How do you see what kind of emotions and psychology you will have when others say to play or play?

Work hard and life will always be good.

Herd mentality. bar. Maybe it's your insecurity.

You need to be aligned with everyone to feel safe; It could also be due to your inertia and not wanting to do what is in front of you because of fear or procrastination.

If you want to think about your own goals, you can't tell you what the consequences will be if you complete the predetermined goals, and think about the consequences to be serious. As the saying goes, if you want to get more than others, you should give more. Others play naturally have other people's capital, but they can also be simply unambitious, why should they be misled by others?

Purely due to poor self-control.

If it's beautiful, it's admirable, but if it's contrived, it's disgusting

It's okay to appreciate yourself, but if you show it to others, it will attract prejudice, just like what was said upstairs!

Of course it's fun!

My friend took a funny picture of the potato and put it on the Internet, and I thought it was funny!

Will control emotions, I think it's a matter of IQ perception and belly volume.

When you look at a person who doesn't like your eyes, or do something that doesn't go your way, you get angry, this is a problem of IQ cognition, and you have to admit that you also have shortcomings, and others cannot be perfect.

There is also the problem of belly, that is, tolerance, admitting that he and others will make mistakes and have shortcomings, he should understand tolerance and give him a chance to grow and change.

Being able to control your emotions is a reflection of high emotional intelligence, so hint at yourself more.

It's very simple, just control the mind.

My words, I usually just say that I don't have money and don't go.

If it's the kind of person who can't pull the strings, just make an excuse and say you can't go. If you really want to play together, there is only one word: "borrow". There's another way.,It's okay to play with the people you go to play with AA system.。 My friends and I used to do that.

I lost my money yesterday, or my parents confiscated my wallet.

Or the wallet is dropped. Yesterday a friend invited a treat is very simple?,I'm sure you must have thought of it.。。。

Actually, I don't have the money to do it all the time, but I don't have the money to ask others to invite me, my brothers and sisters are so tactful is the key.

If it's a good friend, you can say it directly, if it's an ordinary acquaintance, it can be said that it's currently in the penance stage

If you are a student, you can say that your parents don't give you money because of your bad grades. You can also say that you have something to do that day and can't go, or you can confess directly!!

Let's put it directly, why care so much, it's all a trivial matter. The more pure you are, the more you look down on you.

Let's just say I've been financially tight lately, as long as you don't do it often.

If you are in pain, there is no need to hide it, as long as people are kind, even if they have no money, they will not be looked at differently.

If you're a woman, it's okay: Ah, I haven't had any money lately...

General: No, eh... I'm sorry.

If you're a man, you're going to be good.:Dude, I've been tight lately.。。。

General: I really can't go. Really, why don't you go again next time?

I don't have any money, so I'll go if you invite me.

Just say you're not feeling well.

I'm not available today.,Next time.。。

Said to go to work with relatives.

Or to say that you want to drink the joy wine. You can't go out on the street.

I'm really sorry, my wallet has been disobedient lately, I hit him and he ran out...

Are you a boy or a girl? How old is it?

2.Self-reflection: When you hear what others say or what you say about yourself, don't accept it easily, but learn to self-reflect. Ask yourself if these words are objective and true, and if they align with your values and goals.

3.Build a positive self-perception: Try to develop a positive self-perception and focus on your strengths and achievements, which can improve your self-confidence and self-esteem.

4.Seek support: If you're feeling emotionally unstable or have a mental problem, seek professional help, such as a counselor or psychologist. In addition, communicating with friends and family can also help you reduce burdens and negativity.

5.Avoid overthinking: Sometimes, the more we think, the harder it is to calm down. Trying to divert your attention and doing something else, such as reading, watching a movie, exercising, etc., can help you avoid overthinking.

In conclusion, through methods such as positive self-perception, relaxation techniques, seeking support, and avoiding overthinking, you can stabilize your mood and reduce the impact of negative mental cues on yourself.

I'll give you advice, can you see it?

1.Look at the world with another eye, not everyone in this world is very smooth, just look at how you solve it, for example, you were hit by someone when you were walking, others apologized to you, sometimes you still feel very angry, but you didn't expect that the person who hit you was actually more uncomfortable than you, or think about the sentence "Happy is also a day, unhappy is also a day, why not be happy every day".

2.If you think that you are in a bad mood, you will be in a bad mood, then you don't need to think about it, if you still want to, then keep yourself busy, let yourself have no time to think about it, let yourself live every minute to the fullest, and then don't fall in love with the bed after waking up in the morning, get up when you wake up, get busy, open the window, breathe in the fresh morning air, relax your whole body, and let yourself imagine a happy little angel ......

3.Choose a place with fresh air, quiet surroundings, soft light, undisturbed and free movement, and take a position that you feel comfortable in, standing, sitting or lying down.

4.Move some large joints and muscles of the body, the speed should be even and slow when doing it, and the action does not need to have a certain format, as long as you feel the joints let go and the muscles relax.

5.Take a deep breath, inhale slowly and exhale slowly, saying "relax" in your mind whenever you exhale.

6.Focus your attention on some everyday objects. For example, look at a flower, a little candlelight, or anything soft and beautiful, and look closely at its subtleties. Light some spices and inhale the aroma of it.

7.Close your eyes and try to imagine some tranquil and beautiful scenes, such as blue waters, golden sandy beaches, white clouds, mountains and water.

8.Do activities that you enjoy that have nothing to do with the specific things at hand. For example, swimming, taking a hot bath, shopping, listening, watching TV, etc.

9.Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy. Don't worry, there are a lot of people in this society who are almost like you, but they are all living happily, not everyone can succeed, as long as you work hard to treat everything, take life seriously, as long as you take every day seriously, no matter how your life is, I believe it is wonderful.

Talking well can help you control your emotions!

Take a deep breath, count dozens, and say to yourself: "Calm down, calm down, forget it, forget it."

You're already angry, and you can only calm down.

Calm for a while, the brain is sober and controlled.

Find a place where no one is around.

Not confident enough, not strong enough!

You can try not to care about what other people say, and besides, think about what those words you have cared about in the past can do to you? It will only affect you to have bad emotions, or be yourself, there is only one you in the world, why don't you have the final say!? Doesn't it seem ridiculous to let others dominate your emotions!?

Ah, then you are a good listener, people who love to talk like you like the most, I don't know if you are good at complaining, when you listen to others in the future, he will complain in his heart, don't care about grinding absurdity, the first thing to cultivate is your own opinion, even if it is just a complaint, and then other people's words are not easy to affect you I hope it will help you, please adopt.

Control your emotions, read more psychology books, search for test questions on Weibo, answer your weaknesses, and then overcome them.