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Although not all girls will have a lower IQ because of love, the vast majority of girls are indeed prone to this mistake.
Papi-chan's complaints have always been very sharp, and she likes to criticize through humorous language. It's also easier to accept. As for Papi's own marriage model, I also think it's very good, she has her own ideas, and she is not a girl who is easy to get carried away in love in marriage, smart girls can always get the most love and respect, isn't it?
Most of the girls in life are not as smart as Papi when they are in love, sheThey are too blind, too good at moving themselves. Therefore, people will always complain that most girls are very easy to be "blind" when they are in love. In fact, it is not the eyes that blind them, but the mind.
No matter what kind of person the other person is, they are always constantly hypnotizing themselves and immersing themselves in what they think is a happy relationship. They are blind. Because they are afraid of losing this atmosphere of love that they have created.
Of course, it is undeniable that love is easy to blind, and both men and women are prone to make this mistake. But it's just that girls are more likely to immerse themselves in love than boys.
True and beautiful love should be mutually respectful, everyone is an independent individual, but when combined, each other should be independent and united.
It is recommended that girls when they are in love, if they really find that they are in love, they feel uncomfortableThen don't blindly hypnotize yourself and force yourself to continue to love. You should think about why this problem occurs in love, whether there is a possibility of repairing it, and whether the other party is worthy of love. After thinking clearly, let's fall in love again.
"Blindness" is not a good thing, don't end up being hurt and incomplete. Love is beautiful, it is positive, and it is to promote people's upward movement. It is definitely not for a person to be blind and blind, and to work hard to find out.
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I think so, only a very small part of people can keep a clear head in love.
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A lot of the time it's like this, and when you meet a guy you like, it will go down.
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In my opinion, people who are in love will definitely decline in both IQ and EQ.
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Not everyone who passes by will know each other, and not everyone who knows will be worried. At least we didn't miss the ...... in this life, in that place, when we turned aroundEven if you said I was in the wrong time......Maybe we have all forgotten ourselves and experienced that sincere love. It's just that there is a relationship that can no longer continue, there is a person who can no longer snuggle up to each other, there is a voice that can no longer ring in the ears, and there is a pair of hands that can no longer hold the temperature and comfort of the palms.
Not every love has beautiful memories, and not every memory is so unforgettable. Since we can't grow old together, let me bless you here. Because you are a concern that I will never be able to part with in this life.
It's just that no amount of thoughts and worries can be exchanged for the days when I had you. It turns out that it is not easy to love you as it is to give up on you. Although you are vague about the questions I have asked, I still give the most sincere heart.
If you really love me, then I am happy. Even if I can't go to the end of the world with you, my heart is still worried about you. I will pray and bless you forever, may you be happy --- safe forever When you are unhappy, I want to shed tears with you.
When you're unhappy, I want to be your pistachio. When you're lonely, I want to talk to you. When you're sad, I'm just as depressed as you are.
When you dream of me, that's when I miss you again. I don't want you to give me too much, I don't want any promises from you, and I don't want any worries from you. I don't want you to remember me deeply, I don't want you to remember everything we used to do.
I just want you to think of me occasionally, occasionally think of the person who once loved you so deeply, the person who once gave you tenderness with a smile--- gave you a complete heart. Remember! Your world, I once really came to ......
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What is happiness? In fact, there is no absolute answer to happiness, the key lies in your attitude towards life. Only those who are good at grasping happiness know what happiness is.
I always thought that it was very difficult to feel happiness, and that was a state of light. After the passage of time, I realized that happiness is actually very simple, as long as the soul is satisfied and comforted, it is happiness. A healthy life is a great happiness!
What is happiness? It's actually quite simple. A cup of fresh water and a cup of tea can taste the taste of happiness; A flower, a green leaf, can often bring a breath of happiness; A humble room, a book, you can enjoy the scenery of happiness.
