I m a high school student, but I m starting to be confused about life, study, and future

Hehe. That's how life is sometimes.

Still, we have to get by.

Because, we have a reason to go on.

Sometimes it's very tiring and tiring.

Just think of the people you love, though.

And the things I care about, I'm tired, that's the same thing.

Why did I fall, my goal has not been achieved.

So, sometimes get tired, go out for a walk, or, listen to the **, blow the wind.

will find their own trajectory.

The college entrance examination is important, but you also have to know how to combine work and rest.

If you are a learner, you won't delay learning at all.

On the contrary, it promotes learning, and only by having a good mood can you learn things well.

As for not knowing what to play, just ask your classmates to come out and play together, and when there are many people, it will naturally be lively.

Go out and walk more, and you can do outdoor sports.

I'll call you little brother. I went to high school in a closed school. These things are no worse than I was then. I was a little autistic at the time! Fortunately, I'm still in good health

You're asking this question because you're trying to find a solution, and I have a couple of suggestions that will be useful to you

The first point is, since you're in a school like this, then accept the system of this school, and the monotony of life is also a test of patience for you to accept all of this

And the second point is to change all of that and convince my parents to go to a school that is not so closed and find a separate school to go to school, so that they can study and have time to play

The third point, besides, you must have the psychology of being tired of learning If this is the case, then it is better to study than not to study Because learning is a pain for you Then think about your hobbies What you like, you will go in which direction to develop What is good for you It's not only reading is the only way out After reading or for life What do you say? So it's still important to develop your hobbies

Talk to your mom and dad about your thoughts and communicate

Fourth, read more books about Li Zhi So that you can have a pursuit and a direction in life I will introduce you to a few books: The World's Greatest Salesman The Biography of Hara Yiping Carnegie These are all good books

This is your life, and it is good ... You're not satisfied.

The college entrance examination is an important stage for most people to move from naivety to maturity. As a person who has come before, I was also confused and confused like you at that time.

I used to be overwhelmed by my studies. However, now that I am in college, I feel that my high school life is very fulfilling, and I wander in the ocean of knowledge every day, not as decadent as I am now, and my life seems to have no purpose.

Actually, I think everyone should relax themselves properly and not push themselves too hard. Otherwise, it will be like a rubber band, which is too tight, and there will be a day when it breaks. Since you are not interested in computers and TV, you can go on outings with your classmates, barbecues, etc., and then devote yourself to your studies after relaxing.

That way you might be more motivated.

Yes, as long as you don't think about it, the future will not be dark, I think like you, it's better to go with the flow, why bother comparing yourself to that, even if this road doesn't work, there are other things for you.

You can also listen to **, don't hold yourself back.

Sweat... College is more boring. In fact, you don't have to study during the winter and summer vacations, as long as you usually listen to the class, the homework is done, there is no need to be so painful at the beginning, the real force is in the third year of high school, listening to your words, I feel like you don't have any confidant friends, go out to play more, make more friends, in fact, the most interesting thing is to play with classmates and friends, and the computer or something is tired of playing, which is inevitable.

Honestly, basketball and soccer are fun. It's a good fight, and it's very fulfilling. Definitely different from surfing the internet.

Besides, high school classes are actually very interesting, so don't complain. Like in our university, especially in the mathematics department, that's called sadness, the classes are boring, and there is no job when you come out, which is called the future is bleak, and you are still early. Why do you think about the college entrance examination so early, it's a matter of course, you just do what you need to do every day, why do you always think about the college entrance examination, there are still two years before you.

In fact, to be honest, now you force yourself so much to be beautiful, and you learn it during winter and summer vacations? I have long forgotten about the college entrance examination, the most important thing is the third year of high school, that is the time for you to push yourself, and now you still enjoy life. There is still free time in the first and second years of high school, don't keep making yourself uncomfortable, there are more things to play than you don't notice.

Not really! In high school, you are more tired than before, but don't be overly nervous? Find a competitive opponent, (the first in the class is) there is pressure to be motivated, there is competition to be motivated, the computer Internet is OK, but also this year is indispensable, but don't sink in the network, the Internet can relax the mood, ease the pressure of learning.

Don't keep thinking about the game.

<> 1. Believe in yourself, encourage yourself, and you can do what others can do. Give yourself more encouragement every day, be less negative, smile more, be less pessimistic, reflect more, be less proud, work harder, and complain less.

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2. Maintaining exercise and nurturing our spirit is conducive to improving our psychological quality. The most advocate physical exercise, continuous exercise can make our physical and mental quality be well improved, develop the habit of diligent exercise can not only release our physical and mental pressure, but also enable us to maintain a better mental state, for life, learning difficulties will naturally have enough energy to deal with, will not be easy to show fatigue, psychological quality improved, will not easily feel confused, can not calm down.

