What is the reason not to let your boyfriend buy anything for you

I want to be financially independent, and I don't want my boyfriend to spend money on me.

For example, you can save the money for our wedding, or for our future children!

Look at what he wants to buy you, if it's just a small heart, you don't have to refuse, it will make him sad, if it's too expensive, it depends on his determination.

It's good to insist on not wanting to, what other reason is there?

Summary. Dear, your boyfriend buys you something because he loves you and is kind, so you must not disappoint him when replying, and discourage his enthusiasm.

You can reply like this: You don't buy it for me, I don't need it, I know you're good to me, I understand your intentions, but I feel sorry for you, it's not easy to make money, let's not spend it randomly, wait for me to buy it for me when I need it, hurry up and save the money, so that you can marry me home quickly (and then send this hug emoji).

How can my boyfriend refuse to buy me something.

Dear, your boyfriend buys you something because he loves you and is kind, so you must not disappoint him when replying, and discourage his enthusiasm. You can reply like this: You don't buy it for me, I don't need it, I know you're good to me, I understand your intentions, but I feel sorry for you, it's not easy to make money, let's not spend it randomly, wait for me to buy it for me when I need it, hurry up and save the money, so that you can marry me home quickly (and then send this hug emoji).

In this way, your boyfriend will be able to understand what you mean, and he will not buy you anything, and he also knows that you feel sorry for him, you are not a material girl, and he will love you more and treat you better in the future.

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I just talked for a few days, and then I often ate or something, and he bought me all the clothes and clothes, why did I refuse, my friend thought that I was talking to him because he paid me money.

Dear, I think it's better for you to talk to him than to reject him and break his heart (after all, his intentions are good, and he can't dampen his enthusiasm), just say that since we are together, the future will be long, I know you love me and want to be good to me, but you don't always buy me things, or I will have a psychological burden, and I am not that kind of material girl, you can care more about me being good to me?

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He felt that I didn't know how to dress, so he bought me clothes.

Dear, then his meaning is obvious, he wants you to look better, according to what he wants.

I think it is necessary for you to make it clear to him that this kind of thing is not obtained overnight, and you will also work hard to improve and improve your outfits, so I hope he doesn't keep buying you things, which will make you psychologically burdened.

In addition, you don't care about what your friends think, because falling in love is a matter of two people, friends should know you very well, they won't think that you are with him for money, if you really misunderstand, then it proves that they are not your real friends.

I think it's actually quite a normal thing, and there is no need to be particularly resistant. Of course, it's normal that you want to say no, but don't think too much about it.

Your boyfriend asks you to buy him clothes and things, which are divided into two situations:

One is that he bought it for you before, or you asked him for it, and now he asks you to buy it, then it's just too normal, if you don't plan to break up, it's best not to refuse casually, otherwise it will break his heart. You make him feel that the relationship is unequal, and he gradually stops loving you.

The second is that he didn't buy you anything, but asked for it. Your boyfriend probably wants to enjoy the feeling of his girlfriend buying something for him, and more importantly, he wants to enjoy the feeling of "girlfriend buying things for him first when he doesn't buy anything for him".

If what he asks for is not very expensive, he can buy him a try, and then the boyfriend may have several reactions:

1.I'm more clingy to you and love you than before. It shows that he just wants to enjoy you and spoil him, and the little thing you bought is definitely worth the price for the relationship between the two. If you feel that you are at a loss, you can also ask him for something, in which case it stands to reason that you will not be refused.

2.I'll give you a gift right away. It shows that your boyfriend doesn't want to take advantage of others, but he has a good face and wants to be the one who receives the gift first in the exchange of gifts, so that he is valued. In most cases, your boyfriend's return gift will be more expensive than what you give, at least approximately.

3.Without any feedback, just keep looking for things and keep asking for things. It means that you are treated as a financier and a wallet. What you want to do after that is entirely up to you.

Of course, since someone else asks you for it, then you have the right to refuse. can directly refuse, one of the simplest words is "not good", a sentence of "not good", neither seems blunt, but also does not appear strong, and expresses what should be expressed.

Or you can put forward conditions and let him call a few nice words or something, depending on you, you can take the opportunity to play tricks on him, as long as it doesn't really hurt people's dignity, this is also a good way to warm up the couple's feelings.