I broke up with my boyfriend but still liked him

Updated on psychology 2024-04-09
26 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    In fact, I am the same as you, I also regret it, because I found out that he was really good to me, and now I am good friends with him, and I also know that he loves his current girlfriend very much, so I bless him, because I think that his happiness is my greatest happiness, since I lost him first, I will do my best to make him happy Don't disturb his peaceful life now, retreat to the position of good friends, you may get along better! Even if you cry for him, don't back down and tell yourself that you love him!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    You can't treat love half-heartedly.

    Since it was you who proposed to break up.

    It means you've figured it out.

    And how can you regret it afterwards?

    It's unfair to him.

    Be with him if you like.

    If you don't like it, break up with him.

    Now I like him again and want to be with him.

    Actually, when you're in love.

    Many people will want to separate after talking for a long time.

    You just have to separate from him for a while.

    It's not a complete breakup.

    This leaves room to turn.

    It doesn't have to be so painful now.

    So. Now that I have begun to regret it.

    He also has another girlfriend.

    Just forget about him.

    If you want to blame, you can only blame yourself for the decision at the beginning.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is no such thing as the best, nor is there the most beautiful, and there is no need to look for what has been lost in the past. You forget the past, and perhaps you will find a new one for you better. If he still has you in his heart, you can still boldly confess to him, anyway, he is not married yet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    There is no regret medicine in the world, if you really love him, you will silently wish him happiness. You've broken up, and he's got a girlfriend again, so soon. You have to think about whether he really loves you.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Either you forget him, or you think it is a memory of your old age;

    Either you use your sincerity to influence your boyfriend, prove that you love him, and make him change his mind!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Do you think you have a chance to get back together? If not, you should grasp what you have now, and throw away the present when you still want to know what to do, and then you will be forever immersed in frustration.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Forget the past and cherish what you have now

    Don't wait until you lose it again to know that you regret it, it's too late then

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's simple, find someone better than him

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    First of all, in terms of time, you need to see how long the time span is to resolve your conflict, and whether it is acceptable to you?

    For example, I met a counselor before, she complained that her boyfriend was too selfish and couldn't take care of people, didn't care about ** when he had a cold, was 2 hours late for a date and didn't have ** notice, leaving her alone in the restaurant to wait. If you ask it carefully, this man's previous relationship with his ex-girlfriends is also the same situation. And the reason why he is "indifferent" and "inconsiderate" is that he himself has been a person who has been taken care of and spoiled by his parents and siblings since he was a child, so in his consciousness, everyone should accommodate him and take care of him, but whenever he is pressured, or asked to take the initiative to take any responsibility, he will feel disgusted and repulsed.

    In counseling, the female counselor is concerned about the man's thoughtfulness, but the man's ego and indifference have been cultivated for decades, and if you want to change, it is difficult to lead by guidance alone, and it takes a lot of time and energy, and these costs are not wasted by the female counselor.

    So, there are some conflicts that need to be resolved for more time than you can afford. When feelings become a bottomless pit and expendable of emotions, then there is no need for it to be maintained.

    Secondly, in terms of conditions, you need to know whether you and the other party have the ability to resolve conflicts.

    If the other person is a mania, do you have enough emotions and patience to lead them to build a sense of security and trust in the relationship? If the other person is a ludus, can you tolerate the sometimes inattentive relationship with him, and be willing to continue to discover the joy of life and the charm of each other with him? You must know that not everyone can withstand negative energy, and not everyone can accept some imperfections of human nature, maybe there are some points in him that you can't accept, and there may be something in you that you are unwilling to change, and you can't bear it, so before getting back together, you need to think about whether the two people have the ability to solve problems.

    In addition to this, the conditions for resolving the conflict also include material, family, personal capacity, and so on, depending on the type of conflict. If there are important conditions that you do not have, or which, as mentioned in the example above, require costs that are beyond the scope of your affordability, then the conflict between you is not resolvable.

    In the end, the relationship can't just be maintained by the two lovers, because liking this thing is too "short" and too fragile. If you want to go on happily with each other, then it depends on whether both parties have the ability to take care of this like.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    I'm going to see the reason why two people broke up, if it's a problem that can be adjusted, then continue to be together, if it's impossible to overcome it, then together, even if it's love, it's useless, because there should be contradictions, there will still be contradictions that shouldn't be there in the future, in fact, you don't want to face it, he will also exist, so it still depends on why you can't be together if you love each other?

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    After breaking up with your boyfriend, but both of you still like each other, you can ask for a compound belt to like the situation, and then ask for a reunion is very successful, so you can go together again.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Congruent. After all, you've been through a while. The time was well thought out.

    They still love each other. OK. Congruent.

    I hope you will be even more in the future.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Is there something inappropriate? What contradictions are there? If the disagreement can't be resolved, then break up, let time come**, if there is no problem, just a small matter and a small contradiction, if you are a boy, you take the initiative to get back together, boys take the initiative, girls don't be reserved all the time, it's not a problem to get back together!

