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It has to do with your childhood. What happens to children between the ages of 0 and 6 will directly affect their future lives and is the time for personality formation. There are many things that are just forgotten consciously, but are deeply seared into the subconscious.
Children are narcissistic because they were weak when they were young, and everything could only be seen by what their parents or others did for you. So what is the attitude of your parents towards you is actually a manifestation of your parents' own love, and the child's attitude towards your parents will judge me as a good child, so my parents love me. Or my parents are not good enough for me because I am a bad child.
As children grow older, they become more capable than they used to be. Slowly, you will be able to distinguish between right and wrong, and know that your parents' actions are right and wrong. The child's mind is also divided into two kinds, one is to be able to recognize more healthily what the parents' behavior is right and what is not good enough, but basically they are a good or not good enough.
When there is a defect in the other kind of psychology, you will not know how to distinguish between them, and you will still think that all this is because you are doing well or badly. When you grow up, this relationship pattern will be projected onto the people around you, and this is when your current psychological condition will be formed.
Only believe that your parents really love yourself, not because you do well or badly. And just because you're their favorite child, slowly change.
From the perspective of psychology, psychological problems are achieved step by step from understanding-acceptance-change.
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Oh, mm, I'm from your age, too.
I believe that every cute and confident girl is the most beautiful!
There's nothing wrong with the idea that you crave to be liked.
You can try another method that I suggested.
and they are as if they were separated. Got it?
So they can't catch you. That's why they'll be interested in you, the mysterious girl! Be neither humble nor arrogant. I'm sure there will be more and more boys or girls making friends with you!
I wish you happiness and happiness. mm
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Don't care what others think of you, tell yourself that no matter what, there is someone who will always be with you, that is, yourself, and you will not be alone with yourself! Make friends, only make true friends who are worth making! Keep yourself up and be yourself!
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I've been like this too.
Be confident, confident girls are the most beautiful and likable.
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Actually, it's not good, in order to make people like it, and do what they like, which is easy-going at best, and hypocritical at worst, you don't have to be so hard to suppress yourself, just be yourself.
In a sentence that I just saw, it is: I am not an RMB, how can I make everyone like it?
If you love someone to the point of no dignity, that is also the end of the love between you.
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Don't grieve yourself in order to please others.
Be true to yourself.
Remember! You don't live for someone else.
You're for yourself.
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Why do we always have to live in the eyes of others?
This will be tiring and will lose yourself.
Be confident, you have something to be proud of!
Remember, be your truest self!
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en There will be such people.
Yes, even if it's only 1.
Not even yet.
It's okay to know.
God must have created your circle.
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I'm scared, I'm scared, I'm scared
Some people say I'm cute
Somebody would scold me
I hope you all enjoy it
Now I don't pay any attention to what they say
Live your own ]
But it got bad
Really scared
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