Love is hard. Have you ever been in a relationship?

Alas, maybe she has her own troubles! I think she doesn't want to be in two boats, and if she wants to be with you and doesn't want to have an emotional dispute with her ex-boyfriend, I think she's right. Sort out the previous relationship and return to the mood to welcome the new relationship!

Love is free, and since you love her, then you should give her time!

Don't wait, what's the matter, when she breaks up with her current boyfriend, she will pursue you, if there is a problem, she will treat you as a backup, really. It is highly recommended not to wait for her.

Cut! Or! Fine! Fine! Or!

What does she think of you? A doll? This kind of woman doesn't deserve you like this.

Love is love If you love, why should you be with someone else?

It only proves that she prefers that person, so you still make the right choice.

Don't get carried away by love, fantasy can be disappointing.

I can't ask for it, if I like you. I won't say wait

Directly divided, I want to possess two people.

Such a woman is very powerful, be careful.

She treats love as child's play, since she can share it with her boyfriend, she can naturally share it with you, don't be carried away by love, although you love her, but you must know that love is not a plaything!

Even if she is by your side now, but have you ever thought about it, she is next to you and you are facing an indifferent face, are you happy?

It's better not to have such a girl, he is talking to her boyfriend today, and he comes to you again to say that he loves you, have you ever wondered if she is talking to you and saying that she loves him!! Be realistic! The society itself is very realistic.

She wants to eat from the pot and looks at the pot that is not worthy of your liking.

It's better not to have such a girl.

Such a woman is unacceptable!

I think it should be divided into first: liking is not equal to love Second: wait for him to break up with his current boyfriend and then chase after him.

You? It's also possible to say this to several guys at the same time Third: Maybe in the end you will become him "now".

Then one day she said to another boy: I like you too, wait for me to break up with my current boyfriend.

I'm going to pursue you!

There's no problem, she told you to wait, and you'll be fine.

It depends on the attitude of the two people, when both parties have an attitude of love, falling in love is a wonderful thing; But when both parties have different attitudes, it becomes not so easy to fall in love. One party may want to treat love as a kind of fun, intend to play love as a game, and think that no one will be hurt; But the other party may take love very seriously and hope to get sincere and lasting love from this relationship. In this way, when two people have completely different expectations, it is easy to misunderstand each other, which can lead to problems in the relationship.

Romance can also be influenced by the outside world. Such as family environment, social customs, and even the opinions of friends. Some families do not allow their children to fall in love, some social conventions are against relationships between people of the opposite sex, and some friends may blame lovers for their behavior or even destroy their relationship.

All of this can make the relationship complicated and changeable, leaving both parties at a loss. In short, love is a complex matter, and its success depends on the attitude of both parties and the external environment. Both parties need to respect each other, understand each other, and respect the external environment in order to find the most suitable solution and make it easier to fall in love.

Falling in love is a beautiful and profound experience that is capable of bringing infinite joy and happiness. However, there are also many challenges and difficulties in a relationship, and this is because a relationship is made up of two different individuals, each with their own thoughts, feelings, and ways of behaving. Therefore, when two people are together, various disagreements, contradictions, and conflicts can arise.

In this case, the partner in the relationship may experience difficulties and frustration. For example, when two people have different thoughts and feelings, they may feel tangled, anxious, and exhausted. At the same time, being in a relationship can also bring negative emotions such as sadness, anger, and fear.

These emotions can affect the relationship's mood, physical and mental health, and adversely affect the relationship.

Falling in love doesn't have to be difficult, but in the process of being in a relationship, there may be various difficulties and challenges. If you want to get through this difficult time, it is recommended that you maintain an honest, rational, patient and tolerant attitude to communicate, communicate, and communicate with your lover. Only by understanding, supporting, and caring for each other can a relationship be good.

After work, most of our time is occupied. From morning to evening, we were almost so busy with work that we simply didn't have time to fall in love. Even if we have time, we may be overtired and do not have the energy to care for each other, and it is difficult to maintain a good relationship.

Second, the social circle has become smaller.

After work, our social circle may be smaller because of work. We may only deal with colleagues or clients, and it is difficult to reach other types of people. As a result, we are faced with fewer and fewer choices when looking for a romantic partner, and we may miss out on many opportunities as a result.

3. Anxiety and stress.

The stress and anxiety that comes with work can also affect our love life. When we feel anxious and stressed at work, it can be difficult to fully devote ourselves to a relationship. We may become more indifferent and closed-minded, and it is difficult for the other person to feel that we are sincere and warm.

4. Work-family balance.

As our careers improve, we may spend more time at work. In this situation, it is difficult for us to balance work and family, and it is difficult to find time and energy to maintain romantic relationships. In addition, having family responsibilities and taking care of children increases our burden, and it is difficult to have the time and energy to fall in love.

Maybe it's because you haven't met true love, and the relationship is not going well.

We often miss the time we spent at school, as if everything that happened in school was simple and wonderful.

We can't forget our first love, and we often miss the relationship in college, because of the simplicity, authenticity, just because of love, because of the good feelings, each other of the opposite sex, such a love is wonderful.

And when you enter the society, you have to face a lot of ideals, a lot of pressure, as you get older, love becomes not so simple, you need to think about too many things, you meet what you like, but the conditions are not good, no house, no car, not suitable for marriage, dare not take that step casually, a lot of fate is missed. When you encounter good conditions, you can get along and find that there are many problems, the outlook on life and values are different, there is no way to force it, and after several twists and turns, you dare not get along casually, so today's love has become so difficult!

