I want to learn to quarrel, how to learn to quarrel?

Friend, have you noticed a phenomenon? Generally speaking, people who can quarrel or argue everywhere often keep saying: "I am the most reasonable!"

We're not messing around。。 How? Am I reasonable?!

The more they say this, the more the other party will be argued with no temper, and they will not find a good way to fight back. This kind of person seems to be very unreasonable in the eyes of others, but you just can't catch her flaws! Have you ever had such an experience and insight?

In fact, they are indeed reasoning, but they belong to a method called "being reasonable and unforgiving", they will not give up until they achieve their goal, and they must defeat the other party and finally meet their own requirements.

And what you do is the opposite of them, you are in the heart of the unexpected, but unconsciously made concessions, seemingly to solve the problem peacefully, but the heart is difficult to balance, it is yourself who suffers, right?

How can you do it like that? I can tell you that when arguing or arguing, first of all, you need to do it by going through the other party's mistakes and elaborating on the losses and unhappiness that have been or may be caused to yourself. Here, I need to remind you that the events you give examples do not necessarily need to be accurate, but they must be many, they must be complete, as long as they think of and what they are unacceptable, they must be all said, and as for whose fault is not considered.

The purpose of this is to create a first blow to the attention of the other person, and she will fall into reflection after listening to it, and then argue one by one.

Next, here comes the most important step. You pick out the events you care about the most and want to be angry about, and you only need and must be just one, which is your real purpose. Regardless of whether your words and arguments are enough to break her, you have to do your best, and then you need to repeat what you think is the most powerful, even if it's just a few words, that is, ask the other person rhetorically, keep asking her for explanations, she will explain quickly at first, and as you repeat, she will fight back slower, as soon as you find that she has slowed down, you should understand that you are not far from success.

In desperation, the other party will taste the murderous aura of unforgiving, and she will soften. Of course, we don't need to really fight, so at this moment, give her a face, you say, what you want is your words. After that, you will get along better than the others, and she will give you a lot of face.

Got it? I hope you can start your own happy career of preaching.

You don't call it a quarrel, you should first improve your self-confidence, self-confidence in all aspects, you have to learn to be improvised, to be calm, like buying a service, to be honest, you want to be dissatisfied, to make them apologize, you can use external forces, 315, **, the Internet, or even hit the local TV station to report this is okay, sometimes you don't have to do it, you just say what you want to do when you are theorizing with them, after all, the seller will still have some scruples, after all, you are a consumer. As for other aspects, I hope you can read more books to enrich your knowledge, and you don't care about other people's bullying when you have the information in your heart, and I hope you don't have to be a person who can quarrel, but a person who can face problems with confidence and end independently.

What kind of quarrel is the subject talking about? I'm just going to talk about how there are fights in marriage.

1. Don't question the other party's ability to make money.

2. Do not insult each other's family.

Three: Avoid turning over old accounts.

Four: Don't do it.

Five: Don't leave home and never return.

Seven: Don't criticize the other person's sexual ability.

Eight: Don't mention divorce.

I don't feel the need to learn to quarrel, because sometimes we feel that learning to communicate is more important, communication can solve things, and quarrels will only escalate the conflict.

Sometimes quarreling is an alternative way of communication, not simply venting one's anger and poking at others' weaknesses, but by saying what one usually wants to say but dare not say through quarreling, these words can make the two realize the problem and vent their grievances.

The best way is to practice more, and the best object is your husband, who practices with him when he is fine at home, and is much more proficient when he goes out to quarrel with others.

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In fact, there is no need to learn to quarrel, in the future, everyone is a highly educated person, then the overall quality will be improved, and you will not meet quarrels.

If you want to quarrel, you have to be ruthless, and then you can speak, and what you say makes the other party speechless, the purpose of arguing is to relieve anger, to prove that you are right.

So you know how to quarrel.

If you want to learn to quarrel quickly, you must know the art of quarrelling, and we must know that the purpose of quarreling is actually to protect our own will and let ourselves be protected, so that our quarrel will be meaningful.

Or don't learn it, it's not a useful skill.

I don't think a cultivated person will waste his energy on quarrels, this kind of behavior makes himself angry, and makes others watch the excitement, which does all kinds of harm but no benefit, so why bother?

Quarrel is actually to communicate in a more angry and impulsive way, most of them will use this way because they are too angry, try to bring out the emotions in their hearts when they speak, and use "quarrels" to tell the dissatisfaction in their hearts, sometimes this way can solve some problems.

The first must be full of momentum, create something out of nothing, have deep associations, and have nothing to expose his scars.

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Find a mirror and argue with him.

Quarrel? How sad and hurtful. Don't be noisy.

There is nothing wrong with your intentions, you want to be safe, you want to be valued emotionally, you want your lover to understand, and you want to focus on your family and yourself, all these are normal requirements.

However, for the normality of the requirements, just as everyone expects their lives to be happy, the expectations are very good, but in the process of achieving this goal, if the way and direction are wrong, then in exchange for a huge disappointment, must be farther and farther away from the desired goal.

For marriage, the important thing is to grasp yourself, what kind of work is not dangerous, there is no non-dangerous work, there is a job, there is a place to live, there must be people to contact with people, after all, there will be desires and entertainment, even if you don't work, then what about the Internet, all this is the normal development of modern society.

But these factors will not directly affect your own marriage, especially if you can be confident and correctly grasp the premise, if today is the insecurity and emotional factors that have always existed in your own heart, then, no matter what he does, you will not be safe, even if he is at home every day, you are worried that he will be online, worried that he will use his mobile phone, because the uneasy factor seems to be because of his work, but in fact it is your heart and your loss of grasp and confidence in your marriage.

Your quarrel is meant to talk about problems, to confide in and to get him to pay attention, but the actual result is to make him feel tired and depressed in his life with you, and in fact it is the weakness and decline of mutual trust between you, all of which are urging and affecting the crisis between you.

Once the relationship and getting along get along to the point where you can no longer communicate in harmony, then the things you worry about are easy and come quickly, not because of work, but because of yourself.

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It's a good thing he hasn't hit you yet. It's my words. Beat you up and send you back to your parents' house for re-education! What kind of person? Don't believe it, put you on vacation.

Let me tell you a few points, it is impossible for you not to fight **, then you have to analyze whether your relationship between husband and wife is okay. First: Is there any difference between your married life and before, if there is a big difference, then you have to be careful, he may have an external heart.

Second: You don't have to play a lot of ** every day, sometimes he says overtime, you can take the time to care about him, see if he is working overtime, if you go to several times are working overtime, then you have to treat your husband well, he is so hard for the family, you have to measure him more, don't doubt it anymore. Third, you also have to talk to him, tell him the doubts and absurdities in your heart, and the two of them exchange their feelings more, and you won't be foolish.

Finally, I would like to advise you that the relationship between husband and wife is based on trust, and it also needs to be managed, and I wish you a happy life here.

Men will have such a mentality, that is, they don't like other people's verbosity and too many constraints, this should be the reason of nature, specific methods, you can adjust your mentality appropriately, or find some other reasons when you hit **, but reduce the number of times.