What if someone asks me to meet me online?

1.Are you gay, if you're just curious to see what a gay man is like, don't go; Find a gay, squatting at the door for a night will see more.

2.Can you make sure you're safe? If you go, if you are robbed and robbed by others, and the ticket is tied or even torn up, don't go; Whether you are gay or not, safety comes first.

If you're a gay man and you're confident enough to keep yourself safe, it's okay to go, it's okay not to go, it's been four years anyway, and it's not too late to talk about it for a few more years.

But if you're going to meet, consider the following questions:

1.What is the purpose of your visit? Make friends? (You should already be friends, right)419? Or have you been talking for so long, and people asked you to go if you didn't want to go?

2.What will you do if you go? Chat? Dine? Playing mahjong? ml？Or do you want to surf the Internet together? Is there a consensus, other people's families want to ML with you, you just want to chat with him, that will only break up unhappily.

3.Do you know him? The information he chatted with before was all said by himself, without any confirmation, and it is likely that there will be untruths when you meet, are you mentally prepared?

4.Where is the meeting place? Are you familiar with your surroundings? What are the modes of transportation to get around? What is the approximate level of consumption, and if there is an expense, who will pay for it?

5.Do you want to bring something that guarantees safety? This seems to be related to the first point, but sometimes the development of things may not be controllable, and I am not afraid of 10,000.

The more bad suggestions can be thought of are basically examples, hehe. If you don't lack BF, you can see it or not; If you are not lonely and lonely, it can be rare or rare.

First make sure that he has no other intentions and is not in danger, then see if he is financially difficult or have other troubles, and then see if his relationship is stable, etc. Then ask whether you are also gay, after determining the above questions, you should assume how to take effective measures in various situations after meeting, which can not only protect yourself, but also not hurt his good intentions. If you can't reach these points, you can refuse, after all, the feelings on the Internet are not as real as the friendship of life, and you can't be friends.

After considering the above points, if there are any questions, you can continue to add to the questions, and we will help you answer.

Directly refuse.,Say I've been busy lately.。。 Or maybe I haven't had time lately.。。 Then drag him to the blacklist, unless you're his kind too, or just refuse!

Don't go if you're afraid.

Go if you don't want to leave regrets, but be careful! Because you're not gay yourself.

If you do, go for it!

Don't go unless you are too.

Otherwise it will think that you are too.

Go or not decide for yourself,,, it's such a big person.

The sea is wide and the fish jumps, and the sky is high for the birds to fly.

1. Surprise invitation. In the usual chat, mention the fun place from time to time, and then make an invitation and ask, are you interested, go to play together?

2. Second invitation. When the first invitation, the girl will generally refuse, and then say "I'm afraid you are a bad girl", I am very simple, to relieve the girl's defense. Then you can meet.

3. Invite the general. When talking about a certain fun sport or tourist attraction, she hopes to participate, "This sport is quite challenging, and I have asked many people to dare not go, do you dare to go?" "That's how we can meet.

4. Assume an invitation. When you have a favorite netizen, you can say that there is something fun, call you when you play, and when you meet a girl you like on the street, you say that there is an activity, it is very fun, and you are interested in going together.

5. You can invite you to meet and watch a movie. When a new film comes out, you can try to reveal something about the film, pique her interest, and then go to the movies together.

6. You can invite to go for a walk and meet. You can also invite to go for a walk, talk about your heart together, talk about your life plan, the troubles you have encountered recently, go to a deserted place, further enhance your relationship, hold hands and hug your waist.

Chat about meeting tips

1. The purpose is clear, people are afraid to meet, and trees are afraid to peel off. A lot of the time the girl is very cold in the **, and she also pushes back, but if you grind hard and trick her out, she will have a lot of fun. The purpose of the invitation is to meet, and as long as you can meet, you can say anything.

The girl's demands can also be compromised, such as the girl saying, "I can't come back too late." "I don't like to sing.

I was not feeling well and could not climb the mountain. ”

3. Stimulate interest, curiosity kills cats! Girls are naturally curious. If you invite a girl to dinner, there are two ways, ** way tell her that there is a restaurant, where there is a Western-style decoration, there are steak pies, and the atmosphere is very romantic; In a way, just tell her that there is a restaurant with a very romantic atmosphere, and she asks you what it looks like, and you will know when you go, and you will not be disappointed.

