Why do I have to pay off my debt for the scholarship I worked so hard for?

First of all, one of the main reasons is the traditional concept of our country for a long time.

Generally, it is the people around you, only who has won a scholarship and received a superior remuneration, then it is necessary to have a meal.

At the beginning, the purpose is to make everyone feel happy and happy for their happy events, and everyone can come together to support their own popularity, which also shows that your relationship in the current circle is not bad, and it is also an appreciation of your personal communication skills.

After a long time, this kind of dinner has become a customary rule, this time you invite, next time he invites, and next time I invite ......

The truth is true, people have invited you to dinner before, and this time you won a scholarship, so you have to repay the favor he invited you to dinner before.

In today's society, in fact, money is not valuable, what is really valuable is the human affection between people, especially in our China, it is a relationship society, in the future, asking people to do things, developing themselves, will need relationships, if you have no relationship, you may fall behind others.

Therefore, it is worth the money you spend, and it can be regarded as an investment for your future development.

What does your scholarship have to do with your personal debt? Debt does not matter whether it is human favor or economy, it is all your own problem that you owe, and if you don't take responsibility for it yourself, no one will help you. The debt of human affection is not as good as the economic debt, but it is the big stone that weighs on you breathlessly.

You may think that it is not a big deal if others help you, first of all, you are not a person who knows how to be grateful, maybe your scholarship is obtained by everyone's help, maybe your scholarship is obtained by your own strength. I guess your scholarship is based on favors, so you have to pay off the debts.

This is what I made the interpersonal communication not something you can control, you can choose not to repay this personal debt now, then I will not have a bursary or a scholarship next time. So I think if you want to get the honor next time, then you need to pay off the debt this time.

Of course, if you feel that the other party is not good to you, then you can return it to him as it is next time.

This should be caused by our national conditions, and many such situations in life are not just a matter of scholarships.

You got a scholarship in school, and you think you got it through your own efforts, which may be the case, but there will be a lot of people who think they are helpful to you.

For example, your dormitory mates, or your advisors, or maybe the leaders of your department, whether they have helped you or not, you have to appreciate it, at least they haven't held you back.

If you take a small part of your scholarship and shut up all these people, then you can still be a little more sober, otherwise there will always be people gossiping about you behind your back, and it will not be pleasant to make people point fingers.

China is a humane society, and there are many people who feel that they are not holding you back, but are helping you. Sometimes you have to appreciate it, otherwise you will offend people, and if there is anything in the future, there may be someone who will hold back, and some people will just not succeed enough, and there will be more than one failure, and there is really no good way.

This is also telling you that society is not as simple as we think, and everything must be considered as thoughtful as possible, otherwise the gains may outweigh the losses.

I think that since I asked this question, I don't want to use my scholarship to pay off my personal debt, so I can do it according to my own heart, and if I don't want to pay it back, I won't pay it back. I think this should be talking about using your scholarship to invite classmates or roommates to dinner, I also encountered this situation in college, I think you can invite if you want to invite, don't invite if you don't want to invite, after all, the scholarship is yours.

When I was in college, after the scholarship was evaluated, there were indeed classmates who were noisy to let the students who won the award invite them to dinner, I don't know about others, I followed the quarrel to make a joke, saying that it would be forgotten once, and I would not really let others invite me to dinner, although the scholarship was issued by the school, it was also people's own money, and it was not picked up, so there was no need for everyone to invite people to dinner.

I think this question is different and tangled, a person with ** EQ and IQ will not let the family take a scholarship to invite him to dinner, and everyone does not owe each other. If everyone jokes about inviting dinner once, you just laugh and laugh, and everyone will forget it.

In fact, this is a very common phenomenon in society nowadays, especially on college campuses. Because we all know that in addition to students whose families are really difficult and have excellent character and learning, there are also some students who always have a certain ability and position in the student union or other student organizations and are deeply loved by teachers.

In college, in fact, everyone works hard to get a scholarship, but the debt of human affection is really unavoidable, because you can't say that you can get a scholarship just by your efforts, and the competition is so fierce. To put it mildly, most of your scholarships are set by counselors, so how important you are to counselors depends on whether you get a scholarship or not. In other words, the more you help him, the more you can do for him, then he will naturally give you this benefit, which is why the university is a small society.

It's normal that you can't say that you got a scholarship because of your academic excellence. Because you are excellent, there are people who are better than you, you work hard in your studies, and others work hard in other places, so it is normal for you to use scholarships to pay off your debts. But this debt does not mean that you must use your scholarship in exchange, but that the teacher provides you with so much help and allows you to get a scholarship, then you have to work harder to help him, which is also a way to repay the debt of love, you help me, I help you, and we are in a relationship of mutual help.