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Give an example of a setback, and then work on it. [Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat. --Chen Duxiu, China].
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"Failure" simply refers to the fact that the past has not achieved the desired effect, and it is also a signal for us to make changes.
The word "failure" is only used when the matter is over, and it does not apply if the matter is to be resolved (and things are going on).
"Failure" refers to the past, and "how to change practices" refers to the future.
"Failure" is the experience of the past, and experience is the stepping stone that allows us to improve ourselves, because experience is the foundation of ability, and ability is the foundation of self-confidence.
Every "failure" is just one step in the learning process of corrective action.
All learning in life is perfected through constant revision.
If you want to succeed, you must first believe that there is a possibility of success.
If you grasp the lessons of each "failure", each time it becomes growth.
People who lack self-confidence are always subconsciously looking for an excuse for "not having to do it", and the word "failure" can easily pop up.
Some people seem to lack the courage to face failure and avoid change, but they are actually very courageous, aren't they? They have the courage to settle for the status quo.
Some people say that they are not confident, but in fact, he is very confident that he is "not confident".
For example, enthusiasm, humility, cooperative spirit, positive attitude, and love can be found in almost everyone, but these "resources of success and happiness" are not used well.
Everyone has had the experience of being successful and happy, that is, they have the ability to make themselves successful and happy.
Human beings only use a very small part of the brain's ability, and many new breakthroughs will appear when the brain is improved.
The ability to use the brain, a large number of techniques have now been developed, and it is easier for humans to improve the effect than before.
Everyone can change their emotions and behaviors by changing their minds, and thus their lives.
The things we encounter every day contain the factors of success and happiness, and the trade-offs are all determined by the individual.
In all things and experiences, there are both positive and negative meanings, and it is up to you to turn things and experiences into stumbling blocks or stepping stones.
The thinking and behavioral abilities of successful and happy people are cultivated through a process. In the beginning, they have the same conditions as everyone else.
People who have the ability to create troubles for themselves also have the ability to eliminate them for themselves.
Emotions, stress, and distress do not originate from people, things, or things in the outside world, but are generated by one's inner beliefs and value system.
Believing that you are capable or that everything is possible is the most effective guarantee of your own success and happiness.
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Everyone's heart is like a crystal ball, shining brightly, but once an accident happens, the cowardly person will gradually fade in the dark, while the self-improvement person will always refract the colors to every corner of his life. Failure may be a stumbling block for some, but for some people who laugh at failure, it may be waiting for the ladder of success. Everyone experiences failure, it is important to look at failure correctly, not to be intimidated by failure, and to thank failure for giving you a chance to learn; It gives you a chance to overcome your failures; It gives you a stepping stone to success.
Failure will not pity you because of your crying, he will shrink back because of your strength.
I remember that in the first year of junior high school, the school held a football match, our class was aiming for the championship, but the truth was so cruel, our class was defeated by class 3, our championship dream was broken like this, I felt extremely lost in my heart, I felt that the sky seemed to be darkened, about to collapse, the world is so cruel, so indifferent and ruthless, a cold hand is reaching out to me, I was "kicked" by class 3 and fell into the abyss of failure, am I really defeated like this?
No, I'm not such a flinching person, and everyone who knows me knows that I'm a very competitive and very face-saving person, so I'm very unwilling, so I went to my uncle and talked to him, and I told him what was on my mind. After listening to my narration, my uncle said to me meaningfully: "Failure, what are you afraid of, who will not experience failure, if all people are like you, if they fail and will languish and will always be in the abyss of failure, then there will not be so many great people in the world."
Uncle stood up again and said: "Failure is a kind of tempering for people, the important thing is whether you can pass this tempering, through this tempering, passing, you are the strong, failure, you are the weak, are you willing to be a weak forever?" Look at those great men, which one has not gone through a lot of tempering, like Edison, who went through a lot of hardships to discover a new element - radium.
Suffering is like a spring, if you are strong, it will be weak, and if you are weak, it will be strong, and it will take away your success. Therefore, we must never be a slave to failure, but a master of success. ”
After listening to his uncle's words, it suddenly dawned on him, thinking that Edison was blown up by dynamite and his family was blown up and his ears were blown up, and finally he became an outstanding inventor. It was as if I had grown a pair of wings and flown out of the abyss of defeat.
After that, my heart was greatly encouraged, and later in the football match of the second year of junior high school, our class won the honor of success, occupying the joy of success, because we passed the test and fought bravely to win the first place.
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