Happiness is not only in material abundance, happiness is also in the pursuit of spirit and spiritual enrichment, happiness is a feeling, a consciousness, is the comfort of the soft breeze, is the fragrance of roses blooming, is the serenade from the lake from afar. To experience happiness, we must have a pure heart, we must know how to appreciate nature, we must be willing to be indifferent, we must have the grace of not being frightened, and we must have the bearing of not being shocked, and we will always bring fame and flowers to famous people, but material happiness is often valued by others, more than spiritual happiness. In this world, some people drink Moutai and are excellent, but some people drink boiled water and are happy.
Poor couples are often able to get along with each other, but couples from rich and noble families often complain about their spouses. Happiness is often inseparable from good health and good mood, and happiness is often inseparable from the necessary material life guarantees, but limited to material happiness is never happiness in the real sense. Happiness is the song of the exile, and only a bosom friend can understand the meaning.
Happiness is the enrichment of the spirit, the tranquility of the soul, the openness of the soul, and secondly, the comfort of material life.
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The decline in IQ actually means that their thoughts are easily swayed by feelings, that is, emotional things are greater than rational, people are easy to do things when they are in love, they are easy to be impulsive, do not care about the consequences, and often do things that they regret and are not satisfied with, in fact, this is also a kind of beauty of love, it is really such innocence, we feel that kind of impulse is so cute and precious.
Girls who fall in love don't have a lower intelligence, and sometimes they rise. It's up to you to manage, judge and calm down.
To put it bluntly, people in love will take the initiative to abandon each other's shortcomings and only look at their strengths due to mutual attraction, and it seems as if their intelligence has declined, but in fact intelligence will not decline. The point is that the ability to perceive and make analytical judgments has declined, which in turn looks like a decline in intelligence.
But sweet love can improve intelligence, don't believe you can take a look, it was difficult to get over the hurdle before, but now it will be easy for two people to work together.
However, we cannot blindly accommodate and trust each other, and we must still have the necessary vigilance. Girls must be careful not to be deceived by love.
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Love will make girls get carried away, don't lose your way because of a momentary favor!
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It should be, because a girl is in love, she will put a lot of thought on him, and many problems will only revolve around him, which will make people feel stupid, and girls also love fantasy and unrealistic things.
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It shouldn't go down, I think it's going to get smarter and smarter, I'm just because it's a matter of two people, not you, so I'll think more.
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I don't think so. The reason why there is such a saying is because once a girl falls in love, she can't extricate herself and can do anything!
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This is not necessarily, the intelligence of a girl who is in love will decline because you have a sense of happiness, and if you have a sense of happiness, you will secrete dopamine, and the more dopamine, the lower your intelligence.
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Not necessarily, there are such people around me, on the contrary, she feels that she is afraid that her grades will be very poor after falling in love, so she works hard, and now she is also in the top ten in the class, and now she is learning to fall in love, but I think I should still focus on studying, this is just my personal opinion, different people will have different opinions.
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Learning has nothing to do with others. If it's a good love, it will push you to work hard to improve yourself, and if it's bad, it will make you lost.
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No, that's for teasing people,。。 However, girls in love are sometimes impulsive.
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Probably not, girls will be more innocent in love, but their intelligence will not decline.
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After that, it's just that the mind is spent on it, and there is no time to take care of other things, which is not a decline in intelligence.
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Intelligence is so bad that it doesn't decline, but it just spends too much energy on love, so it can't deal with other things.
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In terms of personality, some people can keep their sanity even if they are in love; However, in most cases, girls are the party who pays the most in love, and it is inevitable that they will be blind
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Well, it's really going to go down. Because the sweet words of boys make you intellectually down.
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It's just that people who are in a relationship don't observe enough physical objects around them, which can cause them to be unresponsive. There is no such thing as being stupid.
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Of course not, as much as Marie Curie loved her husband and inherited his career after his death, was she also a two-time Nobel Prize!!
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Intelligence will not decline, but if you spend all your time on love, you will feel that your intelligence has declined, and you can't learn what you want to learn, as long as you study hard and put down love, then your intelligence is still just.
