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<> such a situation, I would like to give a piece of advice: don't delay yourself.
There is no shortage of people in life who will neither accept nor reject your love or liking.
From the other person's point of view, he may be embarrassed to break your relationship, and he may feel that once he rejects you, you can't be friends, which is a pity. But there is only one reason why he is unwilling to accept you, he doesn't like you.
Indeed, you can't hide if you like someone, and your eyes will tell you that the other party can't wait to stick with you every day. At the same time, you can't hide if you don't like someone, no matter how good you are, he won't accept you.
From the perspective of a bystander, if a person does not accept you or reject you, it is obviously delaying you, delaying you to like others, delaying you to be good to other boys and girls, delaying your time, delaying your energy and hard work. Because once we like someone, it takes a lot of energy. And the other party's attitude will only make you feel that you still have hope and that you can still be together.
In fact, the other party has already sentenced your relationship to death, and you can't be lovers.
Let's put it this way, he treats you as a friend, and has always regarded you as a friend, in his eyes, it is just your wishful thinking, he accepts your good does not mean accepting you, he does not reject you in order to enjoy your good more.
I want to say that when you meet such a person, no matter how shining, shining, and tall he is in your eyes, I hope you don't waste your precious youth.
Leave freely, you are not a male and female classmate who no one chases, there are many, many good people in this world.
Don't delay yourself.
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For me with an upright temperament, black and white used to be the basic principle for me to understand many issues, although I have experienced in society for many years, I have learned too many things that have to be done, things have a reason, and I have gradually learned to understand and tolerate some unclear things, but I still don't like to have gray areas when it comes to emotional issues.
The so-called gray area of course refers to the attitude of neither explicit rejection nor clear acceptance, to put it bluntly, it is to keep hanging your appetite, and you want to refuse and welcome you to keep guessing there. It's a really bad feeling, at least for me to swallow.
I think that between likes and dislikes, every adult will have their own judgment, you can have the right to accept or the right to refuse, but it is impossible to endlessly use other people's good feelings for you to torture each other, which seems to me to even rise to the height of bad moral character.
In this society, I don't know why some people always like to play this kind of unclear game, and always make ambiguous gestures in the face of other people's confessions. You say if you like it, take it; If you don't like it, reject it immediately; If you haven't thought about it yet, just say I need to think about it, and I'll give you an answer in a few days or something, this is at least the attitude that a normal person should have, you don't refuse and don't accept, do you want to leave yourself a way to attack and retreat? You've thought it through, so what are the others?
Just wait for you to be summoned like a spare tire, or do you leave a way out for yourself like you, and then have some unclear relationships with a few other people? What is the so-called love?!
So, for this kind of person who neither refuses nor accepts, I will only let him go as far as he can.
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First of all, I couldn't tell if the other party was a man or a woman, so I had to say it separately.
1. The other party is a man:
He likes you and loves you but he thinks he can't give you happiness, he is also very inferior to his own situation, he thinks he is not worthy of you, at this time you have to judge whether this is the case according to your understanding of him, to communicate more with his = friends to understand, first of all, you have to show that you don't care about the things he cares about, don't let him feel pressure, give him a feeling, is he thinks too much, you don't need so much at all, all you want is his love, you have to comfort him at all times, he may be a sensitive person, You have to comfort his fragile heart and self-esteem with your love, and you have to communicate with your parents in time to let them put off what they think is right.
He doesn't love you at all, he just wants to have fun, or use you as a spare tire, at this time you have to love yourself and maintain your dignity, walk away bravely, and don't look back at all, you don't need to miss this kind of person! Go and find the person you really cherish you, believe me, you will definitely be able to find it, in the not-too-distant future, his parents' block.
When it comes to relationship problems, you have to mention your parents, his parents put a lot of pressure on him not to agree with your feelings, but he doesn't want to give up on you, at this time you have to look for your own shortcomings, try to correct them, if you are not wrong, let him communicate with his parents, 1, the other party is a woman.
She can be shy.
Girls are generally more reserved, and she likes you too, but she's not too embarrassed, so you chase and try to move forward, take the initiative, no problem!
