My former girlfriend, now I want to contact you, what should I do?

Updated on society 2024-05-16
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Do you still love her? She may have broken up with you, and after going around in a circle, she still thinks you are the most suitable for her, she may have changed her mind, if you are still hesitating to reconcile with him, then reconcile, this may be what God arranged for you to reunite, you must seize the opportunity, don't miss it.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Love is not to find it when it is missing, nor to change it when it is tired, it is true love, why did you break up before? Find someone who can endure hardships together, rather than enjoy them together; Find someone you can bear together, not one you can run away with; Find someone who can be responsible for you, not for love. Ask yourself, do you still love her now?

    The main body of love is life, living together, she can accompany you to be sad for a while, but can she accompany you to bear all the pressure? She can give you the temperature of your body, but can she give you the direction of your life? Have you ever imagined how you can go on when the enthusiasm fades and the hug no longer attracts you?

    Distance is the test of true love, time as the answer, time has proven that you have broken up, but there is still the warmth of love, if you still love her then continue to cherish her, if you are already disheartened with her, then why bother?

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    You'll have to see if you still like her.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Fart, you said the phone doesn't have enough memory.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Get in touch and see what she's going to do. You're not at the mercy of others, what should you do??

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    You can get in touch! But it's just ordinary friends! After all, the woman who has been with herself! So still very good friends.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Look at the purpose of her contact with you, if you want to go back to the past and fall in love with you, then you decide according to your own situation.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    It depends on your attitude, if you have feelings for him, maybe you can reunite; If you're looking for a new love, tell her exactly where you're going, and see what she wants to do, whether she can be friends after a breakup, or get back together

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    You shouldn't ignore her, because you've broken up and have nothing to do with each other, so you shouldn't ignore her.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    She should be ignored. In such a situation, I think you should communicate with the other party in a timely manner, and then you should also ask about the other party's intentions.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    The other party should not be ignored. Because the two of you have broken up, there is no need to dwell on it, otherwise it will affect the lives of both of you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the girlfriend is still in contact with the ex, it depends on the reason for the contact. If there is an unfinished matter with the ex that needs to be dealt with, there is nothing wrong with this connection; If the girlfriend tells her friend and her ex that she has already broken up and made a profit, and now she is disconnected, or in frequent contact, or in hot fight, it means that the girlfriend and you are already in Cao Ying's heart in Han, and there is no need to get along with your girlfriend anymore in this situation! Otherwise, either people will be thrown out of the clouds, or their heads will be turned into a prairie.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1. If parents know of the existence of their ex, they must inform them. Otherwise, parents who don't know the truth will not be able to guarantee that they will not make any "oolong things". For example, boasting everywhere about how good the "future son-in-law and daughter-in-law" is, in fact, people have already flown up.

    Second, if your parents don't know about the existence of your ex, you can say it if you want to, and it's okay if you don't say it. Some people fall in love and never tell their parents:

    1. Some are afraid of their parents' accusations because of early love.

    2. Some people are purely in love because they are not ready to marry their lovers, and they feel that there is no need to tell their parents about things that have no result (many parents like to compare their children. Children's education, career, and dating partners are all talking points), and secondly, it also avoids relatives and friends from causing trouble after knowing (there are always relatives and friends who have no eyes or can't see others).

    3. There are also those who are talking about marriage as the goal, but they are worried that if they break up, their parents and friends will sneer at them, so they simply don't say it.

    The top of the form. You have some concerns, maybe your parents gave you a welcome gift when they met your ex-girlfriend, right? In our rural areas, boys usually take girls home to meet their parents, and the parents will give the girls a meeting gift.

    Even, your love funds are given by your parents. If so, then you should make it clear to your parents.

    Regardless of the family's economic conditions, no one's money comes for nothing. If you tell your parents about it, then, next time, you will not easily take the girl home again, and your parents will not give the money easily.

    You can find a time, such as after dinner, when everyone is empty, to talk to your parents about your breakup with your girlfriend. After all, both parents are from the past, and there will be some life experience more or less. By chatting with your parents, you can also sort out your own growth and shortcomings in this relationship, and humbly accept your parents' teachings.

    Through such an open and honest communication with your parents, you can also let your parents understand your love mentality and let them know what you really value in your relationship, so that in the future, such as when helping you find a blind date or introduce a girlfriend, they will consider your requirements and ideas more and help you screen.

    On the other hand, by understanding your breakup, parents will also have an understanding of today's young girls, then, they will also understand that in today's young people's emotional world, they can't eat hot tofu in a hurry. Usually, a boyfriend invites his girlfriend to dinner, buys clothes for his girlfriend, and a little meeting gift is nothing. And, perhaps, as your parents, you already feel that you have spent a lot of money on the matter of your love, but according to today's standard of living, maybe, other girls think that it is just a normal exchange of courtesies.

    I think that during your relationship, your girlfriend herself also spent money and bought you gifts, and it is impossible for you to be responsible for all the expenses.

    Further, you can also ask your parents that you will be responsible for the cost of falling in love in the future. Just let them take care of themselves. I still say the same thing, don't do porcelain work without steel drills, if the boy himself doesn't have a certain spending power, why should he have a girlfriend who burns a lot of money?

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