The more you seem to understand, the more you don t know what it means to be farther and farther awa

That is, you don't know him at all.

You feel like you've mastered it, but it's actually the opposite of what you want without really understanding the essence of it, and it can even make it very different from what you want.

Looking at my crush or confidant from afar, I can't approach or accompany me for some reason, but I'm still looking forward to something inside. Even if others don't understand, thinking that this is naïve and vulgar, but this kind of feeling is precious to myself, I am not afraid of the passage of time, because I know that you have always been there, I only care about you, after all, it is difficult to find a confidant.

I hope I'm right, I'm not right, and I hope it's a good vision.

1. If there's something you need to do tomorrow, it's best to start now. —Benjamin Franklin 2 We want to add something to our lives as much as we can, not ask for anything from it. 3. What is in our desires, we are quick to believe.

Chaucer 4, going to bed early and waking up early makes a person healthy, rich and intelligent. —Benjamin Franklin 5, All for One, One for All. - Alexandre Dumas.

6. I don't remember the history of the past, but I am committed to the dream of the future. —Jefferson 7, The hour before dawn is the darkest. —Fuller.

8. The bystander is clear. —Smilley.

9. Life without a goal is like sailing without a compass. - Ruskin 10, time is money. —Benjamin Franklin.

1, "Yellow Crane Tower to Meng Haoran's Guangling".

Author] Li Bai [Dynasty] Tang.

The old man left the Yellow Crane Tower in the west, and the fireworks went down to Yangzhou in March.

The lonely sail is far away and the blue sky is endless, and only the Yangtze River skyline can be seen.

Vernacular translation: Old friends waved to me frequently, bid farewell to the Yellow Crane Tower, and traveled to Yangzhou in March when catkins were like smoke and flowers.

The shadow of the friend's lonely boat sailed away gradually, disappearing at the end of the blue sky, only seeing a line of the Yangtze River, rushing towards the distant sky.

2, "Weicheng Qu Sends Yuan Er Envoy Anxi".

Author] Wang Wei [Dynasty] Tang.

Weicheng is light and dusty towards the rain, and the guest house is green and willow-colored.

Persuade you to have a glass of wine, and there is no reason to go out of Yangguan in the west.

Vernacular translation: The light rain in the early morning moistened the dust on the ground of Weicheng, the air was fresh, and the hostel was even more verdant.

I sincerely advise my friend to have another glass of wine, and it will be difficult to meet old relatives when I go west out of Yangguan.

3, "Furong House Sends Xin Gradually".

Author] Wang Changling 【Dynasty】Tang.

The cold rain and the river entered Wu at night, and Pingming sent the guests to Chushan Lonely.

Luoyang relatives and friends asked each other, and a piece of ice was in the jade pot.

Vernacular translation: The misty smoke and rain sprinkled all over Wudi and Jiangtian overnight; Send you away in the morning, and be lonely and sorrowful to Chushan!

Friends, if relatives and friends in Luoyang ask about me; Let's just say that I am still the Ice Heart Jade Pot, stick to my faith!

4, "Gift to Wang Lun".

Author] Li Bai [Dynasty] Tang.

Li Bai was about to go on a boat, and suddenly heard the sound of singing on the shore.

The Peach Blossom Lake is thousands of feet deep, not as deep as Wang Lun to send me love.

Vernacular translation: I was on a small boat and was about to untie the cable and set off, when I suddenly heard the melodious sound of singing from the shore.

Look at the peach blossom pool water, even though it is thousands of feet deep, how can it be as deep as Wang Lun's love for me.

5, "Send Du Shaofu to Shuzhou".

Author] Wang Bo [Dynasty] Tang.

The city is supplemented by three Qin, and the wind and smoke look at Wujin.

Parting with the king, the same is a eunuch.

There is a confidant in the sea, and the end of the world is like a neighbor.

Inaction is on the wrong path, and the children are stained with scarves.

Vernacular translation: majestic Chang'an, the land of Sanqin; Sichuan is slim, but it is far away.

You and I have a similar fate, running around and far from home. As long as there are close friends, there is no distance within the four seas.

Even at the ends of the earth, it feels like a neighbor.

Breaking up at the fork in the road, I really don't need to have children and daughters, and tears are sprinkled with clothes.

Friend, you're leaving today.

You've dried this glass of wine.

The old man left the Yellow Crane Tower in the west, and the fireworks went down to Yangzhou in March. Lonely sail far shadow blue sky Mo Chou has no confidant on the road ahead, no one in the world knows you!

From one of Gao Shi's "Don't Dong Da Two Songs":

Thousands of miles of yellow clouds and daylight, the north wind blows geese and snow.

Don't worry about the road ahead without knowing yourself, who in the world doesn't know you?

In our interpersonal interactions, we follow the following nine general principles.

