What if someone confesses to me, and what if someone confesses to you?

When she asks you this question, she has long thought that you will refuse, so, to be tactful, tell her that you want to learn first and she will understand.

And the so-called she is very beautiful, which makes you tempted, what do you think? In fact, without affecting your studies, you can get in touch, if it will affect your studies, I think you know what the consequences are, as for whether she will be hurt, I can only say that she will understand you, and she will also hope that you have a better future, if she is so short-sighted, I believe it is not a good partner for you.

It's easy! If you also like her, you will date, if you don't like her, you will use the excuse of being the first in your studies, and you will go your separate ways after half a year. It won't hurt her either.

I think it is necessary for you to make it clear to her that the middle school period is not suitable for early love, and then say that you are only focused on studying now, and if she must pester you, you can think about it after the age of 20.

Accept him if falling in love doesn't interfere with your studies

No... Accept the best, and you can also improve your academic performance

It was agreed that we would talk about dating after we were admitted to university together.

In interpersonal communication, learning to refuse is a compulsory course, especially in the relationship between men and women, we can't control others to have a good impression of us, and in the face of the confession of people we don't like, we can't force ourselves to accept, although rejection is inevitably a harm, but polite refusal may not make the relationship between the two sides stalemate. So how should you refuse to be confessed by someone you don't like?

1. Resolute attitude and outspoken refusal.

As the saying goes, "If you keep breaking off diplomatic relations, you will be confused by it." "When the other person expresses their love for you, if you don't like the other person, give the other person a clear attitude, don't complain, and give the other person a chance.

You have to refuse directly, and don't contact him again after refusing, and don't ask him for help to avoid unnecessary trouble.

2. Leave enough dignity for the other party and refuse efficiently.

Many people dare not refuse the confession of others, always afraid of hurting their self-esteem and the weakest heart. Especially the sudden confession of a friend for many years, they were caught off guard and didn't know what to do. At this time, when you reject this kind of confession from a friend, you have to know how to be tactful, just give him some hints, tell him what type you like and what you imagine your future to be.

Let him stand back. As friends, they will understand your rejection. This also saves the other party's face and dignity, and minimizes the degree of harm.

3. Don't refuse face-to-face.

If the other party confesses to you in person, you are afraid that the face-to-face refusal will hurt the other party, and you do not know how to refuse appropriately. For now, you can find a reason to be impatient to respond immediately. You can tell him your true thoughts through WeChat or text messages, which can not only alleviate the embarrassment of face-to-face rejection, but also help the other party slowly digest the information.

4. Issue a good person card.

Before rejecting him, you can praise him, praise him, give him enough face and let him know that you cherish and care about your friendship, so you don't want to cheat on him, this doesn't want to cause him any harm. Many people now know what a good hand means. Once you've dealt a good card, he knows that you've politely rejected him.