Speaking of what kindness and chaos should look like

As the saying goes, people are originally good, kindness, is a beautiful thing, is what everyone yearns for, is a beautiful thing, no matter when, it can not become a weakness, because weakness, yes, negative energy, and kindness is positive energy, everyone is more positive and positive things, kindness, everyone likes.

As the saying goes, trouble comes from the mouth, and many disasters are caused by not being able to control the mouth and causing oneself to provoke. Some people say the wrong thing and don't realize it at the time, but later they find that there are always people who target themselves, and only after thinking about it do they regret saying things that they shouldn't have said; And some people regret their words as soon as they say them, and they really want to take them back, although they are unintentional words, they have already offended people. For many people who love to talk, being good at expressing themselves is a very commendable thing, but saying the wrong thing will lead to a lot of trouble, at least sneering at you, or at worst it may lead to conflicts.

How to keep yourself from talking nonsense is still a question of self-discipline.

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If you think you are a person who doesn't speak much, then it is better to keep your mouth shut at all times, and it is better not to speak than to say the wrong thing. From a realistic point of view, not speaking does not show how you are, but saying the wrong thing may be considered by others as having a problem with cultivation, some people usually can't control their mouths, in public they can say what they think of in their hearts, say what they want to say, and vent their opinions on some people, but the listener is unintentional, the hearer pays attention, and the negligence does not even offend others.

If you can't speak, try not to speak, just ask others to tell the truth, don't add oil and vinegar, many times the more simple the words, the more sincere and unpretentious. If you can't help but don't speak, it is indeed a very difficult thing for a person who loves to talk, but anyway, if you make up your mind not to talk much, you have to put it into action, first set a time period for yourself, stick to practice every day, and gradually increase the training time until you can completely control not talking.

People who can't speak have to face the situation of having to speak, when to say what to say, what occasion to express their opinions, all need a learning process, no one is born very good at speaking, and can speak so well and decently, they are also after many times of encountering the wall, from the speaking style of others slowly mastered the skills of speaking. Therefore, at the beginning, there may have been a lot of conflicts because I can't speak, but slowly it will get better and better, which is the tuition fee that must be paid for personal growth and progress.

The chaotic and kind characters, although they like to do what they want, have a good heart. Although they agree with all virtues and axioms, they are not willing to be bound by laws and norms. It is impossible to arbitrarily drive these people and get them to do what they are told.

These people have their own set of moral standards, and although they are not evil, they are not necessarily exactly the same as those of the general public.