1) Be honest with others and don't be too sophisticated. "Sincerity"It is the foundation of interpersonal communication, and it has always been admired by people since ancient times"Sincerity"words, will be able to young and old, so as to win sincere returns. On the contrary, the world is sophisticated and tactful, and it is impossible to get the sincerity of the other party.

2) Be true to your word and don't make promises lightly. If we promise to do something for our friends, we should fulfill our promises. If a person does not keep his word, in the end not only will he not get real friendship, but he will also betray his relatives and make himself a loner.

3) Keep a moderate distance and don't get too close. Interpersonal relationships are originally psychological relationships between people, which can also be called psychological distance. Approaching each other indiscriminately will inevitably cause unhappiness in the end, and it is better to keep a moderate distance from each other.

4) Be self-respecting and self-loving, and don't be keen on accepting gifts from others. It is human nature for very good friends to sincerely give each other some small gifts to connect feelings and enhance friendship. However, if there is only one side of the friendship or people who do not have a deep relationship, it is best to decline in person, especially gifts between people of the opposite sex, the recipient needs to be sober-minded and understand the intentions of the other party.

5) Treat people equally and not be domineering. In the process of interacting with others, remember that each other is equal in personality, and the beneficiaries of the interaction are both parties, and you must treat others equally, not domineering, and often regard yourself as a benefactor, savior or boss.

6) Be humble and listen to different opinions, and don't be a good teacher. Listen humbly to the advice of true friends, and don't shy away from medical treatment. On the premise of fully respecting the personality of the other party, you can also put forward your own opinions for their reference, so as not to be a good teacher and make others confused.

7) Start well and finish well, and don't think differently. There are times when friends are unhappy due to misunderstandings, so at this time, you should put yourself in the other person's shoes and consider more, even if the fault lies with the other party, you should be open-minded and forgive their mistakes.

8) Don't be arrogant, don't see the wind and rudder. True friendships often stand the test of time. For everyone, when their status and status change step by step, they should especially remember not to give the impression of an old friend who changes with a broad face.

9) Be lenient and don't be harsh. Being strict with others and lenient with oneself is a double standard that runs counter to the principle of fairness, and it will only lead to resentment by the other party. On the contrary, if we can be strict with ourselves, lenient with others, not indulge ourselves, and not be demanding of others, we will be able to win the respect of others.

Communicate with others with a sincere heart, compare hearts to hearts, as long as he (she) is not a cold-blooded animal, you should be able to win a friendly relationship.

Here are nine things that affect relationships, and you can see what to do by looking at them.

In the same unit or in the same office, it is very important to have a good relationship with colleagues. If you have a good relationship, you will feel comfortable, which is not only conducive to doing a good job, but also conducive to your physical and mental health. If the relationship is not harmonious, or even a little tense, then it is not tasteless.

In addition to the contradictions and direct conflicts of interest on major issues, the reason for the lack of harmony between colleagues is also a reason.

The relationship is not as tight as possible, and it is a reasonable match to have far and near.

Treat everyone around you with a "normal heart".

It's good to take the initiative to reach out to people, and you'll be hungry.

First of all, be confident. Confident people are comfortable on their own, and others are comfortable looking at them. People who are not confident are nervous themselves, and others are not at ease, and they will not make a good first impression of each other.

This is a very normal phenomenon in life and everyone encounters it.

Perhaps this is what it means to have no part.

A nice guy showed you love, and you politely declined, right?

Hahaha good hat, you are very good but we are not suitable,,, what a classic sentence.

The meaning of this verse is that since you were separated, you don't know where you have been. You went farther and farther, and at last you were cut off. This is a fragment of two poems, from the Song Dynasty writer Ouyang Xiu's lyrics "Yulou Chun, Farewell Hou does not know the distance of the king", the original text of the full text is as follows:

Don't know how far and near you are. How desolate and boring it is. Gradually drifting away and gradually without books, the water is wide and the fish sink where to ask.

In the middle of the night, the wind knocks on the autumn rhyme. Wanye Qiansheng is hate. Therefore, the single pillow is found in the dream, and the dream is not a lamp and an ember.

Vernacular Interpretation: Since the separation, I don't know where you have been? The eyes and hearts are desolate and depressed, giving birth to endless sorrows!

You went farther and farther, and at last you were cut off. How wide is the river, and the fish swim deep at the bottom, where can I ask for your news?

Last night, the strong wind blew the bamboo forest everywhere, conveying the rhythm of late autumn, and the sound of each leaf seemed to tell of resentment. I have the heart to recline on a single pillow, hoping to meet you in my dream, but unfortunately the dream can't be done, and the wick is helpless, and it burns into ashes in the autumn wind.

In ancient times, letters were referred to as epistles. This sentence is to say: Since I separated from you, I didn't know that you were in **, and you went farther and farther away and gradually lost your voice.