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"Forgetting is a kind of demeanor, and giving up is a kind of wisdom".
Only those who know how to be grateful and cherish can get the greatest harvest in life - happiness and happiness! Learn to forget, let the body and mind relax; Know how to give up, so that life becomes more harmonious and beautiful.
"Forgetting is a kind of demeanor, and giving up is a kind of wisdom".It is also necessary to understand the true meaning of giving, know how to sublimate the soul of forgetting, let the spirit be improved, and know that giving, you will live a wonderful life. Learn to forget, know how to give.
I remember that there is a saying that says it very well: remembering is a duty, and forgetting is a kind of wisdom.
Forgetting is a kind of free and easy memory, a kind of open-mindedness and openness of the realm, a kind of gentlemanly demeanor and courage detachment, a kind of indifference to the past and success, a kind of ridicule and disdain for pain and sorrow, and a kind of true meaning of life to be easy and easy.
In fact, life itself is about constantly absorbing, accumulating and eliminating. Life is a process, a process of spitting out the old and accepting the new. It is to absorb what makes sense, accumulate what should be piled up, and eliminate those dross.
It is precisely because of this that it is inevitable to do something in life and not to do something; If you don't learn to forget, you won't remember; This is the dialectic of life, and it is also the law of life itself. I think that in many cases, people must not only learn to forget, but also learn to know how to give.
"Forgetting is a kind of demeanor, and giving up is a kind of wisdom".
If you want to live a happy and happy life, you must remember what you should remember, forget what you should forget, change what you can change, and accept what you can't change. This is not only a kind of mind, but also a kind of realm. Forgetting is a kind of spiritual detachment, and giving up is a kind of spiritual sublimation; Forgetting is an excellent character, and giving up is an excellent state of mind; Forgetting is an attitude towards life, and giving up is the highest state of doing things.
is the so-called: pampering and humiliation, watching the flowers bloom and fall in front of the court; Go and stay at will, and follow the clouds outside the sky. If life can be like this, then how perfect and happy it will be!
Reliable, it is really valuable, cherish the affairs must not be forgotten; If you can throw it away, it should be, and what you discarded should be discarded as soon as possible. Forget the disrespect of others to yourself, remember the kindness and help of others, forget your past glory and achievements, and remember today's responsibility.
Learn to be willing to give up, to give up fame and vanity outside the body, to be willing to be momentary and chic, and to be willing to be tempting interests and honors. Only those who know how to give can achieve outstanding results.
Be able to forget and forget, be able to spare and forgive; When you can give it, you must give it up and never look back. What can be remembered must be engraved in the bottom of the heart, and can be given to others and to others. Only those who know how to be grateful and cherish can get the greatest harvest in life - happiness and happiness!
Learn to forget, let the body and mind relax; Know how to give up, so that life becomes more harmonious and beautiful.
We must not only learn to forget, but also understand the true meaning of giving. Then life will be more real and perfect! Because there is no desire, live indifferently, live comfortably, and live a wonderful life! Hope to adopt.
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A teenager goes to visit an old wise man.
He asked: How can I become a person who is happy with myself and can also be happy with others?
The wise man looked at him with a smile and said, "Child, it is already rare to have such a wish at your age. Many people who are much older than you, as you can see from the question they ask themselves, no matter how much explanation they give them, it is impossible to make them understand the really important truth, so they have to let them do that.
The boy listened reverently, without the slightest hint of smugness on his face.
The wise man then said, "I will send you four sentences." The first sentence is, think of yourself as someone else.
Can you tell us what that means?
The boy replied, "Do you mean that when I feel pain and sorrow, I think of myself as someone else, so that the pain will be naturally relieved?" When I'm ecstatic, I think of myself as someone else, and that rapture becomes calmer?
The wise man nodded slightly, and then said: The second sentence is to treat others as yourself.
The boy pondered for a moment and said, "So that we can truly sympathize with the misfortunes of others, understand the needs of others, and give appropriate help to others when they need them?"
The wise man's eyes lit up and he continued: The third sentence is to treat others as others.
The wise man laughed: Very good, very good, the child can be taught!
The fourth sentence is, think of yourself as yourself.
This sentence is too difficult to understand, so keep it for you to savor it later.
The young man said: I can't understand the meaning of this sentence for a while. But there are many contradictions between these four sentences, and what can I use to unify them?
Wise: It's very simple, with a lifetime of time and experience.
The boy was silent for a long time, and then bowed his head goodbye.
Later, the boy became the prime of life, and then he became the old man. And long after he left this world, people still mentioned his name all the time. People say that he was a wise man because he was a pleasant man, and he also brought pleasure to everyone who met him.
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