She is testing you, she doesn't want to give herself to others easily, she doesn't confirm whether you love her or not, if you want to see more of your performance to decide, to see if you are sincere, you have to work harder at this time, there must be sincerity, don't play the so-called routine, you are full of sincerity, I believe she will definitely accept you!
Then you should be a spare tire.
Let's go, the farther away from her, there is nothing you can miss and nostalgia for this kind of person!
Love is always so beautiful and desirable!
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If this person neither rejects nor accepts you, then you should also know that you may have become the legendary spare tire. If you don't want to maintain this relationship, you can choose to distance yourself a little, such as not looking for them as often as often, or not being as positive when replying to them. If they start asking why you've changed, it means that you still have a bit of status in their eyes.
If you don't go back, they won't go back to you, just give up.
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I would ask him directly and clearly, asking him if he liked me or not, because I hated this kind of ambiguous relationship.
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If it were me, I would ask him directly for an answer! If you can't do it, we'll be together, if it doesn't work, I'll give up
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I'll just ask what that person means, it's so unclear and uncomfortable.
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Summary. After the confession, what does it mean that the other party did not refuse and did not accept? A:
After the confession, the other party did not refuse and did not accept, which means that he rejected you, because the other party did not like you and accept your meaning, and did not want to hurt you, did not want you to be too sad, at this time he would not directly reject you, so after you confessed, the other party did not accept it very directly, and you did not either.
What does it mean not to refuse and not to accept?
After the confession, what does it mean that the other party did not refuse and did not accept? Answer: After the confession, the other party did not refuse and did not accept, which means that he rejected you, because the other party did not like you and accepted your meaning, and did not want to hurt you, did not want to make you too sad, at this time he would not directly reject you, so after you confessed, the other party did not accept it very directly, and you did not either.
Can you tell us more about that?
After the confession, the other party did not refuse and did not accept, which means that he rejected you, because the other party did not like you and accept your meaning, and did not want to hurt you, did not want you to be too sad, at this time he would not directly reject you, so after you confessed, the other party did not accept it very directly, and you did not either.
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That is, the two sides need to slowly contact and communicate to understand, accept the appropriate words, and let go of the inappropriate words.
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When a man likes a woman, he may have an inferiority complex, feel unworthy of the other party, and just want to protect her silently. If two people are together, the man is also humble, he is insecure, feels that the woman is too good, and is easily coveted by other men.
So when a man is with you, but he is particularly insecure, it means that he loves you very much and is afraid of losing you, at this time the woman should build confidence and security for him, and tell him that he will always be by his side, of course, on the premise that you love him.
In addition, if you really like someone, you will be careful in a relationship, so if a woman finds that a man likes you, but this man will not always send you messages, then this man is afraid that he will always message you, and you will feel bored.
Therefore, if a woman meets such a man in a relationship, then you should cherish him, after all, this man knows how to consider your feelings and does not want to cause you trouble, in this relationship, because he likes you too much, he seems to be very humble.
In short, in a relationship, when a person is confident, always dares to move forward, dares to express, and when the other person understands your mind, he will also react accordingly. When a person has low self-esteem, he will be very hesitant and contradictory, and he will not know whether to advance or retreat, which will bring great trouble.
Therefore, people with low self-esteem, please show some courage, become confident, and pursue boldly, so that you can not leave regrets, and it is a pity if you miss it.
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...Well, when you like someone, you don't refuse or accept you, which means that he doesn't want to be with you, but he doesn't want to lose you, because he wants to feel this way.
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In this case, I think she may not have thought about your relationship yet, who are you with?So you can take the initiative to confess to him, and then make it clear that he has an attitude.
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Through your description, it is obvious that girls have a good impression of you, if you don't feel anything about you, it is impossible to accept your gifts, and they will be coquettish with you, do you think a girl may be coquettish with a person she doesn't like, so put your heart in your stomach and cherish it.
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I think she is a tacit pursuit of liking you, the half a year you have been together, your behavior including his response to you is actually a kind of relationship between lovers, then you can find a suitable opportunity to give him a grand confession Okay, set up the scene Be careful, it will definitely be no problem.