If you want to talk about a love without a purpose, not because of the urging of your family, not because of age, not because of material conditions, but because of you as a person, you will panic when you see you, you will be moved, you will miss when you can't see it, and you will worry, you will be comfortable and happy together, and there will be endless topics to talk about, so that people are the right people, many times they are willing to be alone, don't make do with it, but also try heroically, talk about a simple love, meet the right person, and marry love will be happy!

Good love, love that is worth continuing is evenly matched. I know I love you, and I know you love me. I know your hope for love, and you know my pursuit of affection. We look at things differently, but we can all bear each other's opinions, and we seek common ground while reserving differences.

Love is difficult, one point is that you don't know what the other party wants, you only know how to meet the other party's request; It's hard to love, it's hard to be in love with you, and he's retreating; Love is difficult, the difficulty lies in the pursuit of difference. I say rainbow beauty, you say it's gone soon; The difficulty in love lies in the fact that you plan to spend your life with him, but he regards you as one of the people who helps him mature; Love is difficult, the difficulty is that two people can't operate well. Too much, too much.

Love is a magical thing, you think it's happy, happy, it's happy, it's happy. If you think it's hard and sad, it's happy and sad.

I also have this feeling, two people have been together for a long time, there is no freshness, and if you don't understand each other, many things will be meaningless. Because everything is wrong in the eyes of the other party. So I think it's getting harder and harder to fall in love now.

Yes, now young people pursue freedom, there is no sense of constraints, they are together if they are suitable, and they are separated if they are not suitable.

I also feel that young men and women nowadays have particularly high requirements for their partners, pay more attention to spiritual compatibility, and less tolerate each other.

The reason why it is becoming more and more difficult to fall in love may be the difference in the love concept of the new generation of young people and their parents, the increasing emotional requirements of both parties, and the lack of awareness and skills to manage relationships.

1. The difference between the new generation of young people and their parents' views on mate love

For our parents, getting married at the age of twenty-four or five is the best age, because it is the most suitable for childbearing age; And it's best not to look too far, because the regions are close to each other, the living habits are similar, and the parents' generation is not very mobile, and they don't see too many people from different regions; For the object of the child, it must not be worse than Lao Zhang next door, because they live in a society of acquaintances and so on.

But today's young people don't agree with their view of mate love. Twenty-four or five is when we just graduated from college (if we go to graduate school, we basically have to graduate at twenty-six or seven), and there is no foundation for entering the society at the beginning, and it is a critical period for us to work hard for our careers, and there is really no way to get married at this time, especially in first-tier cities.

2. The emotional requirements of both parties are getting higher and higher

Two people have been together for a long time, they will get to know each other more and more, their feelings will become deeper and deeper, and their dependence on each other's other half will deepen, as if the other party should always understand the changes in their feelings. If the other party does not discover his low mood and care about himself in time, the other party is "empathy".

This is actually because after falling in love to a certain stage, each other will put forward stricter requirements for the feelings of both parties. At this time, it is easy for each other to feel that they have changed, and they are no longer as good to you as before.

In fact, this is likely to be because our inner expectations are higher, at this time we must adjust our expectations, and learn to magnify each other's points, learn to appreciate each other, when your attention is on the advantages of the other party, you will naturally not see the shortcomings, and you will be more willing to worship and rely on each other.

3. Lack of awareness and skills in managing feelings.

In a relationship, the mode of getting along will directly determine the relationship status of two people.

Some people have the awareness and skills to operate, and can constantly change the way they get along and adjust the state of two people in the relationship. And some people, although they love each other very much in their relationship, always take inappropriate ways to make the relationship go further and further.

For example, when the other party no longer answers **, and the other party can't give comfort in time, some people will continue to complain about the other party and feel that the other party has changed. Another example is when encountering conflicts, some couples adopt the way of arguing about right and wrong, and no one refuses to back down, and the more noisy they are, the more fierce they become. There are also some people who adopt cold war, avoidance, flattery, and strong modes in love, which make the more they talk about love, the more tired they are.

It may be that people are looking for the wrong thing, so they find it difficult. People find the right one, and falling in love is actually very sweet. If you find it difficult to even fall in love, it will be even more difficult to get married in the future.

If you want to make anything easy, the key lies in people. Think about the reason why you find it difficult to fall in love, and find out why you can understand it. The relationship can't tolerate half-heartedness, and it's better to break up early if it's not suitable.

1. Find someone with the same three views to fall in love so that you won't be tired. It is actually very painful for two people with inconsistent views to be together. If the other party can tolerate your three views that are inconsistent with her, then it's actually okay.

I'm afraid that the other party will try all kinds of ways to change your three views like him, which is the worst. Therefore, if you want to be easy in love, you must find someone with the same three views at the beginning, which will avoid a lot of trouble.

Second, if you find someone with high emotional intelligence to fall in love, you will feel very happy. When people get along with each other, the level of emotional intelligence is really important. It is a very happy thing to have a boyfriend and girlfriend with high emotional intelligence.

There are many little things in life that will be solved. Because the other party has high emotional intelligence, he will generally tolerate downward, and you will feel that this relationship is very easy to talk about, because the other party tolerates your shortcomings.

3. Don't fall in love with someone who is selfish, it will hurt you physically and mentally. In fact, many girls sometimes understand that the man in front of them is not suitable for them, but they are always reluctant to break up because they have been in love for a long time or they have paid a lot in this relationship. The consequences of this are very serious.

Falling in love with a selfish person will make your whole person very sad and hopeless in life.

Therefore, it is difficult to fall in love, and it is necessary to reflect on whether someone is looking for the wrong one. The wrong people will find it difficult to be together. Falling in love is the process of getting to know both parties, and really loving someone will be very sweet and happy.

Whether you want to be with someone or not depends on whether you are more sad or smiling with him.