Why does first love usually end in tragedy?

Because they were all young and immature at that time, they didn't know or plan to love and life with each other, they just felt that they would be happier together, and they simply wanted to live with each other, not irrational or anything, but because the world of life was very simple, they couldn't consider so many factors, including the road ahead, money, life or something, and at that time, they generally couldn't decide some things independently, such as parents and the like, so they had to separate when there were obstacles, but it didn't end in tragedy. First love is likely to be a rare happy memory in a lifetime, as sour and fragrant as lemon, and sweet.

Because they are inexperienced, they often fail.

Basically, it's overly critical so that you can always find out the shortcomings of the other person, and then you fail.

Because the requirements are too high.

Neither of them is mature enough

When you grow up, you will understand that there is too much helplessness in life.

In other words, it is ...... in the first loveLandlord, don't curse me!!

No, it depends on your own mentality and attitude.

and whether the other party insists on and cherishes this feeling.

I don't have any experience, and my personality is difficult to tolerate each other...Naturally, everything is difficult.

People who fall in love for the first time don't understand love at all. Lao Zhao's lines.

No one who fried an egg for the first time will make a golden, tender, salt-filled, delicious fried egg ......

Most of the endings of first love are breakups, which may be due to the following reasons:

Immaturity: Due to the lack of life experience and the ability to deal with emotional problems at a young age, many first-time lovers appear relatively naïve and immature in the face of emotional confusion and communication problems, which makes it difficult to solve problems and eventually choose to break up.

Personality incompatibility: The personalities and interests of both parties have not yet been fully formed at the time of first love, and it is possible to find that there are serious differences in the values, interests and hobbies of the two people, and they cannot resonate with each other, so they finally choose to break up.

Too much stress: When a romantic partner is faced with a lot of pressure from school, family pressure, social environment, etc., they may feel frustrated, helpless or even hopeless, and these negative emotions can easily affect the relationship and eventually disintegrate.

Too far away: First lovers may be separated due to study, work or family factors, etc., and the distance will make it very difficult to communicate with each other's feelings, leading to the final choice to break up.

Different stages of development: At the time of first love, there are differences in the psychological maturity and development stage of men and women, for example, some people focus on academics, while others pay more attention to freedom and individuality. This difference can lead to feelings swinging and eventually falling apart.

In short, most of the endings of first love are breakups, which may be related to various factors such as immature age, incompatible personalities, too much pressure, too far away, and different stages of development. In any case, we should remain open and mature, respect each other's choices and be optimistic about the future.

Love is warm and romantic, and first love will leave a good feeling. Because of Li Trembling, in our minds, first love should be the most beautiful and complete state. ......But the reality is not always as we hope, and in many cases the first love will end in a breakup.

There are many reasons why this is the case. Specifically, it includes the three aspects of being too young to make the right choice at the time of first love, the fact that the first love focuses on feelings, which leads to the fact that the two parties in the relationship are not suitable in terms of realistic conditions, and the change in personal thinking as they grow older, which eventually affects the relationship.

1. Although the first love is beautiful, because the first love is too young, it is easy to break up because of improper choice.

When I first fell in love, I was not very old. People in this age group have not reached the state of true growth in all aspects, so it is easy to have problems in the specific choice of Dongtong. ......When it comes to love, there will be a first love that is very beautiful, but it may lead to a breakup for one reason or another.

This is one of the reasons why many first loves end up in a breakup.

2. First love focuses on feelings, but they may break up because the actual conditions are not suitable.

Love requires not only feelings, but also realistic conditions. ......Specifically, if two people in a relationship do not match in terms of personal conditions, or if their lives are affected by poor economic conditions, then even if a first love seems extremely beautiful, it will eventually end in a breakup. ......For first love, only focusing on feelings and not paying attention to the difference in real conditions are the practical reasons that lead to breakups.