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Don't refuse, don't accept, prove that you still have a chance. At least it shows that he doesn't hate you, and wants to give you a positive answer after a period of understanding.
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Such a person is the most terrible, if it were me, I would not choose to be with him, if I like it, I like it, if I don't like it, I just refuse.
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It may be really interesting to you, but I'm not sure if I really like it, so I need to observe and understand urgently, and it may end up hanging you.
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You're a girl, if you do this, he will definitely not agree, because these things you give her, he just thinks that you gave them to him as a good friend, and when you celebrate your birthday, he will return them to you, so he will not accept your love for her.
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This is also the time you have known each other is too short, you can deepen your understanding and understand your feelings, and I wish you all a family.
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If you don't express love, it's not love.
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In real life, we often meet such a type of person, they have outstanding points that deeply fascinate you, make you fascinated by them, toss and turn for them, and touch every emotional cell in your body for them. You give a gift to the other party, the other party will accept it, and talk to you a few words, the other party will not or very little contact you, and the contact is more about what you really need to do for work and study. You want to enhance the relationship with the other person, and the other person's attitude is far away.
Attention, at this point, it's almost certain that you're just a talking object that satisfies the wonder of their current state of being in love, or satisfies their sense of emptiness and satisfaction. You basically don't have the attraction to him, and he basically doesn't want to be your boyfriend and girlfriend as a public boyfriend and girlfriend, both men and women have vanity, in a word, they feel that you are not worthy of them, and lead you to be rough, which is really cheap (although it hurts, but the truth is so cruel), at this time, what should you do???
Behavior 1, self-drugged and confused type, the biggest characteristic of this kind of person is self-comfort, self-healing, self-hope, repeatedly confusing and uncertainty, wasting their energy and endurance, and finally trying to commit suicide in uncertainty step by step, the result is basically that you are a good person, I don't feel good about you, let's still be friends and so on.
Behavior 2, awakened and fantasizing and away from the type, the biggest characteristic of this type of person is that he has a certain understanding of himself (poisoning is not deep, big brother), after a period of temptation, I found that the other party really treats you as a baby, your self-esteem is very good, and you decided to cool down and stay away from ta! But I feel so embarrassed and reluctant, the most important performance, treating the other party colder than usual, and from time to time I wonder if he will come to you, apologize, say I like you, wake up, wake up big breasts
Behavior 3, turn the head of the gun and the village type, this kind of person has a strong sense of task, I am looking for the object during this time, but it is not you! I'm not going to hang myself from a tree! This kind of person sees that the form is not good, and he tries again in the next one, the most important performance, hey, you weren't chasing that person two days ago, why did you say that you have a partner today, you bad old man.
Behavior 4, ambiguous and tacit understanding of each other's spare tires, this manifestation is, haha you tell Zheng that the butterflies are surrounded, lingering in the flowers below, you should be in the bottom for the fetus, and in the next regard for you as tai! Haha, C is afraid of C!
What are the results of the different solutions corresponding to those behaviors?,Next time I'll combine the different results caused by the different behaviors of the people around me.,Update.,Please listen to the next breakdown!!
He wants to think about whether you like him or not Well, he hasn't been online for a long time, maybe it's an escape, he must not be the kind of boy who messes with flowers and grass, I think he has a crush on you too, well, you told him that it was a misunderstanding, maybe he thinks you don't like him, well, I think whether he likes you or not, whether you like him or not, don't pierce that layer of window paper, just keep it a feeling, I guess, if you're with that guy, that guy should be your first love, if it's your first love, it feels good, you don't need to say it, wait until you're a little older The feelings of the people around you have enough experience for you At that time, if you are still studying together, I think you can have a relationship, but on the premise of protecting yourself, this protection has a variety of meanings, not only physical, but also learning, if you are too young and inexperienced, it is easy to miss a good relationship and hurt yourself Just maintain the purest relationship with him To paraphrase a sentence, you must endure loneliness It's good for each other Well, having said so much, not including what happened when his family was off the Internet, I really hope you can be happy :)
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