Should girls get used to it, women must not get used to it

True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wantsYou will be happy when you see the person you love happy, and you will be troubled when you see him (her) troubled, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, and the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her) and get along with him (her), you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) seems to have lost something, with him (her) you have happiness Friends can pay your sincerity!

No, don't give too much, just the right amount Today you give 10 percent, tomorrow she is giving 10 percent, she thinks you're not good, you have to give 20 percent, it's been a long time, and when you give 100 percent, she's still not satisfied, because she's used to it, you can't treat her well, and she thinks you're not good to her, so women can't get used to it.

I don't think I can get used to it, the more I get used to it, the more I go to heaven, and I almost have to, or I will develop in the future, and my life will be more difficult.

Yes, yes, it depends on what is going on, and you can't go too far with everything, but girls are used to pet, men are used to rely on, so you have to be reliable, women are used to love, so you have to be cute.

Love is equal, you love him and care for him, but you can't do everything by him.

You can't get used to it all the time, but you have to give way.

Such a girl can't fight if she doesn't fight!

Hello, not only women, but actually no one can get used to him unconditionally, because human nature is selfish, and if you do this, you will not only make the other party more and more dissatisfied, but also make yourself more and more sad, anyway, it is not good for the other party and yourself.

The correct way to interact between men and women is: try to discuss everything with everyone, and you can't try to be good to her (him) unconditionally just because you say you like each other or other reasons, so pure dedication is useless. It doesn't touch a person's heart.

Even if you can move her in the end, then you will only be moved, not loved. Although it is said that feelings can be cultivated slowly, it is difficult to cultivate them if there is no foundation.

However, if you are both husband and wife or lovers, there is no harm in paying appropriately, there is a good saying: "Girls are used to spoil", which also has some truth. You can forgive the other party for some minor faults, or occasional annoying mistakes, but you must have the principles you adhere to, once the other party touches your bottom line or goes too far, you must let him understand that you are also a person with a bottom line.

You can get used to her, or you can change her. Why do good men have no wife?

Hmmm......It can't be too habitual, nor too harsh; It's better to get everything just right.

You are not strict in this statement, and you should say that wrong behavior cannot be accommodated and condoned, whether it is a wife or a husband.

The general problem is not big, but it is beyond the principle and destroys the three views, and it must be stopped.

A few days ago, I saw the news that my husband forgot to buy chicken legs and was stabbed to death by his wife, and I showed it to my husband, and he said this to me at that time.

My husband is from the Northeast, but he doesn't have the style of a big man at all, and no matter how angry and quarrelsome he is, he never moves a finger, and he always lets me. It's me, on the other hand, my temper comes up, and sometimes I can't help but do it.

Seeing this kind of news, I feel that it is time to reflect on my own actions. Women have always been the role of the weak, and the targets of domestic violence are mostly women, which leads people to often ignore that domestic violence has never been gender-specific.

The victim in the news is that he usually spoils his wife too much, and he doesn't dare to move even when he is usually slapped in the face. After being pampered for a long time, the wife's temper became bigger and bigger, and finally caused such a tragedy.

There is nothing wrong with getting along with husband and wife and pampering. But love is also mutual, and reasonable people naturally understand this truth. The problem is that not everyone understands the reason and always takes the love of others for granted.

For example, when they see such news, some people will reflect, while others will laugh at men's weakness.

suddenly remembered a song, Fang Lei and Jia Ling's "Yilan Love Story", which is also the background of Jia Ling's sketch "Hello, Li Huanying" a few years ago**. The song is sung in the Northeast dialect, which is very funny, and it is just right to put it in the background in the sketch. But when I looked at the lyrics carefully, I realized that although the song tells the story around me, it is not so simple.

A man is struggling to find the object of his affection, and finally marries his daughter-in-law home. After that, the pampering did not decrease at all, and the trivial man took the initiative to contract, and the woman was responsible for holding Bao'er and saving the game. Over time, women floated, men became green, and a good family could only be dispersed in the end.

Probably the story in this song is to tell people that life is trivial, and husbands and wives must work together to manage it, so that the marriage will not turn sour. And the more direct truth is that the daughter-in-law can't get used to it too much, otherwise there will always be a day when she cries.

Men sometimes can't always get used to women, it's good to be appropriate, the temper is getting bigger and bigger, and when the time comes, you can't control it, you always talk about some small problems, and you always make trouble unreasonably.

Accustomed to too many women, she always looks down on your family, your mother she doesn't like it, she always feels that she is doing something wrong, she always feels that she is violating her, violating her rights and interests, there are more conflicts in the family, and you don't know how to be polite to your family at all.

Women can't always get used to it, they have to say what they should say, they have to manage what they should manage, and they can't spoil themselves too much.

If you want your family to have fewer contradictions, and you and her have fewer contradictions, you still can't always get used to it, just be appropriate.

Sometimes women can't stop their temper, sometimes they feel that this is not good, they just can't stop their temper, because they are used to it, they are used to it.

A woman who understands is fine, but a woman who doesn't understand will suffer herself.

But it's not okay not to be pampered, which ones should be spoiled, and which ones are used to it? Pets, habits are appropriate, and the distinction is clear!