How can I make him self motivated?

I see it this way, maybe it's because you don't know about the state of his work in the company, maybe it's because he's under pressure? I work in a good environment, but sometimes I feel stressed, but when I want to relax, I like to do nothing and don't think about anything, and everyone and everyone relaxes differently. As for his secondary school education, it seems a little inappropriate now, and now the competition is too fierce, and it is easy to be eliminated.

You can motivate him in other ways, such as telling him that if you want to get married in the future, then let him work hard for your future! Don't use the tone of education! Also, don't compare yourself with others, men hate this the most.

I think you should do it the other way!! Don't talk about him directly, you can read books with him by yourself and surf the Internet with him!! Talk a little bit about the news, including when chatting! In fact, you don't have to be in a hurry, because watching TV is also a kind of learning!!

It is not very useful to force someone, maybe he is such a person, maybe you are not the same kind of person ...

Everyone has their own way of life, and if you push him like this, he may one day become really self-motivated, maybe he will be even more disgusted...

If you have tried hard and still can't do it, then think more about your happiness in the future...

You will not be happy with a man who is not self-motivated, that is, has no sense of responsibility. It's hard for one person to change another. Unless that person loves you, likes you, can read your thoughts and needs to take the initiative to change themselves.

Communicate with him more so that he understands you, and you have to get to know him better.

1. The first thing to pay attention to is to let yourself have such a consciousness, and understand that the meaning of your own hard work refers to what Senyi is to tease the old, not what others ask for, but what you want to do on your own initiative, which reflects the importance of conscious initiative.

2. Then we need to let ourselves do more things, after completing our own work, we need to pay attention to other things, what others are not willing to do, we can participate more, make ourselves more enthusiastic, love work, do more things to find our own strengths, more willing to do things, and we can promote the cultivation of self-motivation.

3. The most important thing is to be strict with yourself, when doing things, you can't give up when you encounter things that you can't do, you must stick to it, learn more from others, learn from others' advantages, and pay attention to your own shortcomings. There are shortcomings to be corrected, and you can't give up**. Keep making progress and constantly enriching yourself.

4. Look at the progress of others, pay more attention to the achievements of others, and compare the gap between yourself and others appropriately, so that you can have a motivation to surpass others. Establish a goal to strive for, reward yourself after achieving the goal, and make yourself want to work hard and make continuous progress.