What is the psychology of people who are often masochistic? Will it be good for his wife?

Draw the knife and cut off the water, the water is more flowing, and the sorrow is more sorrowful through wine.

The person concerned does not understand that [the heart is his own safety, and there is no need to prove it by any means, and the heart is still the same]. On the contrary, he has a stubborn obsession, thinking that there is something in the "outside world" that can make him safe, and he can't find it, hating himself for being useless, and then at the same time he produces fantasy ideas [self-abuse, abuse] for no reason and implements them, which is irrelevant. Peace of mind is peace of mind, do something that is in the opposite direction, you will only go farther and farther, go to the "outside world" to seek peace of mind, and the more you seek your heart, the more uneasy you become.

Such a person has to explain patiently and listen attentively, so that he thinks that you are his soulmate. and to praise his strengths, and to channel his love. Then again, such a person is not a bad person, at least he has a heart to solve the mistake, but the method is not right, he also wants to solve the problem, but the direction is the opposite.

Since he cares so much about other people's feelings, why not let the "self" die and cherish this body for others? Let him stand in the perspective of others and do things in other people's ways, and he will definitely be a good husband in the future. Let him figure out that what he wants is to solve related problems, and others want to solve other people's problems, not physical abuse, and if he can't solve the problem, he would rather be idle and wait for the opportunity.

No, this kind of person may use suicide to blackmail the people around him to obey his wishes (if you don't give me what I want, I'll jump off the building, usually this kind of person is playing the weak role of a poor worm to carry out moral coercion, "I'm like this, why can't you understand what I want, and give it to me, do you want me to die, okay, I'll die"), do you think this kind of person is normal, do you want to be responsible for other people's lives, do you want someone to die because of you, Can you bear the guilt of someone else's death because of you? No one can afford the guilt of the death of someone else's life. Getting along with others through self-abuse is a sign that he is psychologically immature and unable to deal with problems with good technique.

People who abuse themselves often have some kind of anger in their hearts, and this anger cannot be vented outward, but directed inwards at themselves. If he sees his family (e.g., wife, children) as part of himself, he may be violent towards his family. If possible, a counseling session is recommended.

This is a typical method of masochism, which is commonly used by patients to vent their inner bad feelings, but generally not to others. Under normal circumstances, rationality can be restored. To solve his problem, in addition to accepting the formality, the people around him should give more care and understanding, and guide him to vent his bad emotions in a positive way.

Definitely not, it's not good for yourself, what else can be good for others.

No, he's not even like himself, he won't be nice to others!

Then I asked if he still loved that girl. He said how could there still be love? Some are just afraid.

So as you can see from this example, those who threaten others with self-harm are stupid to tell the truth. Your self-harm will not bring you any benefits except for hurting yourself and others, but will push the people who liked you further and further. This kind of behavior is stupid, and people who are able to do it are even more stupid!

10 years of psychological counselor's alternative interpretation of depression and self-harm, listen well, and you will definitely gain something.

Generally, such people are mostly triggered by high pressure and no good way to vent, and in the long run, they form a kind of psychological dependence, just like taking drugs, and they will feel very relaxed after doing it, which is an abnormal psychological state!

Cause for concern. It's a way for them to cope with external pressures and express their inner feelings, and in this way to release their inner stress. At the same time, it could also be an escape from something in reality.

Generally speaking, it is the reality that is too far away from the ideal. Such people are very strict with themselves, and if they can't meet the standards, they will adopt this method to calm down their mental guilt, self-blame, resentment, etc., and their psychology is relatively gloomy. If it is not serious, it can be restored to normal through self-psychological adjustment, but if it is serious, it needs some enlightenment and guidance.

This is caused by revenge, self-abuse or self-harm when you are a child may be to take revenge on your parents, and this behavior is more complicated when you grow up, and it varies from person to person.

Hello: If this happens, it is recommended that the person concerned find a senior counselor to do psychological counseling or **, of course, if the person is voluntary.

1. Self-blame, guilt.

2. Hope to alleviate mental pain through physical pain.

3. Hope to be cared for, self-harm, to get the attention of loved ones, etc.

You should probably take him to a psychiatrist...

Hopeless, restless, sad, sad, helpless.

Desire to be cared for by more people, but it is impossible or difficult to achieve, can only be achieved through special means such as self-harm, psychological paranoia, if the people around her can care more about her, and pay attention to some details, and then self-regulation of the psychological state can be slowly recovered, otherwise it will enter a vicious circle.

Severe lack of love, I do this all the time.

Maybe it's a hard life!

The bag dyes and locks are different and stirred and shy.

The cut is full of strings, and the purpose is to clear the loser.

Cheap sticks and bullying and fierceness.

It's definitely an unhealthy mind.

Pain is depressed to the extreme, depressed people because of the pain in their hearts can not be relieved, they often hurt themselves, in order to achieve a moment of forgetting the pain, depressed people do not want to get depression, you can not understand them, but don't be a keyboard warrior, you are not qualified to judge others, you never know how your behavior will affect others.

The reason why a person who is self-harming or self-masochistic is because he is forced by too strong instinctive needs, and he longs for direct satisfaction, but complex reason lacks the means to meet these needs in a normal way. This is the mechanism of self-harm or self-abuse.

Because in self-harm or self-masochistic behavior, the subconscious desire and its derivatives cannot be carried out to the end according to the normal state, but can only break through in a distorted way of self-harm or self-abuse, and seek limited satisfaction in unnatural behaviors that do not meet the requirements of social morality and habits. It can be seen from this that self-harm or self-abuse has, to a certain extent, seriously disturbed or even distorted the role and function of consciousness, and is really an abnormal mechanism for a person's psychological development.

You should ask: Is a self-harming person called a human being? Even if you don't want to deal with yourself, anyone can slaughter him as a pig.

There's a little bit of a problem!

Suggestion: broaden your mind and vision, look at the problem with a long-term vision, and don't get entangled in temporary troubles and unhappiness. It is necessary to establish the correct "three views" and beliefs, make progress every day, develop in an all-round way, and do more things that can create value and help others according to their own characteristics and specialties, so as to make life more fulfilling, interesting and meaningful.

Continue to read and study to improve the level of ideological understanding. Knowing that everyone's life is not smooth sailing, it is inevitable to encounter such and such problems, setbacks, and troubles, but positive people know how to face, adapt or solve them with wisdom, ingenuity and reasonable methods, rather than taking bad methods.

In addition, "failure is the mother of success", "eat a trench to grow a wisdom, after a long thing to grow a ability", "Seong lost the horse, how to know whether it is a blessing"! People should take a positive and correct view of the problems, setbacks, and troubles they face, so as to draw experiences and lessons from them, and exercise their ability to handle things and their psychological quality. This is very helpful for a person to walk the road to the future.

In daily life, people should be good at regulating their psychological pressure. You can communicate with others, talk to others, pour out stress and unhappiness, and get guidance and help from everyone. In normal times, there should be more outdoor activities and sports, such as:

Running, brisk walking, walking, climbing, outing, gardening, swimming, playing ball, etc.

If you have time, it is also recommended to consult a psychologist, I believe it will be rewarding.

It depends on how far you abuse.

What is not normal is a disease. When I was an adolescent, I had pimples on my face, so I liked to squeeze them with my hands. The behavior is similar to that of your classmates, but the degree of harm is different and the severity of the illness. If you don't change yourself, it's useless to persuade anyone.

I don't know later