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Some judgment will be reduced, but it can stimulate one's positive energy, and the ability and speed of integration into society will be greatly improved, and the overall IQ will increase.
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Some are like this, because most girls are more emotional, and they only believe in the good feeling when they are together, and they don't think too much about anything else.
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It's just that the way of thinking has changed.
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Yes, because there is a shih hat in the eyes of the lover.
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Because if you love someone, you will think of them in everything.
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Because women in love will be confused by their minds.
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It's because she doesn't want to be in love every day except how romantic she wants.
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No, that's because men are too cunning.
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It's not that our IQ has become lower, but sometimes we are willing to give, we don't want to care, and we prefer to believe that what we have is good.
I don't know what other people are like, but I and my female friends around me are like this, from the beginning when we identify a person, we are willing to believe every word he says, and we are willing to give everything we have for him, and even sometimes we know that these things cannot be done, and we will erase the results from our minds for him, and fight for it, all because of him, all out of love.
I met my husband in 2013, we got married in 2015, we had a baby in 2016, and now it is the autumn of 2017, in four years, I have changed from a simple girl who doesn't know anything to an all-round mother now, the bitterness and sweat, I don't know, I just don't want my husband to be so tired, for him, I am willing to give up the life of a princess and become a woman. I am willing to have children for him, do housework, and change myself. This is not only the learning of skills, the improvement of skills, but also the need for psychological training, I have understood these pains from the beginning, but I also understand that I cannot be a child forever.
Not only me, but also my friend, my friend is now married again, it is May Day this year, before getting married, I asked him "Have you thought about it, a person like him, if he can be like this forever, it is also good, I am afraid that he will have money in the future, such a sleek person, can you live, you are so simple, he is lying to you, you may not be able to understand", and she said "He is very good to me now, if he lied to me, I would rather he lie to me for a lifetime, anyway, I can't see it, isn't this very good". Yes, he understands, he knows the dangers lurking in this marriage, but he prefers to pretend that he doesn't know anything, not thinking about what the future holds, just knowing that he is good to her now, and that is enough.
There are many such examples in our lives, we give up our principles for each other, only hope to be with him, only hope that he can live better, just like everyone says "one pregnancy is stupid for three years", just as a mother leaves all her eyes to the child, and no longer has extra energy left for herself or even the family, which is maternal love.
Similarly, when we are in love, all our eyes are on each other, so we will look silly all day long, clean up each other well, and have no time to dress up; prepared everything for him, went out on a rainy day by himself but did not remember to bring an umbrella; It's as hard as getting off work, we are willing to go down to the kitchen to "wash our hands and make soup", all these stupid things, just because I want to, this is love.
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Indeed, when they are in love, women's IQ is relatively low, and they often do things completely by feeling, and they are not particularly rational.
That's his character, don't think about it, his character is like that, if you are guessing, it is estimated that you will break up without dividing, you love him to understand what kind of person he is, some people like the feeling of meeting, because he only feels happy when he meets, he thinks that he is only happy when he calls, he just has nothing to do, so it is a waste of time and money, more than accounting, or meeting is affordable, maybe you don't understand why he has such thoughts, you will think what age is now, Doesn't it have to meet to be affordable? But people are sometimes like this, before we didn't have a mobile phone, we can only increase feelings through this way of meeting, but now we all have mobile phones, but some people still like the previous way of meeting, they don't like to call you very much, and rarely meet, but they are on your heart, it's just that time does not allow them to meet often, and when you have time, when you are meeting, he is still happy to have fun with you, but everyone's way of expressing it is different, So don't guess, everyone's love style is different, don't think that he doesn't like you like this, it's just that he likes to meet to increase the relationship between you. If you don't like his way of falling in love, you can put what you want forward and see how he explains, because if you don't communicate, some things are difficult to solve, I have met this kind of person before, and I had the same cranky thoughts as you at that time, and later told him, he said that he liked the feeling of meeting, and he didn't feel it when he texted **, so he didn't want to text **, and then I thought maybe I was too worried, hehe I wish you good luck.
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