3. As you get older, your thoughts change, which can have an impact on your relationship.

As one gets older, one's thoughts change at different times. Although this situation is very normal in the process of growing up, it can have a very big impact on love. ......Specifically, after falling in love, as you get older, your thoughts may be very different from the beginning of your relationship, and your attitude towards your first love will change, which may eventually lead to a breakup, which is an important reason why many first loves end in a breakup.

No matter how beautiful the first love is, it can be said that there is basically no good ending, and after all, they become each other's emotional passers-by. The lack of emotion in my heart has become the eternity of memory. So why does first love basically end in a breakup?

Is it true enough to have a pure and true relationship, but it is difficult to maintain a long-term relationship?

Junior high school is the most likely age for early love, and under the influence of puberty, both physical and psychological changes have begun to occur, so that they are more attracted to the opposite sex. The first time the love is opened, the first taste of love, the first time I feel the feeling of the deer crashing and throbbing, the excitement of the heartbeat, our perception of love originates from**? It's not in textbooks, it's not in the mouths of parents, but in romance dramas, **, the fragments in the storyline and the way of deductive expression, that's the script, that's the author, and the way they think they love, and even some of them are just deliberately embellished with exaggerated handwriting in order to be more blockbuster, which has nothing to do with pure feelings, and is somewhat distant from true love, but readers and audiences, especially at the age of first love, will not distinguish the difference between them, and firmly believe that love is like that.

The people we have a good feeling for the first time are the most special people, in fact, the key is not that he is really special, but because this person happens to have you after learning what love is, he (she) is very similar to the protagonist of the story, resulting in inexplicable excitement, in the state of no experience and emotional experience, the first love is often overwhelmed and a little impulsive and a little shy, no matter what gender, in fact, nervousness is inevitable. To be honest, even if people reach middle age, how many people can really interpret love? What's more, young men and women without any emotional experience are even more at a loss.

We have no experience in emotional interactions, so we have to imitate the experience of others to interact with ourselves, which is self-righteous love, but in the eyes of mature people, it is just a family relationship. Most of them will use what they think is right and what they think is good for each other to maintain their relationship. I really want to love each other well, but I don't know how to love, how many people can really understand what it means to take care of each other.

Not to mention empathy, which is a difficult state for us adults to achieve. But it is one thing not to know how to give, but the demand has never been reduced, and when it does not meet their expectations, they will instinctively lose their temper when they feel uncomfortable, like a hungry child, crying just to have milk to eat, but the first love of the two people are unweaned dolls, and who can "feed" who first? Nature has become the opposite station of the emotional relationship, and the ending of not giving in to each other.

1.Lack of experience: When falling in love for the first time, many people have not experienced love and do not know how to deal with their own feelings and the feelings of the other person. There may be arguments or misunderstandings over small things that eventually lead to a breakup.

2.No common language: When first love, people's interests and hobbies may differ, and it may be difficult to build a deep relationship without a common topic. This can lead to boredom or dissatisfaction for both parties and eventually break up.

3.Parental opposition: In some cultural contexts, parental opposition can lead to a breakup. In the first love, parents may think that the other person's background, financial situation, or social status do not meet their expectations, and they may oppose the relationship and prompt a breakup.

4.Long-distance love: When you are in your first love, you may not be able to handle the challenges of long-distance relationships and may break up because of distance.

5.Pure view of love: When first love, people may have an idealized view of love, believing that love should be perfect, romantic, and sweet.

However, in real life, there are setbacks and run-ins in love, and you may break up because of the different expectations and experiences of both parties.

In conclusion, the end of first love is not necessarily a breakup, but a breakup is a possible outcome due to issues such as lack of experience, communication, and understanding. Maybe some people are destined to be passers-by, growing up with you, but they can't accompany you to the end of their lives, and they have written a story in the long river of youth. Even if the story is romantic and unforgettable, it is just a hasty regrettable ending.

Maybe the ending of the first love is regret is the best, because I have it, I have never regretted it, and I have the most beautiful appearance of the other party in my heart, and that simple love has not landed in life, but will make us miss it all the time.

Maybe regret is the best destination for first love, an encounter, a half-life memory, each blessing, and the rest of your life is well!