Now I m in a very difficult relationship

If you are sincere, you have to work hard to solve the problem between you, I think she is afraid to tell the family that it is possible that you do not meet the standards of her family, his boyfriend is not the key, the key is that his family approves of her boyfriend, and the problem between you is also your age, women can't afford to gamble, and they can't afford to lose. If you really love it, you will strive for it and be responsible; If you can't, her right choice, if not the current one, won't be you. Good luck and good work!

First of all, as the saying goes, there is a gap between three years and a generation - you and your girlfriend are eight years apart, maybe now you feel very harmonious, but time is the real thing that can test the feelings of two people, people are not grass and trees, who can be ruthless. To put it mildly, do you think that woman doesn't care about his inherent boyfriend at all? Even if she wants to be with you but she insists on it or is filial piety first, you should forget about this beautiful and short relationship time, and find your true happiness and love, the world is so big, you may not be here. You know.

Love is each other's, right, she loves you, maybe you're really tired, and you'll be happier with each other after separation, maybe you're too tired After separation, you find that you still love each other If that woman really likes you, no matter what difficulties there are, she will help you eliminate them, and she can only say that she doesn't love you, she's just enjoying the fun of being a pursuer, and remember, there's no love that can't be forgotten.

Hey, you're too young to be involved in the world, why can't boys calm down when dealing with feelings? Think about it, it's impossible to find a simple woman now, kind? Then if you meet me, you will also think that I am kind and fall in love with me, boy, don't embarrass yourself, you can't hurt others, let go when you should let go, and hold on when you should hurry, understand, only 21 years old, people only have a good age of 21 years old, you should be looking for a girl about 20 years old now, understand?

But a simple and beautiful love, don't let yourself frown and sigh when you look back!

Are you sure you really like her? Do you all know each other and can you be sure that you are walking together? Are you sure it's not her feeling fresh or otherwise curious to be with you. You have a lot of things to think about, and she's actually got a lot to think about, she's 28 and you're only 21

There is a distance between age! You have to carefully consider these external factors, if you can grow old, then you should not give up, bravely face instead of running away!

His father's worries are not groundless, please look forward to it, 20 years later, when you are 41 years old and have a small career achievement, she will already be 48 years old, almost 50 people, can you calmly accept the reality at that time, please ...... to your heart responsiblyIn this way, let's get the answer and communicate with her!

Do you have marital property after you get married? If there is, if she wants to divide it, you can ask for the bride price and dowry back, but the living expenses cannot be returned. If you really don't have feelings, what's the point of fighting for these? What's the problem.

1.Being able to talk to you doesn't mean having a relationship with you.

2.Even if you date and get married, you will face her dad's face.

3.You may be her way of relieving stress, you are so different in age from her, does your family agree?

It's up to her, and I hope you can give her time.

Are you sure you like her? Is it possible that both of you just have a crush on each other?

In our lives, everyone's expectations for love are different, some people are not as eager for love as before after the hurt of love, and some people especially hope that they can have a sweet love. Love is like sand in the palm of your hand, the tighter you hold it, the faster you will find it draining, everyone's feelings are not smooth sailing, the past is the scenery, and what is left is the person who loves you. So now let's look at such a question, how do you deal with the difficulties encountered on the road of love?

When encountering difficulties on the road of love, at this time, we must learn to empathize, learn to understand each other, and give each other a little time to be quiet. <>

One. Learn to empathize.

In a relationship, most girls like to be unreasonable, sometimes according to their own suspicions to doubt their boyfriends, and even say some ugly things to each other, I think many times a relationship lacks trust in each other, it is easy to have contradictions, at this time we must learn to empathize, more from the other party's point of view to think about the problem, you will find that many problems are created by us, empathy, more from the other party's point of view. And we have to learn to understand each other, sometimes we are tired from work, and we have to quarrel with each other after we come back, this kind of life makes people feel very tired when you think about it. <>

Two. Give the other person time to be still.

In a relationship, there will definitely be a lot of contradictions, and no one's relationship is smooth sailing, so when you quarrel, you can give the other party time to be quiet and let the other party think about it, why is there such a problem? Give each other a little time, and you will find that the contradictions between the two people will be solved, and similar situations will rarely happen in the future, so it will make people feel very comfortable together. It is not easy to meet someone who loves you, you must cherish the person around you, instead of trying to doubt the other person.

The above is just a personal opinion, so what do you think about this matter?

I usually deal with it head-on, sit down with my partner and discuss it, and make some changes between both parties.

I will be strong to face all the problems, and I will also make these problems no longer a hindrance to my love and make them a stepping stone, but I also hope that my other half can be in the same boat with me.

In the face of difficulties encountered on the road of love, I will actively communicate with each other to seek solutions to problems, and two people will seek common ground while reserving differences in such problems.

It is useless, a woman is very precious to youth. Long-distance relationships don't last.

If you really love each other, you must be together, you can go to him or let him come to you.

I don't have a good impression of the love between Taiwanese and mainlanders, so let's break it up.

It's a long-distance relationship, it's hard to maintain, and I think it should be separated!!

You also have to consider the attitude of your family, if they are supportive, things will be much easier.

Start by asking yourself: Do you really love him? If you answer"Yes"Then don't let other people's opinions sway the truest choice in your heart, otherwise you won't even have the right to regret it.

You really love him, then choosing him, in your words is a gamble, even if it ends in the future, at least you don't have anything to regret about this love, if you give up, I'm afraid you can't bear the pain in the future. But if you think you need to step back in the face of reality and make better plans for the future, then be free and decisive. Since you have chosen to leave, do not look back, because even if you turn around, he is likely to turn around if he does not leave.

Anyway, I bless you!

Distance is not beauty, but the third child.

Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ,...Or because he loves you. There is no reason to like someone, and it is worth paying without regrets, as long as you can be with the person you love. In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you.

I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you. If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

In this world, everyone has someone they want to seek, and if they miss it, they won't come back. If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life.

A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound. Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

Change yourself and think more about her happiness. How important love is to you, how happy.