I m autistic, introverted, poor in language, can t laugh, slow to react, and unsociable, please help

In this case, it is recommended that you go to see a psychiatrist They will give you professional help, which is more effective than you looking for answers on the Internet, in fact, I personally feel that your situation is because you are not confident enough in yourself, so that a series of vicious circles have been generated, and finally you begin to hate the environment and hate the people around you, or find a professional to help you provide a reasonable solution, and finally I wish you can regain your self-confidence and find the beauty of life.

Actually, I used to have a similar personality to you! As you grow older, you have more people in contact with it, and slowly and unconsciously let it in, it is recommended that you go to KTV to sing more, and if you dare to try drinking, get drunk once (remember to be accompanied by same-sex friends) hehe....It's quite effective.

First but foremost: have faith in yourself!!

If you're not confident in how you look, try applying a little makeup to make yourself feel more attractive and increase your confidence.

You can first try to discuss some popular topics with others, such as the scandal of a certain celebrity, etc. This gives you the opportunity to learn about other people's preferences.

Later, slowly talk to others about yourself. To put it bluntly, it is to slowly turn friends of wine and meat into bosom friends.

Anyway, no matter what you do, self-confidence is always the first magic weapon!

Will you imitate.

Learn to bark kittens and puppies.

If it will. Just learn how others do it.

To change, it is from the inside out, the darkness in the heart cannot hold up a bright smile, first accept yourself, whether you are perfect or not, you are unique, love yourself. While learning to appreciate others, you will see a different world.

Hello, I have read what you wrote from beginning to end, and I already understand very well your evaluation and understanding of yourself and the changes you expect, and can feel the contradictions and hardships in your heart. At least this shows that your language skills are not bad, and not everyone can convey such complex inner entanglements through these words.

Everyone has their own personality traits, and your problem is a long-term problem, and I don't have a sentence or two of specific advice to give you, "cure the disease", but there are some things you can try to think about.

As you said, "I know it's not their problem, it's my own problem", it's a good thing to have this kind of understanding, and since it's your own problem, it means that it can be changed through your own adjustment and efforts.

Maybe you can think further before trying to think about it, and I offer you two directions to think about:

1. Your state may not be as bad as you think, and many advantages are masked, at least the self-evaluation of your ability to express yourself is not very accurate. You should try to find your own way of behaving in the world, everyone has their own personality and must have their own way of life.

2. If you think that some of other people's communication methods are good, you should consciously learn, and try gradually, just like you used to go to school to learn a homework or learn nursing, dealing with the world, communication is also a discipline, and it cannot become a skill of your own if you don't spend time and don't invest energy in serious study, practice, thinking, and summarizing.

In short, you need to do two things: accept yourself and learn from others.

I wish you a smooth and happy journey in your life, and I hope it can help you.

Be optimistic. I'm pretty much the same.

Do you know that story?

When Marco Polo and Genghis Khan talked about the countries of the world, Genghis Khan asked him, why you never mentioned your hometown Venice. Marco Polo smiled and said, I'm afraid that after I say it, it won't be my Venice alone.

Hope you understand.

I think you should communicate more with your classmates, improve your relationship with them, and gradually you will integrate into a group... You should be open and take the initiative to communicate with your teachers and classmates.