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In fact, this sentence said by many people is still a bit biased, because people who love each other and marriage are still inextricably linked. For today's young people, when two people get along and fall in love, they will more or less think about marriage, then they will definitely take into account the situation of both families, so marriage is a continuation of love, and it is also an important way to test the feelings of both parties.
For your current situation, the two of you have a good relationship, but the family is against it, the key is that the other party said that the only child may have a very certain impact on the future pension. Then my suggestion is that the two of you can discuss it, or the two families can find a chance to sit down and talk, after all, the future of the two young people still depends on you to face on your own, and face the many setbacks in life together.
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I think since the two of you are happy with each other, I think there must be no problem, but what your parents said is indeed possible in the future, as long as the two of you think clearly, no matter what happens in the future, you can bear and face it, then I think it's okay.
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People often say that the three-year-old generation gap, not to mention that we are a lot of years different from our parents, so the idea must be different, you must know that their ideas are always to give their children all the things they think are risky to turn away, but they don't want to let the child experience it by himself will not understand, and then if you like it, then stick to it, you must know that it is difficult for people to meet the person they like in their life, you can take the parents' blocking as a test, maybe your relationship will be stronger, If you can't stick to it, then it can only mean that you don't really like it, your parents just give you advice, the key is to look at your own, marriage is different from love, but if there is no emotional marriage, I feel that it is even more difficult to maintain, and then no one can say what will happen in the future, and I think you will regret it in the future.
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I think you and your girlfriend both like each other, your family is against the family is also for your own good, you also have to think carefully, not only the issue of pension, but also many problems in your future life, there may be some places that you can't take into account when you fall in love, it is recommended that you can get along for a while longer, and then try, in the face of problems in life, you may also have a different view of each other.
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Then your parents are too selfish. Marriage is your thing, your own happiness. If you are willing to take on the responsibility of providing for the 4 elders in the future, then you will marry her.
Parents should both have their own pensions. Why don't you want to think that there will be 4 old people to take care of your children in the future. And why don't you want to?
I want to think about the property of both parents. In the future, it will be all yours, and no one will share it.
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I feel like every age has different worries. Like an old man. They are also afraid that they will be lonely and lonely after marrying their daughters, and they are also worried that you will have to raise four old people too much, and you will have to raise children in the future.
I am a person from the past, and I can understand that the sweetness before marriage makes us feel that everything is easy to say, and only after marriage do we find that many things are powerless.
It is recommended that if you want to get married, you can promise the woman's parents to take good care of them until they are old. and the need to take action, which is needed to accompany and care for them during their lifetime.
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Both of you like each other very much, your parents don't agree that you can slowly communicate with your parents to solve it, if your parents really don't agree, you will get married yourself, and your parents will agree when you are pregnant with a child, many girls fall in love and their parents will not agree, and finally the two of you have a child together, and your parents will agree.
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This is the time when your girlfriend needs to work hard. Strengthen the belief that you will not marry and convey it to her parents, you will run more during the New Year's holidays, buy gifts and work more to earn performance, so that there will be some hope. This is based on my experience, the benevolent will see the benevolent.
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If you and your girlfriend both like each other very much, but don't break up with each other because of the opposition of your family, it will definitely be your biggest regret in this life in the future.
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A lot of likes don't last long, you have to like it very much, you have to like it responsibly, you have to have a future like, two simple and ignorant people, it's hard to get to the end.
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That's just liking it, not liking it.
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Elopement, now is the era of freedom in love.
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First of all, we can understand that in love, it is the first condition for a boy to be good to a girl, because this is also a point that makes a boy attracted to a woman. If a boy cares too much about whether his girlfriend likes him or likes to be good to her in love, and feels very entangled, it may make the woman very uncomfortable. Although it is said that liking is a mutual effort, and it also needs to have a certain return, but in love, if the boy blindly pays for a long time, and the girl does not have a little return, it will make the boy feel unbalanced.
The reasons for this psychology in boys are very simple, one is that women do not give boys a certain amount of return in love, and they do not care enough about boys in life. There is also a possibility that the boy is too full of love at the beginning, and he is also carefully managing this relationship, and the girl is also very relieved of the boy, which will weaken the boy's sense of existence in the long run. <>
If you want to distinguish effectively, the boy can choose to communicate directly with the girl, and give himself some psychological imbalance and his opinion on this matter will be asked to the girl and ask the girl's opinion. But some boys are too shy, at this time you can choose to refuse some girls' requests in life, if the girl's reaction is too intense, the boy needs to consider whether the girl's idea is on a parallel line with himself. Immediately the best relationship in a relationship is evenly matched, and long-term solo giving, both men and women will feel very tired.
If the prince teaches gains and losses in love, he will eventually let himself go to a dead end, and he will not have enough security in the face for a long time.
It can also make people feel very depressed. Whether it is a relationship between a couple or a friend, it takes the dedication of both parties to manage the relationship better, and the whole world is good to others, and it is never a long-term road to make compromises. It is recommended that if a boy has such thoughts in a relationship, it means that he has not received enough security and love.
Boys also need to be loved in love, and everyone has the right to choose to love and be loved.
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You can tell by the other person's attitude towards you, if the other person just likes you to be good to her, then when you treat the other person badly, the other person will treat you in the same way, and the other person will lose his temper with you. If the other person really likes you, it will not change because of your attitude towards the other person.
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One day you can talk to your girlfriend about some of your work problems and salary problems, and see how she reacts, whether she cares about your physical condition or cares about you, and can't meet some of her requirements.
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You can confess to your girlfriend, you can propose to your girlfriend, and if she agrees to you, it means that she loves you.
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