I don t want to move, but it s time to go home, what s wrong with me? 20

In fact, when you ask this question, you must be homesick. It's a very kind boy, I can understand your current mood, in fact, there are many examples, many children don't want to go home like you, some don't rush to face their families, some are afraid of going home and being beaten, a little hate this home, this is not my home, some are the reason for their parents' divorce and so on. I won't list them all?

I don't know what your situation is like right now, and I don't know what you're doing right now. So it's not good to comment on you and help you, but what I want to say is that relying on your parents at home and your friends outside, the so-called (I don't want to do it all my life) is just yourself perfunctory. Everyone will have this kind of unreasonable behavior, it is just a temporary concept, and people will change.

I understand you very well when you say this, because I also said it when I was a child before, and it was because I was ignorant and my family was noisy, so I went out by myself, and I was just afraid at that time. I won't mention the past.

Just wanted to let you know. Time constraints you have to go back. If you think about it calmly, you must already have the answer. I won't say more, you are a smart child, you can control your own destiny, you have succeeded? You've done your best, come on

Tired. Think about going home to let yourself relax completely, take a warm bath, get rid of the fatigue and annoyance of the day, change into comfortable clothes, brush the circle of friends, read the story, look at those who are harder than us, suddenly feel that I am living a good life, look at those movies and television with bubbles, and suddenly by the way, you can have a short little dream...

It's better to go home.

It may be the feeling of powerlessness that your family gives you.

It's also possible that you're just lazy.

Go home, always come back.

Family! Always a haven for tiredness! It's a relaxing feeling even when you're alone at home! There is no home anywhere where one can be at will!

Lazy, you should force yourself to go home.

Take your responsibilities one way or another.

Hello dear! Glad to serve you There are three reasons why you don't want to go home 1. Lack of belonging: Feeling that you are not needed can lead to a loss of belonging, in this case, people do not feel the eager desire of their family and relatives for themselves, so they do not want to go home.

The sense of belonging is the intrinsic connection between an individual and the family to which he belongs, and is the delineation, identification, and maintenance of a special group and its affiliation. Therefore, it is necessary to strengthen the connection with the family and improve the sense of belonging. 2. There is a generation gap with parents

There is a psychological distance or psychological gap between the younger generation and the older generation in terms of thinking methods, values, life attitudes, interests and hobbies, and in the era of changes in values, the two sides should learn together to reduce the generation gap. 3. Going home at a loss: I don't know what I'm going to do when I go home, I can't be interested, and I have to face my various relatives, and I am at a loss in many people who are not familiar with and have different values, so I should communicate with my parents to adjust.

I hope mine can help you I wish you a happy life and all the best! <>

I was born in the country and grew up almost surrounded by the gossip of my neighbors. (It doesn't matter what kind of person you are).

Strictly speaking, it's not just me, it's all the kids around me who are my size.

What is the one trait we all have?

We all have a terrible aversion to people who like to talk, who have children and grandchildren themselves, but who always enjoy talking about other people's children.

They feel like the light of the right path. They have no culture, no knowledge, no money, and the most abundant thing is time, to put it bluntly, they may be idle!

Growing up in this environment, we were all reluctant to go home, and when we did, we didn't want to go out, and we learned to deal with all kinds of problems skillfully. I also learned to do things without leaving a "handle".

Now that I'm twenty-one, my biggest fear when I go home is still going out or going to someone's house for dinner. I've been ridiculed a lot for this, meaning I'm a nerd or something......

Those so-called adults, as elders, can talk about you when they want to talk about you, and they can talk about you as much as they want, and they never feel that this kind of behavior is the slightest bit inappropriate.

Even if it is a misunderstanding, they don't have a trace of guilt in their hearts, they just say: It's not just forget it.

Gradually, you will find that "going home" is becoming more and more a terrible thing, and that your parents, who were originally reasonable, will not listen to you saying that "I can live happily alone", but will turn into demons with maces and forced marriage. Once the home was a refuge, since he reached the marriageable age, he was still single, and his father's urging to marry began, urging him to make himself afraid to go home. As long as parents can laugh and laugh without mentioning this topic, it has become a constant quarrel, and it is impossible to communicate properly when it is only mentioned on this topic.

My parents don't understand or accept it, even if you don't like it, you can leave in the end, but I don't want to decide my life because of my understanding of you. I think that's moral kidnapping. I have my own selfishness, and I don't want to fulfill their wishes.

My own defense has always been very heavy, I have never opened it completely, and it is difficult to open it, and outsiders think that I am so cold, so it is difficult for me to have a boyfriend, and of course I also want someone to be there for me in times of difficulty, except for my parents. But it's hard for me to be tempted by myself, and I'm not so rational that I can't do it. Some people told me that it was not good to be too sensible, but it was hard for me to change this kind of skeletal structure.

I want to be confused, but I can't really make a tree at the moment.

But no one cares what you think, and you can't escape or refuse those interferences under the pretext of caring for your own good.