Obviously, the best way to stimulate the imagination is more attractive.

I should say that I miss you so much, can we meet appropriately? Would you like to make an appointment?

It's good to make an appointment directly, saying that you can have a meal with him or watch a movie and find a reason to invite him, but you can't just say that you want to see him.

Look at what kind of relationship the other person has with you, different people have different ways.

Summary. 1. Focus on your goals. Send a message to someone you like to find out what they're going through during the day or what they're interested in, so they know you want to get to know them better.

Don't let the conversation become boring and broad, and don't ramble on and get to the point before making an invitation to a date. The sooner you send out an invitation, the more likely it is that the other person will be interested and agree to come out.

If you've already figured out what to do on a date, start the conversation around it. For example, if you want to ask someone out to a movie, talk about a recent release.

How to send a message when someone comes out to meet.

1. Focus on your goals. Send a message to someone you like to find out what they're going through during the day or what they're interested in, so they know you want to get to know them better. Don't let the conversation become boring and broad, and don't ramble on until you ask for a date.

The sooner you send out the Dou Yu invitation, the higher the likelihood that the other party will be interested and agree to come out. If you've already figured out what to do on a date, start the conversation around it. For example, if you want to ask someone out to a movie, talk about a recent release.

2. Use compliments to ask the other party out. When dating someone you like, you can use compliments to explain why you want to date. This will make the other party feel very comfortable and willing to accept the date invitation.

Among the messages you can send is: "I really enjoyed chatting with you. Would you like to come out and have a cup of coffee together?

I've been thinking a lot lately, would you like to go to the movies with me? "You look fantastic. Would you like to share dinner with me?

3When you go out with someone whom you like to ruin the hearth, make it clear. Make sure the person you like knows you're talking about a date, or they might think you're inviting them out for a friend's party. Please be clear, such as "Do you want to come out with me?" and don't say vaguely, "Do you want to come out and play?"

4. Plan the details of your appointment. If someone you like agrees to a date, make the necessary plans right away. Find a date and time that works for the two of you, and then decide on a good spot to meet.

Please make a specific date plan before ending this chat and stopping sending messages. This lets the people you like know that you are interested, preventing possible confusion in the future.

5. Don't worry if the other party refuses. Give them a little space, and then talk to them again like a friend in a few weeks. If the conversation goes well, the door of dating can still be opened.

At the same time, be sure to take care of yourself, hang out with friends and get out of the house and exercise.

When someone comes out to meet, first ask the other party when they have time to break up the group, how to say what is the reason why you want to see each other, so you can! Remember to respect the other party's choice! The most important thing is to give each other a good impression!

There are a few ways to send a message when you ask someone to come out and meet:

1.Send a short invitation message directly: "Are you available?" Do you want to come out and meet up? Wait, simple and clear, expressing the intention of the appointment.

3.Make a specific plan first: If you already have a specific appointment plan, you can directly send the other party a specific time, place, and activity plan, such as "Meet at 7 p.m. next Friday at a certain dinner hall and eat and chat together." ”。

Regardless of the method you use to send your message, here are a few things you should keep in mind when making an appointment:

1.Respect the other person's choice and wishes, and do not force an appointment if the other party is unwilling to meet or has other arrangements.

2.Be clear about the time and place of the appointment to avoid misunderstandings or inconveniences.

3.Be polite and honest, and don't hide or mislead the other person to avoid misunderstandings or unnecessary trouble.

4.Be safe and cautious when making appointments, choose public places or meet acquaintances, and don't trust strangers or make appointments in unfamiliar environments.

If you're inviting someone out to meet, here are some message writing tips to consider:

1.Be direct and concise: Be straightforward about the purpose of your invitation and the time of your proposal in your message, such as "Can you meet me at the bar at 7 p.m. on Friday night?" ”

2.Personalization: For people you think are familiar with and want to connect more with them, include some personalized language or common interests in your message, such as "I know you love watching movies, do you have time to go to the theater this Friday?" ”

3.Respect the other person's time: Make an appointment as far in advance as possible, and leave enough time for the other person to reply. If you're in a hurry to get a response, you can appropriately ask the person in the message if they've seen it.

4.Be genuine: Express your desire to meet the other person and thank them for taking the time to meet you.