life.

The interview involves some macro questions, many of which are unfamiliar to us in our daily life and rarely mentioned, so many candidates will always feel that they have nothing to say in the process of answering questions, and even some candidates will feel that the words they say are like someone else's.

The most fundamental thing is to quickly familiarize ourselves with the relevant policies and regulations of the party in a short period of time, be familiar with some policy and professional language, and systematically prepare for all kinds of livelihood issues that often occur in the interview.

Think deep and get organized. For the various types of questions that will appear in the interview, take the questions of the comprehensive analysis ability test, whether it is current politics or philosophy, the idea that candidates must follow is: ask questions, analyze problems, and solve problems.

In the case of current affairs topics, the purpose of raising questions is to point out the essence and point of view based on facts. The next step is the process of analyzing the problem, and the analysis of the problem is nothing more than from the cause, background, impact, role, etc., if you go deeper, then the candidate needs to consider the country, collective, society, individuals and other subjects, policies, regulations, education, morality and other content. At the end of the analysis, it is time to propose a solution based on the content of the analysis.

Verbal expression of civil service interviews.

Children are introverted and have low self-esteem, it is better to sign up for a group, so that children can contact some other children in the general environment, so that children can be cheerful and lively.

Before meeting the interviewer, it is best to listen to a leisurely song to prevent relaxation, and if there are greenery nearby, take a look, take a deep breath, and regulate your internal breath.

1. Talk less and listen more, don't ask or reply, 2. Learn to smile, 3. Nod, learn to acquiesce to the other party's questions and answers, 4. Have a belief that the sequelae left by mother's dystocia are congenital, you can make up for it the day after tomorrow, you have to believe in yourself, you can too, 5. Don't have an inferiority complex, otherwise you will be more serious, you have to believe in yourself, others can, you can too, I have watched the movie "The King's Speech" like this, he is stuttering, and then under the correction of his own requirements, slowly can, A stuttering king can give a speech, and so can you, of course, that's a true story!

In the end, I'm sure you can do better!

If you want to do everything well, you know, you have to say it slowly, professionally, finely, and hard!

You can ask!

Think about what you want to express, memorize your resume, relax during the interview, and adjust your mentality.

Don't feel inferior, build up confidence, it is gold that will shine sooner or later.