    If the boy doesn't take the initiative, then you have to believe that he doesn't love you so much, you learn to give up!

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Since both of you like each other, the best way is for the two of you to continue to get back together. In fact, such a separation leaves each other with suffering, and there is no fun.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    When two people are together, cherish it and learn to be tolerant and understanding. The fate is over, so let's get together and disperse.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Active communication, accurate expression of one's own ideas, communication is the best way to deal with problems.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    So could you please analyze and analyze the reason for your sharing? Is it possible to reconcile this reason? It is inevitable that there will be some friction in life between two loving people, and if you understand each other, it will pass.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    I feel. If two people are possible, try to talk a little bit about their hearts, and don't blindly look in their own direction.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I broke up with my boyfriend, but both of them still liked each other. Then let it be.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    My boyfriend doesn't love me very much, should I choose to break up at this time?

    1. If my boyfriend doesn't love me at all, I will choose to break up with him.

    Falling in love is based on loving each other, marriage is based on this kind of love, if there is no other party in the heart, it is difficult to have true love, if there is no love, it is difficult to have a happy marriage. Therefore, if my boyfriend does not have me in his heart, and he is always lukewarm in his daily life, then, I will choose to break up, I don't think this relationship will last long, there is no need to waste too much time in this fruitless relationship, breaking up early can give me more time to find true love.

    2. If you don't love each other, you should say it as soon as possible.

    Falling in love requires two people to be happy with each other, if they have no feelings with each other, then it proves that two people are not suitable for being together, and they are not suitable for marriage, at this time they should seriously consider whether they should propose to the other party to break up, after all, solve this problem early, you can free yourself as soon as possible, and you will give each other a chance earlier, do not love each other, but do not say it, it is a kind of irresponsible performance of feelings, even if you break up in the future, it will not leave a good impression on each other, It can also damage your own image.

    3. If the other party doesn't love him, there is no need to dwell on him.

    Some people always hope that their actions can impress the other person, so that the boyfriend who already dislikes them will like them again, in fact, in many cases, this is in vain. Love is the need to like each other from the heart, and few people can decide their love by being moved. Moreover, even if you marry someone who doesn't love you, in the future married life.

    , will also make yourself very tired, such days will not make you feel better, rather than this, why not let go early, to find someone who likes you and you like?

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    You can consider breaking up, the relationship between two people is weakened and they still want to be together, each other will feel very tired, it will be very painful, the long pain is better than the short pain, it is better to leave the best side of yourself to each other.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    should break up, the other party doesn't like themselves at all, and it's also a special scumbag psychology, so you should stay away from each other.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You're welcome. Because he doesn't love you very much, then he won't take some of your interests into account when doing something.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    You can perhaps consider separation, two people's emotions are weakened and they still have to be along the way, each other will feel very tired, it will be very painful, long pain is better than short pain, it is better to leave the best side of yourself to each other.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Summary. Good afternoon<>

    The teacher thinks that there are the following reasons, the first is that he did like his girlfriend at the beginning, but after a period of getting along, there may be many places that do not run in well, and find that they are not suitable for each other, so he chooses to break up, and another reason may be that the two people often quarrel or have conflicts, and after a long time, he does not feel as he imagined, so he chooses to break up.

    What is the reason why the boyfriend wants to break up when he likes his girlfriend.

    Hello, I am asking the starting point of the cooperative teacher, who is good at answering questions in marriage, love, emotion, etc., and has been engaged in the industry for two years now, and I am very happy to serve you

    Good afternoon<>

    The teacher thinks that there are the following reasons, the first is that he did like his girlfriend at the beginning, but after a period of getting along, there may be many places that do not run in well, and find that they are not suitable for each other, so he chooses to break up, and another reason may be that the two people often quarrel or have conflicts, and after a long time, he does not feel as he imagined, so he chooses to break up.

    The teacher thinks that there are generally several reasons for the above, the first is that I have not known each other for a long time, I don't know everything completely, I don't have a good run-in, or I often quarrel together, and I am upset about the quarrel, and then I propose to break up.

    How long have you known each other?Is it convenient to talk to the teacher?It is convenient for the teacher to analyze for you in more detail.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    There are two possibilities: he doesn't like you, so you almost stop thinking about it and stay away from him.

    Look at your reaction and judge how important he is to you by your reaction.

    For the second point, conspiracy theories can also be divided into two types.

    Knowing that you value him very much, he plucks up the courage to confess to you, but since the guy can say that he slept with other girls, then he usually doesn't have the courage to say it, so the second possibility is greater, knowing that you value him very much, fishing you, treating you as a substitute or xx

    I know that you don't value him and don't lick like before, but since you asked this question, it means that the assumption of licking is not valid. In other words, there may be a little regret, regretting that there is one less fish pond

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