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3. See the wise and think together, and be with them. As the saying goes, everyone has advantages and disadvantages, communicate with the surrounding students with better comprehensive quality, learn from the good advantages and learning methods of others, reflect on themselves, formulate a detailed list-style study plan, call a good friend, and supervise each other; Of course, this does not mean that there is no contact with naughty classmates, generally naughty students are more flexible in thinking, they have a lot of innovative ideas, and contact with them can also break their own inherent thinking patterns and explore new ways of thinking.

4. Learn to share and consult your teacher when necessary. Many times our uneasiness and confusion through sharing with family and best friends, this negative impact will be alleviated to a certain extent, solved, don't hold it in your heart, find a person who is willing to listen and share with you, help you solve the problem is the luckiest thing in the world, if it is really difficult to find, you can find a class teacher or a better teacher to communicate, the teacher provides great help and guidance for our growth and development.

1.Analyze the reasons for the confusion.

If you want to quickly understand your confused state, you must first figure out why you are confused, people must maintain the ability to be satisfied with the fragments of life, whether they are dissatisfied with the future or dissatisfied with life, the seemingly fragmented life is a secret passage to the happy planet, and you can quickly find the answer to the problem by finding the point of the problem.

2.Only by finding the points that stimulate your interest in learning can you learn effectively on your own.

Although China's universities have been expanding their enrollment every year in recent years, the penetration rate of higher education in China reached in 2019, so as a person who has received higher education through the college entrance examination, his IQ must not be bad, at least at the upper middle level in the crowd, so netizens who ask questions do not need to doubt their IQ.

There is no problem with IQ, it is a problem with the learning method. We will find that the knowledge we have learned in adulthood, what we can remember is what we were very interested in when we learned, and those things that we were not interested in at that time and memorized by rote will soon be forgotten.

3.Find answers with action.

If you have an uncertain attitude towards something, this is confusion, when you don't know how to choose, you might as well go according to the original plan, at this time you can verify your answer through actions, so that you will not regret it in the future. In short, you have to move, you have to sit in one place with your head down, you want to cry, you want to doze off. What you really want is not just as simple as tiptoeing, all the gains, you must go all out and work hard.

4.Get enough sleep and exercise.

In many cases, negative emotions such as anxiety and confusion often come from insufficient rest, especially for students who are preparing for the junior high school entrance examination. At this time, you must not be discouraged and give up, you must rest as much as possible on the basis of ensuring the completion of the study task, take a ten-minute break between classes, and play with your mobile phone less after class, so you must control your hands.

During the evening self-study period, you can go to the playground to run two or three laps, which can not only breathe fresh air, but also strengthen your body, after all, the college entrance examination is a long-term battle, and you must raise your body hardware to fight this tough battle.

Whatever decision you want to make, just do it, even if it doesn't necessarily turn out the way you want it to, even if you're not sure if it's what you really want to do.

After all, it is only in the process of practicing this choice that you will really face many problems, and it is only at that moment when you face the choice that your decision will tell you who you are and shape who you are. Just thinking about your confusion, the confusion will not dissipate.

First of all, we must formulate our own learning goals and future plans, plan what goals we achieve in this half semester or a year, turn confusion into motivation, and devote ourselves to learning, the college entrance examination is a more important part of life, maybe it is not the most critical key, but it is the deepest and longest that can affect you, high school also symbolizes youth, do what you think is right, live up to your time, live up to your ideals.

As a senior sister who has just finished high school, let me tell you! First of all, the first year of high school must lay a solid foundation, and the accumulation of quantity can make a qualitative leap. The foundation of the first year of high school is solid, and the second and third years of high school can learn well.

Especially in the third year of high school, you will thank yourself as a freshman in high school. Secondly, don't watch**, don't brush**, and don't bring your mobile phone into the campus, to be honest, mobile phones are really useless in high school, you can ask the teacher if you don't have a problem, and solve the problem as soon as possible. In the end, it is not embarrassing to be alone, and the task of high school is to spend the time waiting for others to study, and to improve your grades.

What should I do if I just entered high school and am a little confused about life? High school is all about academics, so if you don't want to study, go to bed.

If you have something, go to sleep, set a goal when you are confused, do your own things, and there are no wonders in the world.

High school is a new starting point for freshmen in learning and a new test in life. At this stage, students have undergone significant changes in terms of physical and psychological aspects, as well as in terms of objective environment and learning tasks, compared with junior high school.

In such a situation, students who can adapt to the new changes will make progress academically, or they may fall behind. Therefore, while looking forward to a new study life, students should also make some necessary preparations to make themselves smoothly realize the transition between junior high school and high school, and adapt to the study and life of high school as soon as possible.

You should adjust your mentality, adjust your learning style, you can talk to your parents about your inner thoughts, and your parents will give you relief.

Entering high school means that it is a critical moment, and there is a heavy responsibility for learning, so there is still time to think about these, study hard, get into a good university, don't think about anything else, communicate more with your parents in life, this is not the main thing, the main thing is to study and study again.